DIL or step mother - ishwari decoded

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I know i know i have been making posts trying to see a point in why ishwari is behaving like she is... Just wanted to throw in a differnt perspective... As i am not liking the idea of comparing her feeling with the feelings of a wife or gf

she is not an average mom. She is different and moms like her do exist. It is just that they r showing every single feeling under magnifying glass we think it is wrong. She is not perfect but she is a mom and she loves her son and her son adores her. Once dev grew up, If he had continued to treat her as a mom instead of like a kid(we know the depths he could go for her mom from initial episodes) then she wouldnt be this way. So now she is confused if her dev gets married- will he be bringing her a daughter in law or a step mother.

I am sure everyone will be ok with the idea that a kid is jealous and possessive of the dad (her only survival and love) if he is falling for a girl or thinking of brining a step mom.

What do you guys think about this approach...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree Dev and Ishwari are close they speak mainly about her health his business and family responsibility and maybe there is mothers that cannot speak something other then business or family .
In earlier episodes Ishwari was told to also allow Dev to marry as Neha too is getting proposals and at that time Ishwari said Dev needs a good girl now I know lots of mothers find there is no perfect girl for their sons and that is fine I have no issue on that .
Ishwari when she finds Dev not talking to her she makes him feel guilty of the past her efforts to make him into what he is today and Dev on the other hand loves and adores his mother he will not go against her .
my problem with her is she is comparing young Dev to adult Dev she is still living in the past she does not want Dev been happy she wants him to make her happy if he falter she tells him about family responsibility and his business .
Ishwari cannot connect to her children
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bumping the post . Really want to debate from thus angle

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