Dev- a man who lives for others

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Posted: 9 years ago
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before confession..after confession is happening a lotzz in this forum discussing about the character of dev..
people are calling him joru ka gulam and doormats etc..and they are saying it happened after confession...
So listening to sonakshi made him joru ka gulam and doormat..
Then from the first episode Dev listens to her mother even at some point when it is illogical for example when ishwari used to think that dev is wasting 1.5 lakh money on sonakshi but immediately told her son to buy a brand new car for vickey because that GKB emotionally blackmailed her...there are numerous cases..Then according to simple rule of LHS=RHS should we say Dev from the very first day is doormat and MA KA GULAM? If listening to sensible words of sonakshi make him doormat then it applies to the case of ISHWARI too... But that is not the case ; if a guy listens to her gf make him weak and joru ka gulam and doormat but not in the case of mothers..then why gf s are there just for what?means they have logical points but a guy should not listen to her because his mardangi will become down or what? actually i am kinda blunt and dumb ; so unable to understand the logic behind this things and besides i have never seen this things in the environment which i am brought up...my father equally respects my mother and grandmother and listens to both if they are sensible..some problems are solved by parents some are by frnds some are by gf s...
1. Dev tore down the bail paper of vickey and slapped him too because vickey did wrong..
2. Dev indirectly and calmly made ishwari understand that she was wrong when she threw foods when she was angry with sonakshi.
3.Dev clearly told her mami that she was wrong when she misbehaved with sonakshi saying that she should wipe the floor.
4. Dev made sonakshi understand the fact that neha was in such a distress that because of that he does not want neha to return into the same situation again and it was their poverty which made his mind to become rich not because he is a moneyminded person and insults people who are poor as sonakshi misunderstood... argument does not mean to create hype always it can be dealt with class and elegance that is what dev and sonakshi did..

Dev clearly can differentiate between good or bad..If anyone is wrong he does not support and if he is wrong he is ready to get forgiveness that is why he was ready to buy a new saree when he understood that ishwari was not happy..after doing joru ki gulami by taking sonakshi with him to suprise his mother.let me tell you with good intentions not letting his mother down.

If dev is joru ka gulam den he is ma ka gulam , beheno ka gulam too..

If he is doormat then i think Dev is that doormat who always takes everyone's flaws and in return give them a beautifull clean life..And I love this doormat..

Finally a little offbit but i want to say pyar indeed give the haq to know every minor details of partner's life..that is why it is said jhoot or phareb or chupaye rekhne se rishtey nahi banti.. Sonakshi indeed read that file and i found nothing wrong in that because indeed the relationship has changed and each and everything i repeat everything should be shared with your lifepartner...

in past when sonakshi switched off his mobile phone ,he was angry because that time sonakshi was not part of his life and though her intentions was good and his action was a little extended..he did tell her that she did wrong by interfering in his life... I wonder why that time ishwari politely told sonakshi it was her mistake;just because dev was angry with her and now why ishwari became such hyper even after knowing that dev gave her permission because ishwari was unwell...because in both the cases sonakshi was their employee..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you and I am not jumping on conclusions without watching today's halwa wala scene
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev's condition is like Na ghar ka na ghaat ka or idhar kua to udhar khaai bechara jae to jae kahan
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Firstly Dev is an amazing human being. There are no 2 ways about it.
Having said that, by trying to please everyone he gets into trouble. Neha ki khwaish puri ki to Ishwari ya Sona are not happy. Inko happy kiya to Neha unhappy. In sab ko kiya to Mami unhappy.

The problem is in all this he is forever being pulled in a million directions and letting people walk all over him.

Just imagine any slightly complicated situation and try to think what Dev would do. Can you imagine a situation where Dev would make a decision and stick to it irrespective of who else likes it or not as long as he thinks it's right??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont have to imagine it was shown when vickey and mami came after dev tore the bail paper he ignored his mami and even did not listen to his mother ishwari that why he did not bring him to house and gave advices instead he made him stay at jail because he thought it was right...
and as i said he made sona understand that sonakshi was wrong judging him aon the basis of classes and he was firm at his point that is why she apologized ... just becausew their was no hype does not mean he did not stick to his point
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post.. and a much needed one with the emerging negativity of few in the forum!!
Very well analyzed and rightly said, if Dev is a door mat than he is also a door mat to his mother and sisters.. he is that doormat who takes dirt of everyone else and swipes clean their life in return and we love that doormat 👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: devakshimukh

I dont have to imagine it was shown when vickey and mami came after dev tore the bail paper he ignored his mami and even did not listen to his mother ishwari that why he did not bring him to house and gave advices instead he made him stay at jail because he thought it was right...

and as i said he made sona understand that sonakshi was wrong judging him aon the basis of classes and he was firm at his point that is why she apologized ... just becausew their was no hype does not mean he did not stick to his point


We dont have to imagine.. rightly said. there are many such examples!!

The biggest example was him cancelling his engagement with Natasha.. he didn't take this decision by asking or consulting with anyone, no one told him to do it.. neither did he know what sona felt for him or how ishwari would feel, or even what impact would it have on his business. He just knew in his heart that it was not right for him to be engaged to natasha and he broke it off, by first telling it to that person on whom it impacted the most... Natasha!! Everyone else including sona, ishwari got to know much later when there was no room for discussion!! It was a done deal!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aditi07


We dont have to imagine.. rightly said. there are many such examples!!

The biggest example was him cancelling his engagement with Natasha.. he didn't take this decision by asking or consulting with anyone, no one told him to do it.. neither did he know what sona felt for him or how ishwari would feel, or even what impact would it have on his business. He just knew in his heart that it was not right for him to be engaged to natasha and he broke it off, by first telling it to that person on whom it impacted the most... Natasha!! Everyone else including sona, ishwari got to know much later when there was no room for discussion!! It was a done deal!





Absolutely rightly said..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: devakshimukh

I dont have to imagine it was shown when vickey and mami came after dev tore the bail paper he ignored his mami and even did not listen to his mother ishwari that why he did not bring him to house and gave advices instead he made him stay at jail because he thought it was right...

and as i said he made sona understand that sonakshi was wrong judging him aon the basis of classes and he was firm at his point that is why she apologized ... just becausew their was no hype does not mean he did not stick to his point


My apologies for not being specific. Completely agree that in both the above situations Dev acted decisively and stuck to his guns.

However, Vicki incident was long before the confession and we saw Dev being assertive in quite a few situations before.

It's the post confession that Dev has lost his assertiveness. The incident involving Sona is the only exception. And like you said since there was no hype it is almost forgotten.

Still it's one lone incident and desperately needs some company😉😉😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spacenoxx


My apologies for not being specific. Completely agree that in both the above situations Dev acted decisively and stuck to his guns.

However, Vicki incident was long before the confession and we saw Dev being assertive in quite a few situations before.

It's the post confession that Dev has lost his assertiveness. The incident involving Sona is the only exception. And like you said since there was no hype it is almost forgotten.

Still it's one lone incident and desperately needs some company😉😉😉

During the lehenga issue it was dev who asked sonakshi's help but phir bhi she didn't order him to do what she likes she said that you think of this situation on your own with calm mind then do what you feel like and we saw he still brought that blue lehenga for Neha but It was ishwari who was firm that she will not let neha wear that lehenga

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