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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: yyy



Does he really know what RR says to Sona. ...he is not at home to see what happens in the entire day ..whenever RR has insulted Sona in front of him he has reacted except when he was sick
..he was sick and tired..he could hardly talk ...

Does Sona communicate with Dev ? Did she tell him about the phone incident. ...when RR will insult Boswell family it will be Dec who will standem against her for Sona. ...

I know people are angry at him but why do we forget about his good qualities or his love towards Sona ...seeing his mom in that condition he took a implusive decision which he shouldn't have ...he deserves a chance to rectify his mistake...if Sona really loves him she will understand his dilemma and will give him a chance ...


Give chance for what. Dev will never speak against his mother, let alone act against his mother's wish. Ishwari as we know now has completely rejected Dev-Sona relationship. So chance for what really. If staying together means more pain to Sona because Dev would never hear a word of reality against his mother's wrong doings, and his mother and aunt will keep scolding and putting Sona down all times. I want Dev-Sona to remain separate forever. The question now is not If Dev and Sona are together but will Dev have enough courage to speak in front of Ishwari without considering her as ultimate God who cannot do anything wrong. What does Dev want, to hold on to Sona forever as a GF, because Ishwari would never ever agree for Dev to get married, at least till the time she is alive. What's the fault of Sona and her family who wish to see there daughter happily settled down. Just my POV.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Not me .I wanted this Sona.I happy CV's gave it.He need some dose .

i agree 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: AV25

Seriously ishwari needs psychiatric counselling. Her condition is ruining the trio's lives.



For sure she needs it.CV's can show this also.Dev finding something different in his mom.Then deciding his mom need counseling.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i am sure many of you will throw rotten tomatoes at me for this post.I am not feeling bad for either Dev or Sona.
many of you say that sona is an independent woman and blah blah blah... but i dont get to see any of her independent woman spirit since the day of her accident. agree that she was hopelessly in love but that should not stop her from giving it back to RR. there wereample opportunities for her to reply back to RR, with dignity of course, but she chose to remain silent. its her own mistake that she is being treated that way by RR.
1. for instance every one is complaining that Dev never said anything to RR when she was insulting sona during his fever time. in the first place, why does sona need DEV to answer for her???? can't sona reply that she had come to check on Dev's fever so that she can give prepare a healthy food for him too? that would have quietened mami.
2. about dev not saying anything to RR during the recent SBS segment, dont you realise that dev never wanted to discuss anything about his personal life or choices in RR's presence. He literally asked her to get out before he informed eshwari about his love. to him what RR has to say or feels doesn't really have any value. Any person in a right state of mind will never react to something that he/she considers insignificant.
3. everyone is eager playing the victim card for Sona, but seriously did she not make empty promises like not leaving him, even if he leaves her, or standby his every decision, make his family her own... so on and so forth before even thinking. an independent woman who values herself would like to be a part of every decision making process and will not blindly standby her partner. she knows that Eshwari may like her but her perspectives regarding a DIL are very different. if anyone can recollect, there were a number of instances where eshwari ridiculed her initially that she does not have the woman like qualities -like cooking , sewing etc... and during roy's case, eshwari also advised her that man and woman cannot be equal and so sona needs to be timid and a bit more tame in front of him.. weren't these hints enough for Sona to understand that DEV may be forth coming in accepting Sona as a strong influence, but Eshwari cannot find the qualities that she looks for her DIL in her. she should have worked on them before asking Dev to come clean about their relationship. Sona also needs a restrospection to realise that giving oneself completely in a relation does not equate to loosing ones self esteem. she is yet to learn this .


coming to Dev, yes he did make many promises to Sona, but if we carefully watch the show at every point his priority was his mother. she was GOD for him and dev time and again said that he can and will act very irrationally when it comes to his mother. so he deciding to break the relationship is also a part of the irrational DEV. this shows though he feels he had changed, a part of him is essentially the same... the irrational part concerning his mom... Now he needs to work on this part to better himself as a person as he promised Sona. while he works on this, he is bound to get bruised , blackened and also burnt. A diamond shines only when polished and polishing does cause abrasions.. ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomramblings

i am sure many of you will throw rotten tomatoes at me for this post.I am not feeling bad for either Dev or Sona.

many of you say that sona is an independent woman and blah blah blah... but i dont get to see any of her independent woman spirit since the day of her accident. agree that she was hopelessly in love but that should not stop her from giving it back to RR. there wereample opportunities for her to reply back to RR, with dignity of course, but she chose to remain silent. its her own mistake that she is being treated that way by RR.
1. for instance every one is complaining that Dev never said anything to RR when she was insulting sona during his fever time. in the first place, why does sona need DEV to answer for her???? can't sona reply that she had come to check on Dev's fever so that she can give prepare a healthy food for him too? that would have quietened mami.
2. about dev not saying anything to RR during the recent SBS segment, dont you realise that dev never wanted to discuss anything about his personal life or choices in RR's presence. He literally asked her to get out before he informed eshwari about his love. to him what RR has to say or feels doesn't really have any value. Any person in a right state of mind will never react to something that he/she considers insignificant.
3. everyone is eager playing the victim card for Sona, but seriously did she not make empty promises like not leaving him, even if he leaves her, or standby his every decision, make his family her own... so on and so forth before even thinking. an independent woman who values herself would like to be a part of every decision making process and will not blindly standby her partner. she knows that Eshwari may like her but her perspectives regarding a DIL are very different. if anyone can recollect, there were a number of instances where eshwari ridiculed her initially that she does not have the woman like qualities -like cooking , sewing etc... and during roy's case, eshwari also advised her that man and woman cannot be equal and so sona needs to be timid and a bit more tame in front of him.. weren't these hints enough for Sona to understand that DEV may be forth coming in accepting Sona as a strong influence, but Eshwari cannot find the qualities that she looks for her DIL in her. she should have worked on them before asking Dev to come clean about their relationship. Sona also needs a restrospection to realise that giving oneself completely in a relation does not equate to loosing ones self esteem. she is yet to learn this .


coming to Dev, yes he did make many promises to Sona, but if we carefully watch the show at every point his priority was his mother. she was GOD for him and dev time and again said that he can and will act very irrationally when it comes to his mother. so he deciding to break the relationship is also a part of the irrational DEV. this shows though he feels he had changed, a part of him is essentially the same... the irrational part concerning his mom... Now he needs to work on this part to better himself as a person as he promised Sona. while he works on this, he is bound to get bruised , blackened and also burnt. A diamond shines only when polished and polishing does cause abrasions.. ...


