13th July - 'Because I'm Yours.'

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well so much for sleeping early today. Let me make this quick. Or well... let me try and do something I almost always fail at.

Finally Mr. Gujral makes a reappearance, even if it's on paper (quite literally 😆). Err small note: To my knowledge, news articles never mention one's name as Mr. Gujral, Mr. Dixit etc., especially in the title. Maybe the makers forgot to invent a first name for the guy. 😆 You can even use last names but without the titles Mr./Mrs./Ms. 🤓 Anyway I'm glad they finally showed that Dev did suffer some repercussions from the alliance breaking. I was almost beginning to wonder if Mr. Gujral magically transformed into an understanding and big-hearted man... Pretty much the opposite of what we saw him to be. Nicely handled by Dev anyway... His reaction was perfectly understandable. Not only is Natasha not supporting her Father in any of this but Dev probably still regrets how things ended with her. He knows that although he did do right by her but she still got hurt in the process. Causing more pain to her is out of the question for Dev.

Once he is alone, his guilt and pain over Neha resurfaces. Very realistic. If you expect that Dev would immediately be okay after one good cry session then in Hermione Granger's words "you have the emotional range of a teaspoon." 🤣 I was glad that Sona checked up on him. I was wondering about that after the episode ended yesterday. Anyway, my favorite part of this scene was Dev's brutal honesty with Sonakshi. The concept of someone being an apna' is not a new one. But the manner in which the writers of this show have depicted it is absolutely beautiful. The freedom that Dev feels around Sona is so contradictory to how he is with other people. He's always so busy protecting his family from any of his own worries and troubles. However with Sona, he freely admits that perhaps he should have given a little more time to Neha than to this relationship. It could have hurt Sona and yet it's absolutely necessary for Dev to just share everything with her. It's funny how Dev is a little about extremes. Either he is completely closed up or he just bares his soul to you. It's taken him a long time to find someone he can really talk to... isn't that the definition of someone you can call your own? Koi aisa jisko sab batado, jisse sab kuch keh sako. Har baat, har ehsaas, har ek darr, har ek khwahish.. Sab kuch.

Sorry for suddenly rambling off into Urdu.. I could have easily written that in English too but it sounded a little more beautiful in Urdu. 😳😆

Anyway, these two and their stories... Beautiful once again. :) The simplicity with which Sona said "Because I'm yours." Haaaye. My shipper heart! It was cute to see Sona, now a fully grown adult, still lowering her voice before saying the cuss word. 😆 Dev babu... From bunnies to dogs, he finds everything associated to Sona, cute.😆 On a different note, she literally replaced those sleeping pills in this scene. I loved the smile on her face when she realized Dev had finally fallen asleep. :) There's a kind of happiness that comes with knowing that you could take care of the people you love and it was visible on her face.

Dev and Ishwari's scene.. I love how there was a perfectly logical backdrop to Dev asking Sona to do the things he normally asks his Mother to do. It was a little similar to the time when he didn't want Ishwari to make any haldi doodh for him. All he tried was to not inconvenience his Mother and it was the same today. When Ishwari says that she wishes "Dev ka mann badal jaye"... Nice bit of foreshadowing over Dev sitting in the pooja in the coming episodes. Ah Ishwari, the kind of positive influence that Sona is on Dev... I hope you open your eyes soon to it!

Sona asserting once again that Ishwari is like her own Mom - Being the cynic that I am, I would probably scoff at such statements but in Sona and Ishwari's case, I love how their relationship has progressed in a way that it feels completely natural for Sona to say that and care for Ishwari as she would for her own family. Naturally Dev babu fell in love with Sona for perhaps the 3894094th time. 😆

Ishwari walking in to find Sona going through Dev's files... I liked how the whole thing also led to Sona learning about the losses that Dev's company suffered in the wake of his engagement breaking. It was nice how Sona was somewhat casual when Ishwari came into the room. She knew she had every right to be there. Ishwari on the other hand... she's possessive enough of her son to not even care for the fact that Dev was really just trying to take care of her. What irked her instead was that he gave a certain right and responsibility to Sonakshi, something he had only ever trusted his Mother with. And to top it all, Sona's explanation was exactly what Dev himself would have said. Its little things like these that really tell you about the silent understanding and connect that two people share. No wonder Ishwari kind of lost it. *smh*

