sacrificing love for ma...wat a noble thing to do

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Aditi

@adoremevirgo

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

if olympics had best son competition then surely dev wud hv won the gold...

love is not an object to be sacrificed...even if i am ready to excuse him for realizing so late that his mom doesnt approve sona...i wud be happy if he wud say sona that he needs time to talk and convince his mom before going ahead with the relationship...u dont tell someone to just walk away from ur life even for the sake of ur parents...noone can be more than parents its true but that other person is also a human being with feelings...

if dev has the guts to propose and choose a girl for himself widout mommy darling's permission then he shud also be man enuf to fight the odds that his mom may create one day...it was wrong for him to assume that his mom will be happy by his happiness which is not true we can see that...standing on assumptions he made all sorts of promises to sona and gave her beautiful dreams...today all of a sudden he cant say lets break up since my mom doesnt approve u...a son wont place his mom in a position that later on wen she will realize her mistake she will regret for spoiling his son's happiness...

today if dev breaks up with sona and sona refuses to come back in his life later even if ishwari goes to her then i cant blame sona...but wat will happen is that dev will be unhappy for life and ishwari will always blame herself for that...if dev truly loves his mom then he wont gift her a life of guilt but will sit and talk to her and try to come to a solution...after all she is a mother...if dev properly sits and talk then she is bound to understand because after all sona is a nice girl and fit for her son...

no i will never approve dev's decision to break up...sona also has a family...by hurting sona dev is also gving immense hurt to her parents...for the sake of his own mother he cant take all other ppl for granted...but yes today i felt for ishwari since she realized that she shud be happy for her son just like sona's parents r happy for their daughter...

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Aiswarya

@ash_devnarshi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Dev will get best beta award and Mataji ll get worst mom award 😆

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vibg

@vibg

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Posted: 9 years ago

as sonakshi said "when it comes to your mom, always you have aank pe patti". and how conveniently Dev moves from "hum" to "main" at his convenience. wow.. how noble of him🤢

firstly, he never listens to sona and then comes to his conclusions at Maa's face value😡 quickly jumps to her ego, tum log, your baba misunderstood.. what a fool😭 zero ko hero samjha liye😆

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mayu1982

@mayu1982

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+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

Alteast India would have won one gold medal in Olympics.😭

Well there is two sides of this story-

Case 1- If I keep this love story aside, then if it take into some basic things into account- A widow of 4 kids, whose son is in love,but mother is not happy with that relationship. So Boy ends the relationship for the sake of that mother. Yes Boy is not wrong for mother and for society.

Case 2- If I take into the account of love story ingredients, then Dev has definitely Dev has given assurance in every point of romance , that he is with Sonakshi and will never leave him . If I place myself in Sonakshi Character, and same thing would have happened .I would have a given slap to that person and kicked him .
Imagine boy comes to a girl says that he can't go ahead with the relationship because his mother is not happy and in danger because of their affair. From I love you as man loves a woman to Behena Milti rahena😆.
So Boy is definitely wrong for girl period.

Inshort Dev is wrong and right at the same time

Edited by mayu1982 - 9 years ago

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babli1

@babli1

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Posted: 9 years ago

I think Dev breaks up in spur of moment where in his mom is on death bed, he would feel that this would save his mom. Definitely moms life is way more precious than broken hearts.

But he will soon realize that he saved mom but killed himself and Sona.

Only when he see wicked side of mom, he will change, let's see what's in store by cvs

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 9 years ago

Yes Dev has time and again proved that he has a LOT to learn about 'love'.. He might call it love if he wants, but it's definitely not.. And don't worry, he is gonna learn it hard way..

As for punishment there is a poem in Bengali by Tagore :

"Onnay je kore ar onnay je shohe tobo ghrina jeno tare trinoshomo dohe"

(Those who commit injustice and those who forbear it, Let them blaze like hay in the fire of your indignation)

Dixit family as a whole come under the this quotation.. And they will face the consequences soon👏