Balance - Page 5

Originally posted by: ARCH21

@Bold: Are you serious!!!!

well, she did try her insulting skills on Ranveer's family but was firmly shut up by mama & Ishwari.

Am not so sure about the shutting up this time...actually, am not even excited to see it anymore. It's just too obvious.

@Bold in green: These scenes are taking up more n more screen space. Probably would mean ignoring the whole episode.

Your fictional scenarios are far more entertaining anyways 😃

Are the makers under pressure to do something to increase TRPs? They can't just have lost their mojo after the 100 episode celebration!

Originally posted by: ARCH21

@Bold: Are you serious!!!!

well, she did try her insulting skills on Ranveer's family but was firmly shut up by mama & Ishwari.

Am not so sure about the shutting up this time...actually, am not even excited to see it anymore. It's just too obvious.

@Bold in green: These scenes are taking up more n more screen space. Probably would mean ignoring the whole episode.

Your fictional scenarios are far more entertaining anyways 😃

Are the makers under pressure to do something to increase TRPs? They can't just have lost their mojo after the 100 episode celebration!

Originally posted by: bookworm123

@ Malvika and ARCH

Girl and girl family humiliation scenes are topmost on my hate list. I was thankful to this show for sparing me such horrors till date. Looks like i rejoiced too soon. In KRPRAB V2.0, all the usual soap opera gimmicks will make an appearance...

Even if this scene was introduced to give Bose family a reason to question Dev about his family's ability to respect their daughter, it is a needlessly heavy handed approach. Parasitic mamiji with a worthless son of all people has no basis to insult a doc and her family. In the first place Bose family visiting without informing is cringe worthy. Yes, Dev did visit Ranveer w/o informing but that was just 1 person and not the whole platoon! Anyway I will stop trying to jump to conclusions w/o viewing the episode but recent episodes have depleted my trust quota..

Originally posted by: Malvika07

Yeah, I just saw the segment, and RR's stupid taunts have started in full swing. Even I am not excited to see these kind of scenes now. It just seems so unlike KRPKAB to take this approach, only for TRP.s If they don't give us 2 proper Devakshi scenes per episode I will again start cribbing, or better yet, not watch.

Thank you! Glad to know you like them😃

Originally posted by: Malvika07

Same. I hate it when the Bose family are not taken seriously by all the Dixits. I don't know how Ishwari is gonna react to RR's taunts, going by her recent behaviour, I am not very hopeful.

You're right. The entire Bose family arriving without warning is disturbing and so unlike them. They were supposed to be the mature ones! Dev visiting Ranveer's family w/o informing was something so typical of Dev, that I ignored it. But I never thought the Boses would do something like that. Anyway, I think I should reserve judgement till the episode is aired.

Originally posted by: ranjitha

Too much too soon does more harm than good !

I am married to a person whose world revolved around his mom. His mom was not as possessive as Ish , but I could see the hurt in her eyes when slowly his priorities changed and he built a small nest around me and him. Life is all ok now for these reasons:

1. He was never a love sick puppy. He is still an angry young man to the world but an extremely lovable son and a husband; his characteristics didnt change with my entry into his life.

2. I never ever forced myself on her... I gave her all the time in the world to accept me in her and his life... She appreciated that space and accepted me wholeheartedly.

3. We plan events with our respective mothers so that we get to be just the daughter and son for some time in a month and that maintains the secure feeling in both of our moms.

Ofc he learnt a few things the hard way but I was strong enough to convince him to balance and never bring my selfish love or possessiveness between him and his mom and my MIL also put in an earnest effort to accept the change and now am part of her world !

What changed? Now he sees her with open eyes; he sees the right and wrong without covering it up with a empathetic maa sentiment and thats the only change I ever expected from him.. Love your mother but not blind folded

Ish is lot more vulnerable than the usual maas and saas' and pouncing on her with new relationships will harm her and her relationships with everyone else.

More than anything, hero changing from angry young man to a college going lover is 'been there done that' thingy !

Originally posted by: ARCH21

Ah! That is a beautiful journey you have had. Thank you for sharing and may I add that's exactly what I would have loved to see in the show - real, sensitive, mature love.

The stage in the show now just seems like love completely changed the Man and made him blind to even basic sensitivities... Way too extreme & way too soon!

If these 2 are shown to separate now, what will be the reason & will we feel for them then?

If Dev causes a train wreck & then backs out of his relationship; that's just an immature person not knowing how to manage life - Dev definitely is not this!

The makers in their rush to enter the main plot seem to ignoring some very basic facts here...

Insecurities caused by rash action can't be the life issue they want to showcase!.