Ranveer and Neha - It's interesting how Neha is exhibiting so much understanding and patience in response to everything that's happening. If something like this were to happen at her home she wouldn't have wasted two seconds before giving everyone a piece of her mind. It shows that she does trust Ranveer to take care of everything and most importantly take care of her. She knows that she is a priority for him and that he loves her. Really tells you that Neha's problems were never entirely about material comforts but about her own significance in the eyes of her Mother and Dev. I know it won't last, it would be unrealistic afterall if she just readily accepted this new life but I'm glad that she is atleast trying. :)

The last scene between Dev and Sona wasn't just sweet but perfectly true. As guilty as she might feel about it, it wasn't her fault at all. Loved that smile that appeared on Dev's face as he says how loving her wasn't just his decision but his 'khushnaseebi'. Sona's smile in response to what he said and that look in her eyes... Erica emoted beautifully there. :)

Oh BTW... Not that I miss her, but where did ghareeb ki beti disappear after Neha's wedding? Maybe Mamaji locked her up. God bless his soul then. 🤣 And I'm too sleepy to think of an apt title so just putting up my favorite line from today. Signing off!

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Looneygirl thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Maham! Beautiful analysis again! What with the forum going crazy with Dev crying his heart out a second time and how Sona was not right in taking the file from Dev's room , you put everything to rest in your own unique and sensible way. 😆. Yes, Dev keeps falling in love with Sona over and over again and I fear it will not stop 😆 in the near future. These two I tell you - feel like pinching their cheeks - cho chweet!!! Yes, they are going to face storms in the form of Neha?!! and Ishwari and perhaps the invisible (so glad) Mr. Gujral. But I guess with their deep love they can weather anything only they will put us through the wringer . What to do? As you rightly pointed out - The path of true love never runs smooth. Dev and Sona are meant to be together - it's destiny... I was re-watching some old episodes yesterday and what struck me again was how Sona 'knew' 😆 where her place was in the Dixit home when she came over - albeit grudgingly after being bulldozed by Dev to care for his mum - she went straight towards his room. 😆 . I doubled over with laughter, even Dev had a 'funny' smile on his face when he said 'wahan mera kamra hai'. Gosh! Can't help but marvel at how far he has travelled with Sona's gentle guidance and pure unadulterated love. I think I'll stop here...


P.S Yesterday we didn't see maama too right - maybe he's sneaked off maamiji on that steamer trip in Haridwar? 😆 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved it @ Maham your post is too good - No need to mention that

Waiting for @ Sam post as well😆



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very nice post as usual depicting all characters and scenes in swift summary.
I was observing Sona when she was confronted by Iswari..Sona didnt appear uncomfortable at all. Infact she was pretty casual about it compared to Iswari's hyper attitude.

I didnt find it odd for Dev to seek Sona's help for as you say so rightly he didnt want to inconvenience his mum who I believe is suffering from early onset of arthritis. Also , the file required some identification and Sona being the one at home only, he sought her help among other things... Of course this didnt go well with Mummy...can understand to a certain extent but her obsessive nature is beginning to piss me off slightly....I have feeling she will make a monk out of Dev pretty soon at the rate if we go by her jealousy, and insecurities. A bit extreme.

I like the way he handled the Gujarl matter. He wasnt panicky or edgy. He was calm and understanding about the whole thing and he had a strategy with him. So need to worry about it otherwise, he would not be a biz tycoon...just becos he neglected his biz for a while, the world didnt end for him and Dev proved it right with the way he handled the matter..I have a new respect for him. Cool guy😎

And the last conversation he had with Ms Bunny..I mean Ms Bose...The man knows what he wants and he brushed aside her concerns about the business failures...that she had nothing to do with it.

