It really hurts because you care .......

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One another tension filled episode , the best part of todays episode was we could empathize with each of them . Hurt, stubborn, angry Ishwari is acting out and trying hard to hold on to to her past , to be that strong woman who once had the power over her kids , no matter how much she is angry at Dev and scold him , she end up hurting herself , bcz she knew the pain her words could bring to her son ...

And Dev , he is torn between his love and his mom. He doesn't even have a clue for his mom's irrational behavior . His hurt when he heard mom saying "Do I even have any right in this house" and "U learned how to disrespect ur mom..." oh poor Dev ... And as usual he turns to Sona for some answers in his dilemma , but only to get disappointed as she is doubting the depth of his love , which he thinks as the most absurd thing ... It was his desperate plea when he said "I NEED YOU" ...

But among all my heart went for SONA ... Whenever GKB taunts her , and she kept mum , many of us were mad for her silence . I always thought the reason for her silence with GKB is the same thing GKB always says " Nobody here listens to me " 😆 yes , you would only get hurt , if you care ... The time spent in Dixit house , has very well taught her about GKB's character to give a damn about her taunts because if you are going to wrestle a pig , you should be ready to get dirty .

I remembered one quote of Mark Twain

"Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience."

But today she was hurt , because she cared for Ishwari ... It was the question of her right over Ishwari ... She couldn't see Ishwari hurting herself , and her words about her role of Ishwari's doctor and nothing more broke her heart ... I am glad Ishwari's face reflected some remorse after GKB's words , you can always tell you are not in the right path , when wrong people start supporting you ... And the only person who have a solution for this scenario , is not taking the step forward ... She is already guilty of hiding their relationship from her parents , and now her insecurity is increasing as Dev is not ready to talk to his mother .

But I am not sure if she is doing the right thing by not telling Dev about Ishwari's behaviour towards her , she thinks it would make him feel bad , but its only going to create problems in the future . If the spoilers are true , the fight over halwa is an example , because Dev is under the blind assumption that his mom loves her like family and always supported and cared for her . Little he did know that the equation has changed since she found out about them ... The best thing I liked about their relationship is both of them are always honest , and always speak their mind... SO I REALLY WISH SHE DISCUSS ISHWARI'S CHANGED BEHAVIOR TOWARDS HER .

End of the day , everyone is aching , as it says its not ur enemies but its ur loved ones who can hurt you the most ... Happy for the precap finally our confused soul get some insight and thank Mamaji for that !!!!


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desigirl987 thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you ...👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful post!!! 👏
All this is happening because of miscommunication. All are hurt and they take it out on the one they love in turn getting hurt themselves because they do care. When you love someone you are also giving them the power to hurt you.

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