For the very first time.... - Page 4

Originally posted by: ash_devnarshi

Totally my feelings
Thanks for this awsm post

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl

First of all It was wrong to drag sona in their family photo

If he wanted sona to be there, he should have informed family before

But what was the big deal? It was just a photo, not matter of life and death.. They were making faces like an alien.appeared in front of them from no where.

They all have expectation from Dev, but cant accept a girl (they know everything about her, not like she's a stranger) for him.

well written nd rightly expressed

That whole family is obtuse and delusional..I sorta get Nikki cos she has lived a really pampered life so she doesn't really understand the dynamics of the house..The rest of them are plain weird..So Mamaji told Ishwari today to tell Dev that she doesn't like Sonakshi..So what was he planning to achieve out of that ?Yeah its good to be honest instead of being passive aggressive but my question is do they actually expect him to ditch Sonakshi after that? And then there is Neha who is more worried about her mom's reaction rather than being happy for her brother..Instead of worrying and obsessing over it, cant these ppl share their concern with Dev? Atleast mamaji given how he seems to understand his sister the most and also knows how Dev is clueless..Why cant they just take the initiative and tell him to handle it with more sensitivity? Oh well thats too much to expect from this family 😆 And then there is Dev who is so ignorant of his surroundings that he is unintentionally making his family hate Sona..Am i the only one who found it offensive that Dev dint even bother to discuss Sonakshi with his sisters after confessing to his mom? Lets forget his sister's weird behaviour for a moment but Dev's absolute lack of concern just highlights my observation that he really does take everyone's consent for granted and he doesn't really have the habit of consulting/informing his family even when it comes to life altering decisions 😆 On a related note, if Dev was dating Natasha and he pulled her into the family photo as a surprise, would the family have reacted in a similar manner? I cant help but compare how drastically different their behaviour has been with both the girls..If only Sona was rich, if only she belonged to an influential family..All these immaterial things do matter at the end of the day..No one cares about how good you are as a person 😆

I have started feeling of suffocation. . I want cv's reveal fast ishwari's displeasure in devakshi's relationship. It's too much of emotional drama. It's so irritating to see how parasites behaving. All are selfish in dev's house no one bothered about him. No wonder Dev was taking sleeping prills and I doubt any one knows about it. Now I am so scared for Dev, after he comes to know about ishwari's realty, he might go into depression. And it would be hard to see sona breaking also. Now I need badly some light moments in the serial.

its going to hurt them when Dev and Sona will separate, his Mom will hurt the most!

Wish change could be accepted easily.. I do feel Dev is rushing a bit, I think he's too happy and since he's always suppressed his emotions he's rejoicing openly!

I think the family is not used to this change... I hope they don't regret their behavior!

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Neha was too much into her own bubble that she thinks if it goes with Ishwari ways of doing, she wouldn't let anyone get away from her hold... But this girl doesn't even know that nothing of that sort for any of the sisters... It's only for Dev as she's worried more about his hold on her... What if he let goes of the hold on her... Where will she go?? Is their bond that weak?!! Isn't the mother confident enough about her own love and affection for her own son?! Is Ish only worried about the changes that she had to go through?

That sure is a concern in any family... They sure have to accommodate a new person's entry into their lives... But here... the scene is turning very very ugly... Or is it only for today's episode which turned out differently?!

For some reason , I would like to give the family one more episode for redeeming themselves. atleast the sisters... I want Neha to have a conv with Dev and sona and tell them that she is happy for them.. or have a conv with ishwari and confront what she did during the photo session.

Neha had her doubts initially that Maa would not have accepted wholeheartedly. she knew maa did not accept even Natasha...here dev just announced that he and sona selected each other as jeeva saathi... so it is more like an announcement and asking if she is happy... but in natashas case dev was including ishwari in his decisions and actually asking her to make the decision for him...

I will we will see support coming from Neha, Riya and nikki over the next few episodes... I am surre they will help dev and sona during the separation track as well...

for now I will not totally write them off...give them a couple more episodes... it is difficult to show many emotios in one 20 min episode..

but It was heartbreaking to see devs reaction to ishwaris dialogues... Ishwari is very cold and that is expected from her...
It is just that she wants to be the No.1 priority for his son his whole life... she doesn't mind if sona is No.2.. But she cant risk her spot and she sees that she is losing it surely given how dev is acting lately.

Originally posted by: gmgi

When the financial problem came Neha's first reaction was Bhai se loan lenge. Now when she knows that he is in love her first concern is their mother. So he is good enough only as an ATM with no emotions who is supposed to lead a robotic life for the family welfare. For him always his families happiness came first until now. First time he decided for himself and was genuinely happy no one is even accepting that. Very strange. Now I really understood what he meant when he said that nothing this beautiful has ever happened in his life and he is contented and happy with it referring to their falling in love with each other.

Originally posted by: LiveLoveLife

You nailed it! Thats exactly what I felt.

What are the Makers / CVs upto??? difficult to understand.

I guess it's all about Ishwari, the great manipulator. All these years she's been playing the game so well that every single family member is worried about her happiness and no one else. For the first time I really felt very sad for the guy.