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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: GoodyTwoShoes

I hardly feel for male lead that too hairy one😆

But I pity Dev.he does not deserve this family.i might sound rude but he surely does not deserve and even though he might act dumb in future he surely deserves sona after having this selfish family.
-each and every sister is legit selfish .during Natasha time they were so hapoy and exited and enjoying Natasha combat for shopping and all.that time they did not think about mommy insecurity.
They are not exited even for minute for their Boeing rude brother being in love.
Mamaji is wrong at some place specially where he is always easy to give pep talk to his sister.why why why...why everything has to be about ishwari?? If she does not want to be happy ..nobody nothing can make her happy ever.
Dev is back to his straight forward nature and is one who takes everything at face value like almost every man.he is overconfident of his mother's. And it's not his mistake..his mother has kept him in that bubble till now even though she is totally opposite and super selfish.so he is so happy and feel after confession and mommy acceptance everything is fine..and his most important two ladies are beside him with all live and supporting.i legit pity him.i have no clue how heartbreaking would it be for him to know what actually his mother thinks..he obvusoly would not leave her or hate her but I am sure he won't be able to idolise her if her true face comes in front of him.
Anyways I totally felt for Dev throghout and being sidelined in everyone priority gives me heartbreak.nobody is on his side ..and ko wonder why he needs sona so badly.she is family to him in true sense.she actually make every relation emotions complete with Jim..be it care and understanding ans pampering like mother,guide and support like father,beinv playful and living childhood like sister,/friend.and connect to him like soulmate.he would do pretty well without his family if he is with sona only...he should just run away with sona..till now I was saying sona to run away..but it should be dev😆
And about photo thing..they just blew out of proportion.it was nothing weird or something out of box...mommy was mean in precap..period


Lovely post. The one in bold completely agree.😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
Amazing post yet again dear... love the way you write..
thank u so much for posting it so fast...to cheer us all up... esp me...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#13
My heart goes out for him is all I can say.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: gmgi

When the financial problem came Neha's first reaction was Bhai se loan lenge. Now when she knows that he is in love her first concern is their mother. So he is good enough only as an ATM with no emotions who is supposed to lead a robotic life for the family welfare. For him always his families happiness came first until now. First time he decided for himself and was genuinely happy no one is even accepting that. Very strange. Now I really understood what he meant when he said that nothing this beautiful has ever happened in his life and he is contented and happy with it referring to their falling in love with each other.


I don't think Dev even will think that way... He can never blame his family... He sure feels complete with Sona but he never had felt the need for his emotional with in his own house.. If sona hasn't come into his life he would have continued to live the same life in his own way without any complaints...

He has assumed a role of the shoulder, sharing their needs... May not be the emotional need but essential needs which slowly became the luxurious needs... And he's completely made his needs invisible to everyone...

It's like Dev vs everyone else... Poor Nikki.. I feel sorry for this little girl... Who really is genuinely happy for his brother.. But yet to show that chirpy moment of celebration for her brother's love... Will that moment come anytime in that house??!!🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
#15
I m in love with this serial.
This serial is only about mother son relationship.Cv's rnot showing the female lead as super woman.
Feeling bad for Dev...feeling bad for Sonakshi ...
For a mother it is most difficult to accept any other person .
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Posted: 9 years ago
#16
In most of the families once the son's marriage is fixed the to be DIL is happily called to attend all family functions. Even if there is a pooja in the house people will say beta you are the Lakshmi of the house and soon you would be a part of the family so you do the pooja
Here also Ishwari has told Dev that she has accepted Sona. Then why not let her be part of the family photo?

It is not Dev's behaviour that was weird. This family is abnormal and weird courtesy the mentally skewed and extremely selfish head of the family. dixits don't know how to share be it love or happiness. That is also the main reason they are lonely people on the inside.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17
Feel very sad for Dev and all such people. I am sure there are quite a few like him who are shackled by family, emotions, responsibility and who do not get the desired support from their families. it is a most miserable life. The only answer to this misery lies within. One must break free. not easy to do so, but has to be done. The sooner the better.




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Posted: 9 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: Buzzinnn...

I felt terrible terrible for Dev... Guess he was born to only go through difficulties!
I thought Dev was oblivious to things around him!!...Looks like the entire family is like that! 😕 😕

When Dev goes into depression will anyone feel for him?! Or even then will they feel for the son's mother who is more depressed seeing her son in depression?!🤪 They'll still feel bad for the mother & not him. Never!

Btw...missed you & your posts...🤗 As always a precise & a wonderful post!! 👏


Exactly... Everyone is focused one thing at a time now.. When Dev wasn't even interested in Natasha, everyone was boasting about him siding towards Natasha... As if they knew how much their brother loved NG... 😆 Now toh his brother's every action is speaking out loud that he loves her and there they are looking for ways to feed in Ishwari's heartache...

Yeah dear... 🤗 I missed being here too...

Imagine the same scene in Bose family ... The family portrait would be more than beautiful with all the love showered in every nook and corner.. Dev will sure not be there 'cos everyone will be holding on to him so close that he'll be completely covered up... 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#19
So fantastically put.👏 That is exactly what I have been feeling and thinking too I even put a post abot the contrast in 2 families. You are so right. Every one is thinking about only themselves, what about Dev? What about all his sacrifices and love that he showers. Is he just an provider and nothing more to them.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Exactly... Everyone is focused one thing at a time now.. When Dev wasn't even interested in Natasha, everyone was boasting about him siding towards Natasha... As if they knew how much their brother loved NG... 😆 Now toh his brother's every action is speaking out loud that he loves her and there they are looking for ways to feed in Ishwari's heartache...

Yeah dear... 🤗 I missed being here too...

Imagine the same scene in Bose family ... The family portrait would be more than beautiful with all the love showered in every nook and corner.. Dev will sure not be there 'cos everyone will be holding on to him so close that he'll be completely covered up... 😆


That is exactly what would have happened.😆

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