Why did Iswari dislike Sonakshi Bose?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Iswari Dikshit. The sole owner of Iswari Nivas. The mother of Business Tycoon Dev Dikshit.The mother of three well brought up daughters.Neha,Ria and Nikki.
Iswari's Kingdom is secure,peaceful and normal till the entrance of her Nutritionist Dr Sonakshi.
Every thing went on smoothly for some time. Iswari's health recovered. She started liking her nutritionist for her dedication and commitment. She even considered her as one of her family members.

Neha fell in love with Ranbeer. After a little turmoil the marriage happened much to the delight of Iswari and Dev. Iswari did not have any objection to Neha falling in love before marriage.Reason she was relieved to find some one like Ranbir who is strict,rigid and firm in following his heart,tame her fierce Neha with his unconditional love.Neha is stubborn but at some point she becomes vulnerable and submissive before Ranbir whenever a misunderstanding happens. That is enough for Iswari. So she went ahead and blessed them wholeheartedly.

When Iswari gradually realised Dev's love for Sonakshi the ground under her feet crumbled. Scene after scene she realised how powerful Sonakshi's influence is on Dev.The final blow came to her when Dev sat in Puja on Sona's insistence.
Iswari has no problem with Natasha because that girl is career oriented unlike Sona. Natasha is homely and at the same time not much into domestic things. She loved Dev's family she won them with her good nature but she would never have taken active part in maintaining the house or looking after everything. Iswari liked that aspect of Natasha perhaps. Natasha will support Dev in his profession but at home it will be Iswari who will be the boss .

So why did Iswari dislike Sona?
First thing Dev loved her madly to the extent of forgetting Iswari and preferring Sonakshi without inhibitions. The blanket scene proved this fact.
Sonakshi likes to make her point on any occasion on any thing and has the ability to convince Dev with her logic and reasoning. The Puja scene proves the fact.
Sonakshi interferes in the functioning of the kitchen and the house.She is the nutritionist only for Iswari but she meddles in other's menu also. Iswari likes to see her children eat well as they are young and can eat and digest whatever they want. Ofcourse little health disturbances will be there. But naturally mothers would always want to see their children eat properly.
Iswari sensed danger when Dev refused to eat her halwa.She understood that her Kitchen is going to be overtaken by a nutritionist Bahu who will never allow her children to eat well

Sonakshi is a go getter in the true sense. She will fight for victory. Till she achieves her aim she won't rest.She knew that Iswari did not find her perfect for Dev. Her ego was hurt.She started demanding Iswari's love very openly not giving her respite.
She admitted so boldly I know I am not your choice but I am your son's choice.
That line itself is enough to make Iswari sulk and grumble.
No mother however modern she is would never like to hear it from the girl herself.

Sonakshi doesn't want to leave anything to time. She indirectly reminded Iswari that she should be accepted just like Iswari was supported by her mother in law in the past.
Iswari retorted by saying she was chosen by her mother in law where as Sonakshi had the affair right under her nose.

In a way Sonakshi challenged Iswari without giving her time.
It would have been good if she left her job and joined her hospital and concentrated on her profession.
Iswari would have thought leisurely convinced herself for Dev's happiness .

Why should Sonakshi pressurise Iswari ? It would have been better if she and Dev waited for Iswari's
Reconciliation . That would definitely have worked in their favour.
Sona's family gave Iswari the shock of her life.
Their unexpected visit and Elena's irrelevent revelations must have suffocated Iswari to the maximum.
She got desparate,confused and resorted to selfblame before she took the overdose of pills.

Note.to the makers: already Iswari is targeted from every corner.Dont ruin her Charecter even more by showing her search a bridegroom for Sonakshi. Iswari as a mother have every right to have her take on her would be Bahu.Indian Family system gave her the right. Even my mother says so.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree with you.. i have been watching this show regularly...though we may dislike ishwari and her attitudes,the truth is,this is how most of the mother-in laws in at least our society still feel...
The idealistic scenario where the MIL accepts the bahu whole heartedly is good to imagine,but occurs v rarely..at least in the initial phase. Especially so in cases like this where the mother is a widow and where the son has been the center of her universe till now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I respect your POV.

But according to me. Why she dislike Sona is clear by now. It's only her obsession for her son. She is thinking Sona is taking her place in his life. Which is totally untrue... Sona has made Dev understand he needs to spend quality time with family too. Dixits need to interact, this is what Sona is making Dev understand.

But here Ishwari is scared of sharing her son with any girl. Even when it was Natasha she didn't shared her unhappiness because it was also about Dev's business. She's not happy that someone else is bringing changes in Dev. But is blind towards the fact that it is good for Dev and his happiness.

And i beg to disagree. Sona is a career oriented girl. It was Dev who forcefully made her join as his mom's personal nutritionist. And for her trying to gel with Ishwari. Her first priority right now is her personal life. There are times, when you want to give more importance to your personal life and she is just doing that. That doesn't make her less inclined towards her career. And for the way she talks on face, her family is like that. They are frank, and she has been bought up this way since childhood. She speaks her heart out and don't believe in keeping thing to herself.

This is what my POV is.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi all... i am new to this forum I am i am ardent follower of every show as far as possible.. reason being just mere time pass .. I agree with topic maker's POV for some practical reasons as sighted by the topic maker. BTW i am half bengali & we are only 2 sisters. The reasons i am saying all this are

1. As a bengali or as a girl i have never seen anyone to go for a marriage proposal like this and with the younger generation of the family. on top of that so talkitive in front of elders. I feel it has nothing to do with modernity or feminism it has to do with manners

2. I totally agree with sona that her dad was overreacting . I felt as a father or as an elder he was totally justified in all prior situations but not yesterday's . If he was biased Asha should have make him understand or sona's grandma

3. How many of us will take this happily if my brother discusses what to gift to mom or us to her gf when prior to this he took our mom for the same

4. If being included in the family photograph was wrong then how come deciding food of dev or family members is correct to her? she is nutritionist of Ishwari Dixit only

5. Acceptance come from love and care not pressurising. Sona is desperate to win her

6. Coming to someone's life enhances you doesn't separate you from others. Priority is shared not avoided. Dev is a businessman so it cant be the fact that he cannot understand people. I guess he just took his family for granted that whatever he does will be accepted by all .

7. as far as ishwari's POV is concerned she has problem with sona because according to her for sona dev is ignoring everything important to his life .

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