Is putting effort for impressing someone a sign of weakness?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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All human beings go through this face
be it in school life to achieve good grades by keeping good relation with teachers
by sharing good equation with seniors at college or workplace.
That putting of effort is termed as "networking"
and if its not done people consider such person as a non opportunist
but in case of Sona ok I agree she should not overdo it but what is wrong if she is putting effort to be accepted?
So my question is -is putting effort a sign of weakness(in moderate amounts)?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sona is trying to be good to a wrong person as who is so cunning and stupid and mad of her son ..
Poor sona ...sona they don't deserve u..pls walk out..let them understand ur value one day and come behind u begging...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sona is doing absolutely right thing on her part!but the problem is that the person in front of her is already clouded by her insecurities and not able to see clearly!! hoping to see some clarity in her mind in future!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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No ! Absolutely there is nothing wrong in that. .but Sona knows that Ishwari is demeaning her intentionally. . Is looking down upon her. . Still she keeps going back to her. . To even be more insulted.
She is not wrong at all. . But she is so consumed by making herself perfect for his family that she forgets that she has her own identity too. .she owes it to her family too.
Edit: To add, Ishwari makes her feel like she is a misfit in the family. . It makes Sonakshi doubt on herself. . Whether she is good enough for Dev. Bijoy is fearing the same, that Sonakshi is made to realise that she has to change for she is not perfect, while they aren't willing to change at all.
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