👏👏...love your PoV...amazing post ...you need to make a separate post so that people can read this
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M



Bang on post 👏👍🏼.Whatever Sona doing is right.Let him fight openly for her first.


Thank you :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47
I just watched friday epi.When Sona shared her doubt reg Ishwari not liking her or trying to like her.Dev did not get her point.Said U r talking this small thing on ur ego.He is not ready to see diff side of his mom.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: randomramblings

i am sure many of you will throw rotten tomatoes at me for this post.I am not feeling bad for either Dev or Sona.

many of you say that sona is an independent woman and blah blah blah... but i dont get to see any of her independent woman spirit since the day of her accident. agree that she was hopelessly in love but that should not stop her from giving it back to RR. there wereample opportunities for her to reply back to RR, with dignity of course, but she chose to remain silent. its her own mistake that she is being treated that way by RR.
1. for instance every one is complaining that Dev never said anything to RR when she was insulting sona during his fever time. in the first place, why does sona need DEV to answer for her???? can't sona reply that she had come to check on Dev's fever so that she can give prepare a healthy food for him too? that would have quietened mami.
2. about dev not saying anything to RR during the recent SBS segment, dont you realise that dev never wanted to discuss anything about his personal life or choices in RR's presence. He literally asked her to get out before he informed eshwari about his love. to him what RR has to say or feels doesn't really have any value. Any person in a right state of mind will never react to something that he/she considers insignificant.
3. everyone is eager playing the victim card for Sona, but seriously did she not make empty promises like not leaving him, even if he leaves her, or standby his every decision, make his family her own... so on and so forth before even thinking. an independent woman who values herself would like to be a part of every decision making process and will not blindly standby her partner. she knows that Eshwari may like her but her perspectives regarding a DIL are very different. if anyone can recollect, there were a number of instances where eshwari ridiculed her initially that she does not have the woman like qualities -like cooking , sewing etc... and during roy's case, eshwari also advised her that man and woman cannot be equal and so sona needs to be timid and a bit more tame in front of him.. weren't these hints enough for Sona to understand that DEV may be forth coming in accepting Sona as a strong influence, but Eshwari cannot find the qualities that she looks for her DIL in her. she should have worked on them before asking Dev to come clean about their relationship. Sona also needs a restrospection to realise that giving oneself completely in a relation does not equate to loosing ones self esteem. she is yet to learn this .


coming to Dev, yes he did make many promises to Sona, but if we carefully watch the show at every point his priority was his mother. she was GOD for him and dev time and again said that he can and will act very irrationally when it comes to his mother. so he deciding to break the relationship is also a part of the irrational DEV. this shows though he feels he had changed, a part of him is essentially the same... the irrational part concerning his mom... Now he needs to work on this part to better himself as a person as he promised Sona. while he works on this, he is bound to get bruised , blackened and also burnt. A diamond shines only when polished and polishing does cause abrasions.. ...


I really like your POV.I mean Sona just cannot be BECHARI types all the time and rely on Dev to take stand without knowing anything.
Rather than directly giving it back to GKB or Ishwari(as I feel it always gets ugly when you reply back your elders even if they are wrong specially when you are a would be DIL) she should have told Dev what all is happening in the house in his absence.DEV NEEDS TO BE AWARE.Taking a stand is a different thing altogether but I feel a wrong person must be exposed.
Dev would not have believed her at first place as he his blinded by his Mother GOD but at least he would start noticing.It takes time to win trust of the people. Ishwari has spent 28 years building trust on Dev and eventually the level of trust that she has built is so strong that Dev cannot see her inhuman side which she is playing with Sona. Sona could have at least kept telling Dev on as in when it happens basis what all rubbish things his MOM and GKB use to say to her without asking him to react to it.Soon Dev will himself react to it once he starts noticing that what Sona is saying is right.but seriously hiding something just for the sake of peace will destroy your credibility as other people are working hard in spoiling your image.
Edited by Shilky88 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#49
I tried feeling bad for him .. Especially looking at his lost face when she told him ... We are strangers .. But then his initial look was ok kind as if nothing happened. Hello! You just broke your girlfriend's heart for your own problem. She definitely has the right to protect her self respect. Would he let Ranveer treat Neha like this? Dont think so dear.
And then when he let his mother & mami let talk bad about Sonakshi in front of him .. Sorry .. No bad feeling left for him. He deserves to be treated like this only till he realises to respect Sonakshi. Strong Sona for me. Period
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good discussions going on here..both are not wrong I feel...
. Dev will go through a lot during this phase.. he'll realize the imp to balance a relationship... His Mom had been on a pedestal all his life, it's time for him to appreciate his love for Sona, if he truly does he will be a better person as what he said to Sona.. His mind will be able to think clearly and act rationally .. I feel these are the big changes he's going to achieve.. I hope it's not to late 😭

Sona loves him.. I think she' won't move on easily.. In her heart she will love him, lets see how he redeems himself is the question ...

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