Aryan and Aradhya

Hey guys,

I've always liked Aradhya the most. I've always felt sorry for her and felt that the way she has been treated has been unjust.
I loved Tulsi too and when she died I really hated it.

On this forum everyone had loved Aryan but now I see a lot of people getting annoyed with him which I can understand as he should trust Aradhya more.

But am I the only one who's upset with Aradhya rather than Aryan? I know Aaba Saheb didn't kill Tulsi but he is by no means innocent and it annoyed me that ever since Tulsis death Aradhya has been focused on Aaba. I can understand that he's her grandfather and that she's doing the right thing, but Tulsi was and is her mother (blood or no blood) and I know she was and is upset that she died but not the way I thought she would or should be. I mean she was murdered. And whatever wrong Aryan is doing now, I can also understand as he really is hurt and broken the way I thought Aradhya would be.
I just think if this was before when Aradhya thought Tulsi was her blood mother she would've reacted to Tulsis death a lot differently than she is now, even if she knew Aaba was innocent in the death.

Even though it sounds like it, I'm not bashing or hating on Aradhya, she is still my favourite. I just wished she was focused more on Tulsi her mothers murder than Aaba her grandfather the criminal (in many other ways). And I think Aryan sees that, he definitely should trust her more but he was taken aback and he's not thinking straight and I kind of feel for him in this matter.

Is it only me?

no, u r not alone, me too thinking the same way, after reading ur pot i was like... finally! some one i thinking like me but one thing u r still loving Aru but i'm getting irritated with her...

I am also finding Aaru's attitude quite hard to digest. I would rather see her holding her husband's hands, sharing his grief and anger and crying with him. It would not matter if AbaSaheb stayed in jail for a couple of days. She could have given her husband some mental support through this hour of grief and once she had his trust she could have told him why she knows Aba is not the killer. Aryan would understand her more then. Instead she chose to use Aba's health as excuse to get him out from jail. Why she has to be bothered about Aba so much? What about her husband's health? The poor guy is besides himself with grief does she even care if he is eating, sleeping or taking care of his basic needs. The entire Rao Khandaan is there to take care of AbaSaheb but who does Aryan have on his side. And Aba is not completely innocent. He did threaten to kill Tulsi and Aaryan. Not too long ago he was about to kill Tulsi and Aary first by throwing stones and then by imprisoning her in the cave. And who saved her? Was it Pavitra or Sashwat? No none of them. Aryan did! But when he needed her the most she went to stand by Aba, Pavitra and Saswat. She may have the reasons but she could have given some time to Aryan to calm down.

I feel very sorry for Aryan and I can't support Aaru's behavior. I hope CVs give us a good track which will make me love her back again.

Juhi,

In an ideal world, that would be nice to see Aaru holding aryan's hand and sharing the grief process. But that not possible in reality since aryan and Aaru both share a different grief thus experiencing their pain and emotions differently. Aryan is mourning for the loss of his mother for what it could have been..he is mourning for not having a proper chance to bond with his mother but that is Kumu's fault had she not exchange the kids he would have had those 22 years. As for Aaru, she is grieving for the loss of her mother since she is Tulsi's nurtured child who had all these memories and thus know her mother very well...she is mourning for the loss of the person and soul. Tulsi is Aaru's mother in every way except in blood and today's ep proved that. She is grieving as a daughter would for her mother thus can't support aryan in his grief. If Kumu hadn't exchange the kids, then Aaru can support aryan as his wife as she wouldn't have been as close. The thing is Tulsi was Aaru mother as much as aryan's too.

Aryan's way of grieving is lashing out and openly showing his tears, which is actually healthy but only if that is a short term..he is blind by his hatred toward PvR and it's understandable. Aaru had grieved differently..,she had broken down in the funeral and even when coming back to her home she can hear her mother's voice which is painful as her mother is no longer there and she is focusing her energy on finding the real killers of her mother to seek justice. She kept herself busy and kept on repeating that action she didn't want to break down, it too painful to face the reality of her mother's fate/death. Just because Aaru didn't break down as aryan did didn't make her grief any less and believe me I know what grief mean having lost someone very beloved to me more than life itself. People experience grief differently and glad the makers have done that with AaRA that what make it interseting. The makers have today shown that aryan is Tulsi's son in blood but didn't share her values and ideologies. Aryan is not wrong though but Aaru is doing exactly the way tulsi would have done. She even explained that to aryan when she was alive about her values and wishes and now Aaru was saying similar things to aryan when talking about their mother. The way Aaru spoke to Kumu today very much reminded me the way tulsi would have spoken. Aaru is Tulsi's daughter and their bond goes beyond that. Today was another ep that highlighted Aaru and Tulsi's relationship it's a strong and unbreakable. Tulsi's love for Aaru and Aaru's love and respect for Tulsi was there. Tulsi is alive in form of Aaru, that what the makers are trying to show..tulsi who was selfless and put others before herself which is something very similiar to what Aaru is doing.

She couldn't support aryan because she is grieving too and to support aryan she would have to face her own loss which is something Aaru is not ready or couldn't do yet. Aaru is a human being thus reacted in way that had flaws itself within her actions but that part of being human making mistakes by not realising sooner.


Apologies for my rambling not sure if I am making any sense 😆

I too seriously didn't connect with new aaru who is Aradhya rao now ,she is right in her own ways but her all of sudden love for new found family is undigestable for me too

Originally posted by: soniadutta

I too seriously didn't connect with new aaru who is Aradhya rao now ,she is right in her own ways but her all of sudden love for new found family is undigestable for me too

Aaru shared great bond with tulsi and even aaru unitntenially Iinsulted her ,she never doubted on her as she somwhere had full faith on her parvarish

Aryan too wrong for many ways but wen he needed her the most wen he lost all his relations in few days was busy in supporting her blood relation

I think whatever rao clan did aaru in past is the main reason for many of us not feelings any sympathy towards them

I hope this track is for their redeemtion then I could may understand aaru standing for them

@CharmGal,

I think only aaru wants to find out the real murderer bcz in Court scene she said to aryan that HAM DONO MILKE AAI KE KATIL KA PATA LAGAYENGE.. n now in precap also she doing the same thing.. 😳

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

@Bold

You nailed it. The Rao Clan's past behavior is very difficult to be forgotten and forgiven. This is the main reason I cannot connect with Aaru when she stands by them. Also today's episode I was shocked by her selfishness. Few days ago she taunted her mom as Devdasi, refused to have her cake and watched her thrown away. Now after her death, so easily she was able to claim her mom's property. Shame on her!

I liked Kumu the best today. She is always what she is. She wears no mask. Kumu will be my favorite character always.

@ Irsha

I can't tolerate the Raos. After what they did to their family members, Aradhya, Aryan and Tulsi, I don't feel any sympathy for them. They were selfish, arrogant, hypocrites before, but now they are shown to be shameless and without self respect.

I cannot accept Aaru bringing that criminal family to her Aayi's home. Her Aayi gave it to her thinking she is her birth daughter. But since she is not her birth daughter, Aaru should not claim that house as her home, Last of all give shelter to those crooks Rao. She should hand over the house to Aryan and stay in a rented cottage.

But I am ok if Aaru stays there on rent. Not ok with the Raos staying in Tulsi's home. 😡