Caryn,
First of all, let me tell you I appreciate your remarks greatly, and that of the updaters. Minus them and not Laxmi, we'd not be analyzing this. I have an AA in psychology. In the first major I was only one male in 14 students. In the 2nd class I had lots of competitions from men. In both, I got an A. I know my psychology pretty well.
Hi Jagdu,
Somehow I knew you were a psychology student. 😊I was talking to Karthi about you after the way you write analytically. I too have a background on psychology but not indepth as you. I scored an A for my paper when I was doing American Degree Program. However, I am not going to compete with you on that aspect.
And can tell you that any woman who follows a man who's married has a psychological problem.
You see it that way, but I don't. Well not totally. Now you may ask why? Women like Netra ( there are women like her who do exists in real life but not as extreme as the reel life) are either seeking attention, emotional crippled, possessive, obsessive, etc. That is psychological problem. However, there are women who see married men as $$$ sign. Esp if they are rich. They don't care for anything else except what the men represent – MONEY & STATUS in society. They want get themselves away from poverty. Then there are quite rich women who are educated and still go after married men. They call it luv. I call it hey it is lust! But definitely not psychological. It is purely calculative and manipulative. Women like that do exists Jagdu.
That is not over reaction. I dare you to find any IF'ian who respects women more.
Of course no one of here respects the 'other' woman, but as a human being, we need to be more understanding as to why. Like you said it can be psychological problems.
No woman works for the destruction of another woman's life.
Are you really sure about that Jagdu? That means you haven't seen the world fully yet. I had the same thinking as you did many years ago. I thought everything was black and white. When I started to work for MNC corporations of different races from all over the world from Canada to Australia, then I realised life is nothing like that. There are shades of whites and blacks in between and all depend how you judge it. It was a big cultural shock for me.
If you get a chance, get yourself some women magazine, go to women's column called something like Dear Abby, and you will see what I am talking about.
That's just not woman. A normal woman try's to reason, not scream her words out. Women are a lot more graceful than men. That's femininity.
Jagdu, you made me laugh…. Ladies of IF Forum, tell me how many of you are reasoning and feminine types. Jagdu, I assure I am not. 😃Well, I do reason 80% of the time and 20% the time??? Hmmmmm….. lots to be said, feminine?? Nope, it is not in me.
If you can't beat 'em, join em. That's womanhood. I know women who's love has been shattered by men. They've been lifelong friends with the men they lost.Like some IF'ians reacted, Nethra could have crushed Arjun, the real man behind the crime. I hope she does, and apologizes to Laxmi, who she has hurt. A police case has not been established against Jeeva. The motive of his crime has not been established, and the only circumstancial evidence presented is one that's heard from behind a door. Why don't the police release Jeeva? As for this reel vs. real, only the Indian penal code interpretation of Suntv vs. reality is different.
Exactly. No use of getting your hackles up over the reel world. If you live in corrupted countries Jagdu, you will know that things like this can happen if you don't have good lawyers. But then serials over exaggerates of course.
Laxmi has come a long way. Her first husband has been murdered, and the 2nd loves her deeply. She's become a succesful enterprenuer from nothing with Jeeva's help. He has no feelings whatsoever for Nethra. And it's supposed to be Laxmi's story, not Nethra's. Why is she trying to steal the limelight? If the actress, whoever she is has any ethics, she would not.
Like Netra Rama said, this happens in every serial. It could be that when LG is given the limelight the ratings go up. Besides, she is paid to do the job. Director – direct, script writer – writes and actress act. It is not LG's fault.
If Meena can do better, she should. But she is so mundane. What I will call – BORING! Abi is boring in Kolangal. Selvi is boring in Arase, you name it.
Edited by Caryn - 17 years ago