According to me it's sona who gonna suffer more than Dev.. - Page 2

The one who gets dumped will suffer the most . It doesnt matter the reason for getting dumped , but the point is in spite of all the promises the man made , he decided to end the relationship because he didnt think she was that important in his life. This after all those promises and beautiful words that he spoke to her. When we take a look back we see that he has been all thru out selfish like his mom. Only his point of view is being considered. He is no different from her in many ways.
1) He took her job away so that she could become his mom's personal nutritionist .
2) Broke her marriage proposal so that she wont leave the city and destroyed their family image among their community .
3) when she tried to help his sis at late night party , he mistook her and scolded her for guiding his sis in a wrong way .
4) when she tried to get him and his sis to bond well he broke her phone.
5) when his mom humiliated her , he again brought her back .
6) GKB frequently insults her ...he knows it but he asks her to adjust /ignore ...not much action taken .
7)The way he tries that engagement ring on her hand ...no sensible human would do that .
8) Post confession he wants her to bond with his mom but he doesnt make an effort to bond with her parents
9) Most of the time , she looks like a glorified servant at his house.

She went thru a lot in that house ...just that all of us got carried away with their romance and nok jok...but if you think abt every episode , you will find that she has withstood humiliation and pain every other day in that house.

So yes I have great empathy for her. Hence I want to see Dev yearn for her😡

ATM I just want Dev to realize what is going on in ishawari's head ASAP

thats all

He needs to face the reality jitni jaldi ho sake..coz its making me restless

I cant imagine how much they both will suffer..but its gonna blow our minds off..
its crazy..sighh

Originally posted by: sjain

ATM I just want Dev to realize what is going on in ishawari's head ASAP

thats all

He needs to face the reality jitni jaldi ho sake..coz its making me restless

I cant imagine how much they both will suffer..but its gonna blow our minds off..
its crazy..sighh

Yes crazy is the word!! Did we realise we have made 509 pages. I thought yesterday we were at 500 ..9 pages in a day ...wow!! This track is driving us maddd!!

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I respect your pov but i beg to disagree with you. In any relationship, The amount of pain one will go through doesn't depend on who is the reason for that pain. Pain is what your heart will feel and decision is what your mind will take. Both are 2 diff things. What i feel is immediately after break-up Sona may break down but she will emerge more stronger than before. Dev may look brave after the break-up to make his mom feel better but soon he will break in to pieces and loose himself in this pain gradually. The simple reason is "FAMILY". For Sona, her family is her strength and for Dev, his family is his weakness. Sona is the only emotional support of Dev at present. After break-up, he will be left with none to share his pain. This is the exact reason why i feel Dev will suffer more may be even worse after break-up. This is just my pov.

I think sona and Dev both are suffer equal..

I think initially for the first few days or weeks Sona will suffer a lot while Dev will be busy getting his life back on track and proving to mommy dearest that he still loves her and to himself that he did the right thing by ending his relationship with Sona for mommy.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

The one who gets dumped will suffer the most . It doesnt matter the reason for getting dumped , but the point is in spite of all the promises the man made , he decided to end the relationship because he didnt think she was that important in his life. This after all those promises and beautiful words that he spoke to her. When we take a look back we see that he has been all thru out selfish like his mom. Only his point of view is being considered. He is no different from her in many ways.
1) He took her job away so that she could become his mom's personal nutritionist .
2) Broke her marriage proposal so that she wont leave the city and destroyed their family image among their community .
3) when she tried to help his sis at late night party , he mistook her and scolded her for guiding his sis in a wrong way .
4) when she tried to get him and his sis to bond well he broke her phone.
5) when his mom humiliated her , he again brought her back .
6) GKB frequently insults her ...he knows it but he asks her to adjust /ignore ...not much action taken .
7)The way he tries that engagement ring on her hand ...no sensible human would do that .
8) Post confession he wants her to bond with his mom but he doesnt make an effort to bond with her parents
9) Most of the time , she looks like a glorified servant at his house.

She went thru a lot in that house ...just that all of us got carried away with their romance and nok jok...but if you think abt every episode , you will find that she has withstood humiliation and pain every other day in that house.

So yes I have great empathy for her. Hence I want to see Dev yearn for her😡

Originally posted by: sowiee

I respect your pov... one thing is sure sona will emerge more strong than before as she already mention earlier that she is a strong women. . Dev may be worse.. moody , irritated all the day... but I m not saying he doesn't suffer more he will... but still see here I felt it's her... but dint know what is correct til the time we watch the episode.

Respect your point but disagree. It doesn't matter who initiated the break up. They will suffer both . not less not more both will suffer equally . when dev proposed sona it's not like that one get more happy and one get less. They both are equally happy to get their love and now dev proposing break up so they both are going to suffer But the only difference is that sona have her family to console her and less her pain and encourage her to move on. It doesn't make her pain any less but there is someone to share her pain but dev don't have anyone. He will be alone live with the guilty of breaking a girl Heart who he loves more than any one. I don't think it's easy for him let the girl go who changed his life,bring colors in his life.

Originally posted by: yyy

Yet she fell in love with him ..why ? There must be something in him which made her love him ...whatever you have written is correct but how can we forget what he did for her ...he did not spoil her mom's cake by purpose..it was a accident yet he went out of his way to get a cake for her mom's birthday ...can we forget what he did for her during accident track...the guy was just her boss yet he took care of her and did everything he could to ensure she got the best treatment ...he supported her family when they were broken and helpless ...

People say he got his love easily.. really ...if he did it's because he had the guts to express his love the day he realised without worrying about the consquence...he was ready to lose his dream project and for him sonakshi mattered the most .He never once blamed Sonakshi when he faced losses in business ...in fact he assured her that she was important to him than anything. ..he openly expressed his displeasure when Sona was not included in the family photo...he was not scared of his mom

We need to wait to see why he decided to breakup with Sona...he chose his mother's life over his GF...I know it's unfair but he could think of his happiness when his mother was on death bed ...in normal situation he would have reacted differently