When we deny our own truth, we deny our own potential.

Page

Next Last

Sadia Sharmeen Swapno

@swapno

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

An episode of denying whole truth...! It was executed nicely I must say. Today what I am writing is not going to like by all and I understand that totally. I am writing it as a neutral point of view, because I want to decipher the reality here. Thanks to the makers for such an impeccable episode here, where all the characters are drawn from reality.

Though I was shocked about Ishwari's behavior last episode yet I felt for her today. Supriya ji's broken expression when Dev denied his favorite halwa just because of her nutritionist, took my heart away. She was too good with her crestfallen face. As a mom it was her satisfaction to watch her lad savoring his favorite food made by her. She did not get the content feeling she used to get to and it stark her as thunder that something was surely missed there. Of course it was and she surely connected the dots and became aloof to whom!! Obviously the root cause she thought! Sonakshi! She was clearly denying the truth that her son was equally responsible for it. As a mother she would never seen her son's fault here and because of her denying Sonakshi is going to get hurt. She should have confront Dev but she is not going to do that no matter how and denying the truth and eventually loosing her potential, making the situation worse.

For the first time after confession I am not pleased with Dev. Okay! I know last few days some are not pleased with this character and I always defended it saying he needed time. But I really felt bad when he unceremoniously hide the truth about the ink written name consequently the relationship. I know he is worried about all Ishwari's health, his business and his love life but he have to balance his mother here too. His life is not without his mother and Sonakshi is going to involve in his family too. So, there is no way he can deny the fact that he needs to come clear with the relationship to his family. There is no actual reason shown because of this hiding relationship. I can understand his plight then but now it is not even suiting actually. And I guess till date he was hiding the truth but today he somehow lied!

Same thing also goes for Sonakshi. Yes, she felt guilty today for hiding the relationship to the family but seriously she can't go with it just for the fun they were having together. I am saying time and time at first it was okay, but now it is not so appealing. Especially when she has an wonderful family ahead who respected her values and loved her that much.

Life is not all about black and white, it always has streaks of grays everywhere. So, I am accepting this episode with all heart. All in all it was an amazing episode. I loved it too much as how they have shown each characters fault equally and giving it a realistic touch! Thanks the makers again for showing the gray color of life too.

P.s - Want to mention about the tattoo thing. The scene was beautiful, not overdone! Loved that scene. The one scene which made me smile today's episode.

Thanks for reading.

Love 🤗

Swapno

Quote

Frequent Posters

stuti

@stuti123

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

brilliant post as always ..yes even ii agree that both dev and sonakshi are not doing the correct thing by hiding their relationship from their family ...but then if everything becomes soo clear and transparent then how will the story move forward ...more than sonakshi , ishwari is gonna have problem with the fact that dev hid such an important thing from him and broke his trust ...yes the tatoo scene was cute .loved it

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Push-pull

@Push-pull

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

👏

I am sure Ishwari will not even utter a word against Sona to Dev... She will do it differently making Dev go dumb in front of her.. That's the sad part.. Dev might be ready to fight for what he wants against all odds... But here Ishwari wouldn't create that oddness and Dev will not know how to pick is fight.. What a checkmate by Ishwari... 😉 Ish will kill them all with her silent treatment...😆 how dangerously scary she can be in front of any scheming or plotting typical villains...😉 I am thoroughly enjoying the flow though it's not a feel good thing but sure interesting to watch in a different way..

I would only count on some Dev-Sona moments or Bose family moments 😆to survive this emotional drain that Ishwari is gonna bring into the episodes...😉

Yeah, even I would want Sona to tell her family about her relationship status...😃

Quote

Sadia Sharmeen Swapno

@swapno

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: stuti123
brilliant post as always ..yes even ii agree that both dev and sonakshi are not doing the correct thing by hiding their relationship from their family ...but then if everything becomes soo clear and transparent then how will the story move forward ...more than sonakshi , ishwari is gonna have problem with the fact that dev hid such an important thing from him and broke his trust ...yes the tatoo scene was cute .loved it

