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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why is every1 calling dev coward.. Hw cn u guys just say dat..he is a no nonsense guy..he knws wat he is doing..nd he evn nw knws he is doing wrng with his mom as wel as sona... Try nd understand his inner turmoil..he nvr has felt such emotions..nd wen he is going through these emotions fr d first tym hw cn ny1 xpect him to act lyk a pro...he is bound to go somewer wrng..he himself wants to tel his mother abt sona bt somewer his fears r stopping him to do so..though he knws his mother wil tel yes fr his happiness..like his mother always tells him.. Tu khush toh main khush..
Bt stil somewer he has a fear of rejection..coz fr d first tym in his life..he has taken a decision fr himself fr his future ..according to him he is right coz he is very happy wid sona..he nvr evr thought he would face such a situation in lyf.. Coz he has always lived fr his mother's dreams..to fulfill her xpectations..he nvr has taken decisions by himself fr his personal lyf..he feels indebted to her fr wat she has done in past fr his education nd to giv a better lyf.. So he doesnt want to disappoint her in anyway..nd wants to see her happy..evn though he he is heartbroken nt happy frm inside..he wants to fullfill his duties..he thinks nothing is mre imp than fulfiling his duties nt evn himself..he wants to do every possible thing wich makes his mother happy.. He doesnt want to share abt sona coz he thinks she wil b hurt knowing abt it..he has always made his reponsibilities nd duties fr his family his priority..evn he nvr thought such beautiful thing wil evr happen in his lyf...hw only in a matter of sometime he cn prioritize himself..dat he loves sona.. He wants her forevr..dats y he is nt able to break d news to his mother..I LOVE DEV EVN MORE NOW..ONLY A PERSON WITH HIGH IQ WOULD UNDERSTAND THIS..

On the other hand sona is right in pointing out her fears..its very imp in a relationship to vocalise ur inner fears too.. I knw she is sensible understanding head strong straight forward clear headed..she nvr wil try to fit in nywer unwantedly unnecessarily til she doesnt feel sure abt wat is going on in her surroundings.. She has her own self respect fr wich she stood up..dats amazing..bt she is failing to understand dev's pov over this..every1 has flaws..my sona is a beautiful soul..i hope She slwly wil understand dat..


I have seen over possesive mothers nd ishwari is one of thm..they always want to control their child's life..their child should do nly wat she says..he should marry a gal of her choice nly..nobody should come close to him xcept her..he should nt listen to others at all.. Nd there is a long list to be continued..these small things r nt discussed nw a days.. Im glad they r being discussed openly that too on indian television.. Its a must watch fr all moms who hv sons..
Daughters r nvr being treated spcl nd close to heart..d saddening part of today's society..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Of Course Dev is not a coward but the fear in him has stopped him from speaking out to his mother yet she already knew Dev wanted to talk about Sonakshi it just took a split moment for Radha Rani dropping the bowl and Dev realized his fear and decided not to confess now , sure he will he just needs that confidence to stand up respectfully and tell his mother ha has chosen Sonakshi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Cent percent agree that dev is not a coward. If Radha rani bowl doesn't drop the bowl, he would have share it.
And it will take time for dev, a guy for whom all his accessories are brought by his mother, sister, secretary even clothes, how can he be frankly say to his mom that he wanna marry sona .
He will share his feelings with his mom and also make sona happy. We just need to keep patience. Such decision can't be take in a night.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with u...i didnt find him coward...not a zero percent...he is not a uper gero who go and say i love a girl...like a normal human...he was getiing all his courage to talk to his mother...when he was about to say...gkb tapak gayi...because of out side voice he stoped himself...he knows gkb kese hai...i think he did right .not to tell about sona at this point.gkb ke hoty howae acha kiya dev ne.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very very nicely written post!!👏👏👏what dev felt and did today was pure human nature and reaction in a situation like this!!!when u r 1000% indulged in a thought and some outer distraction breaks the flow,u r bound to become nervous n deviate from what u were about to do!!!kudos to CVs!!👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Liked your analysis. We all get way too judgemental by 1-2 episodes and in process miss the bigger picture.
Offcourse Dev wants to tell Ishwari everything n he doesnt want to disappoint Sona as well. He was hurt by Sona's tears n he straightaway went to tell his mother. But he somehow stopped, I feel its because of fear of rejection. His recent conversations wirh Ishwari has all been about Ishwari's expectation from Dev, in her own way Ish has told Dev that he has changed, he is no longer that son for whom his mother meant everything, n hence Dev keeps on asking her if she is angry, disappointed with her son. N he took the biggest decision of his life without thinking about her feelings, what if his mother doesnt like Sona.

Once everything is out in the open n Ish is not happy with his decision, he knows that wud be devastating for his relationship with Sona. He doesnt want to lose Sona but in his mind he is aware if decision needs to be made between Ma n Sona, he wud let go of his love.

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