The pieces all fit together, yet everything is falling apart.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sonakshi! Is not she trying to adjust each and every situation? Then why everyone is so insensitive to her. I felt so bad when Dev snapped at her. Yes, she does not know in what he had went through, but that does not her fault. She was just trying to see the other prospects of Ishwari's wish. Dev, you are definitely lucky that you have her. She came from a family which instills goodness, kindness and patience within her. That's why she is trying to fix every broken pieces of your life as she knew it will make you happy and you will be in peace. Because of her selflessness your mother is all healthy and hearty, other wise your Mami never escapes a chance to humiliate her. Please concentrate on this too not just judging her. For you everything will fall apart which she is trying to join one by one.

Yeah! You have flaws but that does not mean you will do wrong one after another to her and not bother about saying a sorry to her.


Sonakshi- yes like Dev you are not perfect too. Yet I want a tiny bit show off of your fierceness and self respect which we experienced in initial episodes. I know you are thinking you joined all the pieces but your forlorn look at night time gave it that everything some how is falling apart. So, please take step and make the right choice.



Thanks for reading.


Love🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agreed ..I hope we get a scene where dev tells sona .that it was wrong on his part to behave that way .somerhing on those lines
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Dev loves her ?? Yes a lot..he just be himself in front of her? Yes..they are wonderful together...yes..but all this does not justify the way he sometimes abruptly leave the conversation and snap at her.its common in relationship that when a partner does a mistake other one keeps calm and make it work all over again..so I don't have problem with sona saying sorry and all..sorry does not mean that someone has no self respect or anything like that..but I felt bad yesterday for sona...though i understand Dev and love him too.. but still I felt bad when even after that sorry he did not realise that he needs to be sorry for snapping at her in heat of moment..but he did not..that was feel bad moment for me..in cafe too he abruptly left midway..he should not have...next day sona said sorry and initiated the talks...man was right...he is mess and it's difficult to deal with him...now I am remembering joru ka gulam Wala thing..there also unless she said sorry he did not talk...that was all in humour but still..being a woman I feel for her ...I am no feminists but sometimes you just feel for her...he needs to understand her too ...now I am thinking about promo lines that" main bhi kuchh nahi kahti tum samjh Jana"... and I know it's so common and man don't take much interest in GF/wife family much ..but CV should show some instances where Dev takes interest in sona life...it's actually all mess of dikshit and family have been discussed since ages between devAkshi..which is good I mean they badly need this repair what onky sona can do..but Dev needs to ask about sona and her family too...try to gel with them and talk about sona " career. Too ..I know it's show plotline to have her in dikshit house ..but I think purpose is done and now they should talk about her going back to hospital...
Anyways I do trust devAkshi...they are perfect yet not perfect...😃😆
Sona fits them to T and complete their family.but she should not be taken for granted...she has done so many things for this family knowingly unknowingly...that even she would not know..Dev knows it and that's the reason he ends up coming to her for every problem...and listens to her too which I like. .but Dev remember she is also individual...she also has mood swings ,things to share...just sometimes try to see those things too..she might not need you as badly as you do for solving your problem but she would be super happy to get your support...anyways I hope CVs show some good scenes between sona family and Dev after approval..and one more thing..dikshit should do some Pooja for thanking God that they got t sona..they admit or not but she is the best thing that can ever happen to them😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stuti123

agreed ..I hope we get a scene where dev tells sona .that it was wrong on his part to behave that way .somerhing on those lines



Yes, he should say something...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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And one more thing..I hope they don't turn sona into another Dev for his family...like thinking and doing everything about them forgetting yourself..slowly she is getting into zone ..where they are showering her with unspoken responsibilities..she loves them all so she does it like Dev has been doing it...but i wish along all this already Dev takes care of her..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: stuti123

agreed ..I hope we get a scene where dev tells sona .that it was wrong on his part to behave that way .somerhing on those lines


oh!! how much I want it to happen...! Thank you so much 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: GoodyTwoShoes

