Disappointed with Neha's Character Development - Page 2

Originally posted by: luvflicksgirl

Yes I agree with you... what she thinks as true love is not true... coz she wants materialistic pleasures and is not ready to accept ranveer as he is... I appreciate and like ranveer because he might be poor but he never cribs about it and has self respect and neha by doing this is going to hurt him really badly

Yeah it was disappointing to see Neha again doing the same what she did in Sameer's case.

Originally posted by: LiveLoveLaugh96

It would have been weird if she hadn't demanded this from Dev. 😆

It was quite expected and im looking forward to Ranveer changing her view on life. Yes, she loves him but we can't expect her to change completely in one night.

Neha fears poverty and I would love to see how Ranveer makes her see the world in a different light rather than through how rich or poor a person is.

I agree...Neha is complecated.

But there are few things which highlights why Neha is like this.

In her childhood days, her mother given importance to Dev and put all household responsibilities to Neha...
Due to poor condition, Neha could not completed her studies where Dev n other two girl did that.
In her childhood days, where she should have get her schooling or free atmosphere so that she grow up like normal child, she was forced to do things which she didn't wanted to do.
In those days, Ishwari gave all importance to Dev...only Dev.

Considering all these things, Neha must have developed feeling that her own mother given her biased treatment being a girl.
Families financial conditions were down, they have some past which is not yet revealed. Neha's current behavior is hidden in that past and we can understand Neha only after knowing their past life.

Neha loves Ranveer but still Ranveer's financial conditions are not good, small house, plenty of family members... All this things Neha already experienced in her childhood. She lived life by killing her own wishes..she must have made plenty of adjustment in older days. That may be the reason, she didn't wanted to go through all those poor financial conditions and big family living under one roof in small house.

I agree that love changes a person but it also takes its own time...am sure CVs will change Neha's character to better side in future.

Originally posted by: white_lotus

I agree...Neha is complecated.

But there are few things which highlights why Neha is like this.

In her childhood days, her mother given importance to Dev and put all household responsibilities to Neha...
Due to poor condition, Neha could not completed her studies where Dev n other two girl did that.
In her childhood days, where she should have get her schooling or free atmosphere so that she grow up like normal child, she was forced to do things which she didn't wanted to do.
In those days, Ishwari gave all importance to Dev...only Dev.

Considering all these things, Neha must have developed feeling that her own mother given her biased treatment being a girl.
Families financial conditions were down, they have some past which is not yet revealed. Neha's current behavior is hidden in that past and we can understand Neha only after knowing their past life.

Neha loves Ranveer but still Ranveer's financial conditions are not good, small house, plenty of family members... All this things Neha already experienced in her childhood. She lived life by killing her own wishes..she must have made plenty of adjustment in older days. That may be the reason, she didn't wanted to go through all those poor financial conditions and big family living under one roof in small house.

I agree that love changes a person but it also takes its own time...am sure CVs will change Neha's character to better side in future.

Originally posted by: SwetaK94

Yep, I'm sure its gonna take time. I'm just afraid that it's gonna hurt Ranveer in the process. And he doesn't deserve it... at all. 😭

After all the love she is getting from her family and Ranveer, I would love for her to grow up soon and realize whats really important in life.

I would certainly agree with you on this. Neha is a complicated and selfish character, whose life is encircled with her happiness and her wishes.I don't disagree that she must have gone through a lot,giving up her childhood while taking care of two baby sisters. But so has Dev,and no one can be blamed for that,only but circumstances. But now that she and her family has come a long way and are actually happy,why can't she accept it? Today,while Sonakshi was telling Dev that family are the only ones,who love you without and terms and conditions, I couldn't agree more. And,perhaps, Dev got his answer that,Neha's love towards her brother is conditioned. Love changes you,in a better way,and you aceept the other person as he, or she is;not by changing them the way you want them to be. That's not love,not unconditional love,at least. Hope Neha will understand and make life simpler by accepting new changes.

Originally posted by: Earnshaw

I would certainly agree with you on this. Neha is a complicated and selfish character, whose life is encircled with her happiness and her wishes.I don't disagree that she must have gone through a lot,giving up her childhood while taking care of two baby sisters. But so has Dev,and no one can be blamed for that,only but circumstances. But now that she and her family has come a long way and are actually happy,why can't she accept it? Today,while Sonakshi was telling Dev that family are the only ones,who love you without and terms and conditions, I couldn't agree more. And,perhaps, Dev got his answer that,Neha's love towards her brother is conditioned. Love changes you,in a better way,and you aceept the other person as he, or she is;not by changing them the way you want them to be. That's not love,not unconditional love,at least. Hope Neha will understand and make life simpler by accepting new changes.

Her character is even more complex than Dev's. She has not overcome her childhood phobia of extreme hardship and poverty. She and Ranveer cannot be happy unless she can let go of her past. I feel bad for Ranveer as he is such a straightforward and simple man.