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Posted: 20 years ago
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Well Esha, I wasn't being sexist.....personally, I feel almost any age is good to marry, for both boys and girls. But like white rose said, guys tend to mature a little later than girls.

Still it varies from person to person; I've seen 22-year old guys that were really, really mature, and then some 35-year olds really immature........

But I think what is important is that you finish your studies, both boys and girls...........the world needs more educated people to run it........and education opens your mind up to logic and reason better......it gives you balance in life........

I was Alh'amdulilALLAH(SWT) done with my Masters at age 22, and also had my first professional job.......I was mentally ready, I think, to marry even at that age.....but it took me a long time to find the right person Alh'amduliALLAH(SWT).

It's an awesome, awesome, awesome feeling to be in love, and to give love to the person you love, and to marry him/her. It's almost too hard to put in words........But first be sure that you have accomplished what you set out to accomplish....that's very, very important........

Also, just a word of advice, from personal experience.....I know all of us want to find the most handsome/beautiful of spouses or fiances for oneself.......but when you actually do fall in love and get in a sincere relationship, looks may be matter only 10%.........your future fiance/husband/wife/significant other automatically becomes the most beautiful/handsome person in the world......or at least he/she should........

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Posted: 20 years ago
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dat was very well put afar 👏 👏 👏 , dnt no wot else 2 say, u ave completly shut me up, but u r rite.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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No, no Esha --- I didn't mean to do that! LOL.........we're all friends, right? I enjoy reading your posts A WHOLE LOT.............and respect your opinion a lot too.......

I also actually read your make-believe story on the other thread....HILARIOUS......I was laughing like crazy...............I just can't post everywhere, though....it's hard to keep on reviewing every thread.....😊

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Posted: 20 years ago
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hey rose...wicked avtar....abhi has grown on me too...he's my 2nd fav bollywood actor now after khan
well said afar!!! sooo true!!! u can be our kavyanjali spiritual advisor😆😆
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Posted: 20 years ago
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LOL SG!!!!!! I am sure you all extremely intelligent people......and need no advice........just thought that I'd share some of my personal experiences with you all............

You're making me feel really old, aren't you LOL.......Are you all within the 13-22 age group? Do old people not watch Indian serials????? 😕

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Posted: 20 years ago
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yes afar we r all frendz, dnt worry i did not take it in ne offensive way, i was jus saying how rite u were and thank u 4 liking my posts and i'm glad 2 no dat i make ever1 luff. 😃 😆

hey sg u'r rite afar can be our spiritual advisor 😆 😆 😆 , hey afar u can guide us 😆

I LUV EIJAZ and ABISHEK 22222222222 MUCH 😳 😳
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Posted: 20 years ago
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OMG ---- you guys don't need guiding..........you all are wonderful people........in the end, seriously, that's all that matters.....just be a good person, wherever you are and whatever you do.........

By the way Esha, is there a reason behind the 2 lines you put in your signature? You don't have to answer if you don't want to....

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Posted: 20 years ago
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ermmm yea der is a reason......... i just liked dem.
i'm a decent girl and i dnt ave a bf, neva had 1, but dnt no bout da future, my dad's really strict bout dese things
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Well it's all good Esha.......bf-gf type of relationships don't really work well.....very, very rarely.......when you get ready to marry, that's when you can talk to another person who's ready to marry as well..........before then, if you just concentrate on what you need to do, you'll save yourself a lot of heart-ache, I believe.......and trust me, it'll happen when it happens.....😃

Tell stupid Eijaz that he needs to propose to Natassha soon; he's 30 now! LOL..........😉

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Posted: 20 years ago
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oi leave my eijaz alone, he gonna propose 2 me or shud i say he already has, dats y i'm gettin married 2 him in september, da 18th (my birthday) 😆

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