Dev loves her ?? Yes a lot..he just be himself in front of her? Yes..they are wonderful together...yes..but all this does not justify the way he sometimes abruptly leave the conversation and snap at her.its common in relationship that when a partner does a mistake other one keeps calm and make it work all over again..so I don't have problem with sona saying sorry and all..sorry does not mean that someone has no self respect or anything like that..but I felt bad yesterday for sona...though i understand Dev and love him too.. but still I felt bad when even after that sorry he did not realise that he needs to be sorry for snapping at her in heat of moment..but he did not..that was feel bad moment for me..in cafe too he abruptly left midway..he should not have...next day sona said sorry and initiated the talks...man was right...he is mess and it's difficult to deal with him...now I am remembering joru ka gulam Wala thing..there also unless she said sorry he did not talk...that was all in humour but still..being a woman I feel for her ...I am no feminists but sometimes you just feel for her...he needs to understand her too ...now I am thinking about promo lines that" main bhi kuchh nahi kahti tum samjh Jana"... and I know it's so common and man don't take much interest in GF/wife family much ..but CV should show some instances where Dev takes interest in sona life...it's actually all mess of dikshit and family have been discussed since ages between devAkshi..which is good I mean they badly need this repair what onky sona can do..but Dev needs to ask about sona and her family too...try to gel with them and talk about sona " career. Too ..I know it's show plotline to have her in dikshit house ..but I think purpose is done and now they should talk about her going back to hospital...

Anyways I do trust devAkshi...they are perfect yet not perfect...😃😆
Sona fits them to T and complete their family.but she should not be taken for granted...she has done so many things for this family knowingly unknowingly...that even she would not know..Dev knows it and that's the reason he ends up coming to her for every problem...and listens to her too which I like. .but Dev remember she is also individual...she also has mood swings ,things to share...just sometimes try to see those things too..she might not need you as badly as you do for solving your problem but she would be super happy to get your support...anyways I hope CVs show some good scenes between sona family and Dev after approval..and one more thing..dikshit should do some Pooja for thanking God that they got t sona..they admit or not but she is the best thing that can ever happen to them😆



Thank you so much Sujata di. You write every thought of mine. I love Dev-Sonakshi to bits and I know they are not perfect. Dev needs to tone down his anger issues one by one. Okay it will be weird if they did not show these scenes, because Dev himself said he is a difficult man to live with. So, I am taking it his learning process. 28 years practice does not changes in a month. Sonakshi is here to change him bit by bit and it will only be relatable way. I am hoping, CV's will show his changing gradually. It will be really interesting.


As for Sonakshi, I really think she needs to leave Dixit house asap. It is really getting hopeless every time she faces Mami's taunt or humiliation. That's too much irritating. She needs to do something in this issue. She is trying to join the pieces of Dev's life and family but her family and her family remains oblivious from her day by day. It is frustrating too. Viewer's almost forgot Sonakshi is from Bose family. She almost have no scene with her mom and dad. This is really not done.


Anyways, May be I am overreacting, but a little bit care of Dev for Sonakshi will not hurt me.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Everything said and done Sona can't fix all the pieces together toll the time the Dixit family leaves the baggage of yester years away from them. They are dragging it from ages that ishwari struggled so much but at the same time she is one who let go of one of her child's future at stake. A human can't be right all the times.
We have seen in so many episodes that how she used to belittle sona's work as compared to that of dev. If she is not evil, she is not a saint either. I understand that she has lived all her life alone with the support of her son but that doesn't mean she would not allow him to be in peace. She had been indifferent towards sona at so many occasions but never has she complained but if dev also resorts to same practice than it would be difficult for her even to handle the situation as she is also a human being. She has a family too with responsibilities but she never complains regarding the same.
For me it is enough of her doing the damage control at dixit house now she should take control of her life first and foremost being her job at any hospital or whatever.
We have heard that love is selfless but it has to be at your own cost not to stake your family reputation. I wonder dev often visits sona's place and no neighbors or anybody at her home is aware.
Dev often says that he is like this but at some point of time sona would also outburst would he be able to take it. She has been at a receiving end since she has come to ishwari niwas one day she would also let go of her all pent up emotions n frustrations would he be able to take it.
DeV must thank god for bringing an angel in his distorted life who takes everything from his mother and maami so graciously without complaining and losing her cool.
One more thing crossed my mind with what ishwari had said regarding submission in front of God and how her son is devoid of that experience and feeling but what that son will do when his mother would want him to stay away from that one person whom he loves the most. Where will he go and what will he do then. Will he leave his mother or hate her as he hates god boz he believes god took away his father. His mother would also be snatching his happiness when she knows that whatever he has done till date is just for her and her daughters.he never thought one bit all these years about himself. He trusts his mother the most will he lose that faith in her.
I really don't understand when will stop blaming god for every single thing when they can't thank almighty for all what they have.

