Family Dynamics - Page 2

Originally posted by: swapno

Such an amazing clarification...so love this...! 👏

It is Dev who always does everything for everyone, no one in the family does not care about his feelings much not even Ishwari. She always takes Dev for granted. I am not saying Dev does not have any faults but it just that "Selfish'' the word does not suit himself, it is too strong to describe Dev as a character.

Our problem is we always think leads of the show should be flaw less but in reality no one can be flawless. Dev does mistakes and his great virtue is that he tries to rectify his mistakes as soon as he is aware of this. That makes Dev character real and for the same reason we like him this much.

Originally posted by: gigi16

Selfish is a big word and only a few are honest enough to acknowledge it. Is Dev really a selfish brother? NO not at all. He is a sincere son and a caring brother who does not have any expectations from any of his family members, in a way he only knows how to give, keep on giving and never expects anything in return. He is the sole breadwinner of the family, the caretaker and the most generous person in the Dixit household. To be precise his world revolves around his mother and his three sisters. He is such a selfless person, he never thinks about himself and his priorities, thus when it struck him how he spent some sparing moments for himself on his sister's wedding day, he felt guilty. Which made me think so his journey with Sona will always be guilt-ridden? Then I feel sorry for them. He has to stop feeling responsible for everything he cannot do for the four ladies in his house. He has to let it go. After all he is a human being and he cannot be perfect all the time.