I didnt find it odd that Dev cried again...infact I found it very endearing and touching...One sometimes feels the sense of loss for something or someone when it is no longer there...then they miss it. And just at the point of time, as if reading her partner's state of mind, Sona called and cheered him up . She knows him so well.

Again I went to bed with a big smile...the show never ceases to surprise me. Sure it has flaws but I dont focus on small things and pick them to be a focal point to butcher Dev or Sona. Its too minor for me. The essence of the show is still there and it manages and delivers the expectation effectively.

Maham, thank you for your post. You should write everyday ! Fabulous writing , fantastic to read tinted with lots of happiness and joy.

Edited by Silambu - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks for yet another beautiful post keep it coming👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Apki post jase ujde chaman mei bahar... Registaan mei barsaat... Jase dhoop mei chaya... Wah... Wah... Apki kya hai ye Maya!!!
Pardon mel for the lame lines above but ur post is really beautiful and it flows like a river... It's a tsunami of positivity amongst all the negatives we r seeing out here.
Love ur analysis dear Maham... U tug at the right strings for me... I'm V happy at seeing the emotional quotient of an ML being discussed and the base why Dev Sona are truly soul mates that complete each other... Either one will wither away without the another.
Ishwari I have no words to say... Everything is about her and she is still making everything to be about her but all in the wrong sense.
Someone tell me how shall Dev ever come to know his mom is that possessive that she can't take it if someone else touches his things. ... Eeeks!! He will never come to know as she shall never show this side of her to him unless he sees it himself!
I have truly lov D the journey shown in case of Dev sona lovelove and also how Dev has learnt to express himself... It's difficult to hold things inside and I'm glad the boy is crying out... It's good... Cry some more baby.. It's OK!!!
Needless to say that I love sona... She is a giver too just like Dev... And ur post is beautiful... There I go again. ❤️ thank u dear.
Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I love when you're on a roll like this with daily posts! 😃

I don't have too much to add since you covered the episode in such loving detail, but I made one observation during the episode that I thought was really interesting. Ishwari's initial reaction upon catching Sona in Dev's room, looking through his files, was not accusatory towards Sona (as GKB's would have been), but sounded much more like a warning, "What are you doing here? Dev is going to kill you if he finds out; he hates anyone touching his stuff but me." It's almost as though she took it for granted that Sona's intentions were innocent, and was much more focused on Dev's wrath in response. It reminded me of all the times she has talked Sona down when Dev misbehaved with her, making her understand why Dev reacts so strongly to certain forms of intrusion (like putting his phone on silent). That split second of trust in Sona was a really interesting prelude to what came next.

It was only when Sona told her that Dev had actually instructed her to get the file, and given her permission to do so, that Ishwari saw her as an external and intrusive entity and went on the defensive. Even though it makes perfect sense given Ishwari's insular relationship with Dev, the irony is not lost on me! Sona has certainly become part of the family, but in a very specific way: she is beloved in "baccha" status with the daughters, but becomes enemy number one the minute she tries to enter the "bade" sphere where only Dev is allowed, aside from Ishwari herself. It was fascinating to see those boundaries drawn by Ishwari's face in less than a minute!
Edited by Samanalyse - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing amazing analysis and writing...superb😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing Analysis.

Dev was blunt with Sona.Sona gave him that confidence.That he will not be judged for what he says.When he said he did not meant to say that he fall in love at wrong time.If it was someone who does not understand Dev deeply would have got so hurt.But Sona she knows Dev deeply.She did not took it big.Because she knew.Dev did not spend much time with his sisters be it before or after falling in love with her.That guilt is eating him up.So he is venting out.

I loved how Dev made Sona understand .It was his decision to break engagement.So Sona should not feel guilty.

That I'm Yours.Falling in love with u his my Kush Nasibi.These dialogues were so beautiful.Which make DevAkshi soulmates for each other.

Sona is so mature.I am eagerly looking forward to the main track.How Sona handles the situation.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ur analysis yaar Maham amazing like always ...too good

Love to see Sona that don't say to Dev about the way of Ishwari treatment on her .

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