Really soon for such a long boring rant.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: GoodyTwoShoes

And one more thing..I hope they don't turn sona into another Dev for his family...like thinking and doing everything about them forgetting yourself..slowly she is getting into zone ..where they are showering her with unspoken responsibilities..she loves them all so she does it like Dev has been doing it...but i wish along all this already Dev takes care of her..


oh!! I so don't want it too...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prarthana33

Everything said and done Sona can't fix all the pieces together toll the time the Dixit family leaves the baggage of yester years away from them. They are dragging it from ages that ishwari struggled so much but at the same time she is one who let go of one of her child's future at stake. A human can't be right all the times.

Yeah!! That's my thinking too. Why the Dixits are always in the problem? Why not the Bose's? I mean Bose family is a perfect family and they takes everything as it comes their way. But they also have problems in their life, right? In these days Sonakshi is merely seen with her family. Like Dixit is her family now. That irks me sometimes. When will I see a scene when Bose family is in danger and Dev will help them like Sonakshi.


We have seen in so many episodes that how she used to belittle sona's work as compared to that of dev. If she is not evil, she is not a saint either. I understand that she has lived all her life alone with the support of her son but that doesn't mean she would not allow him to be in peace. She had been indifferent towards sona at so many occasions but never has she complained but if dev also resorts to same practice than it would be difficult for her even to handle the situation as she is also a human being. She has a family too with responsibilities but she never complains regarding the same.


Ishwari is really a complex character. I failed to understand her character one after another. She confuses me a lot. What I dislike about her that she never thinks about her other children well being. I know Dev sacrificed everything for her and family but as mother she has to think about all her children. She never thinks about Neha anfdher well being. Now I can understand why Neha became so bitter in her life and blame Dev and Ishwari for her life.


For me it is enough of her doing the damage control at dixit house now she should take control of her life first and foremost being her job at any hospital or whatever.
We have heard that love is selfless but it has to be at your own cost not to stake your family reputation. I wonder dev often visits sona's place and no neighbors or anybody at her home is aware.


Bang on!! I am praying the same. Sonakshi needs a little space and think about her life too. I don't mind about Dev's visiting but I definitely do not get the point why she is hiding the relationship from her family. The reason is totally absurd that she is depending on Dev's approval for revealing their relationship to her family. She has a wonderful family and by not telling her life's major decision she is just ignoring her family. Okay!! She already give priority to Dixit's family rather than Bose family.

Dev often says that he is like this but at some point of time sona would also outburst would he be able to take it. She has been at a receiving end since she has come to ishwari niwas one day she would also let go of her all pent up emotions n frustrations would he be able to take it.
DeV must thank god for bringing an angel in his distorted life who takes everything from his mother and maami so graciously without complaining and losing her cool.


Though I want this just once that Sonakshi loosing her cool but I doubt that will happen. CV's will never show this. They have all concentration on Dev's life and family. Her personal life never matters to them.

One more thing crossed my mind with what ishwari had said regarding submission in front of God and how her son is devoid of that experience and feeling but what that son will do when his mother would want him to stay away from that one person whom he loves the most. Where will he go and what will he do then. Will he leave his mother or hate her as he hates god boz he believes god took away his father. His mother would also be snatching his happiness when she knows that whatever he has done till date is just for her and her daughters.he never thought one bit all these years about himself. He trusts his mother the most will he lose that faith in her.


Honstly, I am fearing, Dev will do nothing. He will continue to worship Ishwari and will face the silence death of his life. From the projection it is cleared that he will take decision to leave Sonakshi without even consulting his mother and announce it to Sonakshi. As Sonakshi promised she would never leave him even if he leaves her, she is going in that way. She will support him too here. Dev is not going to lose the faith that I am getting. Launching promos suggested that too.

I really don't understand when will stop blaming god for every single thing when they can't thank almighty for all what they have.


I am fearing it will never be over. Blame game on God will continue to the very end of the show.

Really soon for such a long boring rant.

No worries. I enjoyed your rant. I am not oppose to Dev-Sonakshi, still I am very much loving them but CV's needs to concentrate on other things too than the same problem between Dixit family and solving them by Sonakshi.


Thank you so much for your lovely analytical comment. 😊



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