Aaah!! thank you so much 😊

I am saying that only we know they are not doing it right but in life we do such things...! They have shown the other side of life and that's why I liked today's episode very much 😃

Quote

Sadia Sharmeen Swapno

@swapno

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull
👏

😃 😃 😃

I am sure Ishwari will not even utter a word against Sona to Dev... She will do it differently making Dev go dumb in front of her.. That's the sad part.. Dev might be ready to fight for what he wants against all odds... But here Ishwari wouldn't create that oddness and Dev will not know how to pick is fight.. What a checkmate by Ishwari... 😉 Ish will kill them all with her silent treatment...😆 how dangerously scary she can be in front of any scheming or plotting typical villains...😉 I am thoroughly enjoying the flow though it's not a feel good thing but sure interesting to watch in a different way..
I would only count on some Dev-Sona moments or Bose family moments 😆to survive this emotional drain that Ishwari is gonna bring into the episodes...😉

That's what I am thinking ! Dev-Sonakshi will suffer without knowing the real side of Ishwari. Her possessiveness will not ever come to Dev and because of trapping in guilt he will lose before he will know there is a war!! Ishwari will play it along till her lad going to hurt its best and lose his life without speaking a word too!! As you said it will be interesting but will be heart breaking too for us. But we will experience a whole new essence of love there! That's the consolation! 😳

Yeah, even I would want Sona to tell her family about her relationship status...😃

Replied in bold. Thank you so much for commenting 😊

Quote

saumiee

@saumiee

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

Amazing post🤗

I totally agree that It was a brilliant episode for it embraced the natural flaws of every character. The brilliance of enactment of emotions is actually irking me so much😆

Felt really bad for her in the halwa scene, with so much of love she prepared the sweet, hoping that it would erase all the worries of Dev. Her disappointment was justified.

But like you said , she should have asked Dev about it. I feel, if and when Dev decides to talk about it, Ishwari will keep changing the topic to be in complete denial.

For her, Dev cannot be responsible. And you right, it is high time Dev discusses this with Ishwari. If not total revelation at once, he should atleast drop some hints about her. .about his feelings. (That is only because He is unaware of the fact that Ishwari is already observing everything.)

I believe this very fact that Dev hid this from his mother, will add to his guilt. He would ponder about it later when he finds that Ishwari was hurt and will be disgusted with himself that He lied to his God . .about his life's biggest event, falling in love.

Quote

Sadia Sharmeen Swapno

@swapno

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: saumiee
Amazing post🤗
Thank you so much dear 🤗

I totally agree that It was a brilliant episode for it embraced the natural flaws of every character. The brilliance of enactment of emotions is actually irking me so much😆
Felt really bad for her in the halwa scene, with so much of love she prepared the sweet, hoping that it would erase all the worries of Dev. Her disappointment was justified.
But like you said , she should have asked Dev about it. I feel, if and when Dev decides to talk about it, Ishwari will keep changing the topic to be in complete denial.

Indeed she will not give Dev a chance to defend him regarding this. She will go for silent treatment and I will not be surprised if she tells Dev about her well being and she does not need Sonakshi anymore. This will hit Dev too much. He will be trapped in guilt for sure.

For her, Dev cannot be responsible. And you right, it is high time Dev discusses this with Ishwari. If not total revelation at once, he should atleast drop some hints about her. .about his feelings. (That is only because He is unaware of the fact that Ishwari is already observing everything.)
I believe this very fact that Dev hid this from his mother, will add to his guilt. He would ponder about it later when he finds that Ishwari was hurt and will be disgusted with himself that He lied to his God . .about his life's biggest event, falling in love.

Dev is just making no sense here about hiding the relationship now. As you said not the whole truth but hint should be given by this time. They are in the same house for God's sake, how long they will hide their gestures. It will be in light one or another way. He is jeopardizing his life and will continue to do it when he will try to let Sonakshi go! He will broke all of his promise which he did to Sonakshi, already broke one by eating the whole bowl of halwa in order to make his mom happy. Still he did not get the clue why Ishwari was angry with him.