kavya will show anjali the light...

yesterday's epi was a very emotional and dramatic one between a father and daughter...

on one side we see bauji call it his sturborness,selfishness, emotional blackmailing or childishness .....his acting like that telling anji that how much she loves kavya that much he hates him coz he has left my daughter to die day by day...i will not accept it but i only want u to be happy... whether he is right or not to act like this but he has a right to be concerned about anji's future...may be the circumtances naveens grabbing all the shares ,his siding up with nirmala and last how naveen blames anji of having an affair...so in future wat can happen we never know so thats y he has adopted this way to make anji accept to marry...but we can say he is not heartless coz every single things he said about kavya was not from his heart but to make anjali realise that kavya is no more and stop suffering....yesterday it was a father's love for his daughter who has made him react like this and i think any father seeing his daughter living with a pain like this will react...

now anjali after kavya's death she is living a double life..i mean one she is happy taking care of the family and the other when she is lonely she has created a world for herself..she writes to kavya,talks to him and lastly sees him... but when this illusion where she sees kavya fades then the tears and the pain she feels is very hard to bear...she is so young for how long will anjali be able to live in this illusion world and how long she will bear the pain and the loss of kavya... she will break at some time coz this has become her way of living.. she has a life before her and she must realise that kavya is gone but he will be always part of her no matter wat happens but moving on also forms part of this life...

now shaurya who was kavya's best friend and then anji's...he has been by her side since kavya died whether in business or family matters...but being by her side his friendship has turned into love....he very well knows that anjali is only for kavya and he respect that ...he also feels the pain of anjali,the terrace scene where anji talking about kavya suddendly wanted to cry and how he too cried with her.. now those tears were for kavya or anji's pain..the other day when bauji broached the marriage thing how he said that anji still loves kavya and she will always do but my accepting anji doesnot mean that much as anji's accepting me..he respect anji's love for kavya and he leaves all the decision for anji to take... but one thing they share both is kavya, he was his best friend and anji's love..so if ever they get together kavya will always be a part in this relationship and shaurya does know it very well...how he said to anji yesterday that kavya is a part of u and i wont separate u from him but yes i will give u company... so i think if ever they get married it will be a marriage of convinience where he will be happy to be a company for anjali and nothing else as he knows anji's love is kavya and will always be..it can work as shaurya is best placed to feel the pain of anji and he will do everything to keep her happy even knowing that anji will never love him but his love for her will be enough for both of them...

now i think we will get to see kavya in the next week episodes coz i have a feeling that only him that can show anjali the light to take the decision whether to accept shaurya or not...he has always wanted anji's happiness be it the episodes when she was engaged to yug and now i think he will be the one who will show anji where is her happiness...i think thats the right thing that kavya himself show anjali the right path...

thats my views so wat u think should anjali live an illusion life when she comes down to earth she gets only pain or get married and have shaurya as a companion..

Very well put, couldn't have said it better myself! Yesterday's epi was highly charged and quite emotional indeed. It gave us a peek into the inner conflict and other psychological effects a widow goes through, realistic or not, can't say. As someone put it, the right way for Bauji to propose such a thought would have been to ease Anjali into it, familiarize her with the idea and take it from there. The fact that he screamed it at the top of his lungs in front of an entire household was bound to bring negative consequences. As they say, it's not the message itself but the messenger and how he delivers it, is what counts. Then again, KA is a soap so I guess melodrama's a part and parcel of it.

Anyway, Bauji's right to be concerned but such a decision should not be made in haste or imposed on Anjali so as to make her feel guilty, were she to disagree. It concerns not only her but Ved as well. Imagine life being emptied of all happiness within mere moments, forcing you to start afresh. Recovery from such events is quite slow and it rests on a delicate natural balance. Pushing A to speed up the process is extremely unwise. Even if Shaurya doesn't expect love, he is a human being after all. Anjali can't just have him be her husband for the mere purpose of company or protection. Eventually, other needs might slip in, I just hope he's a secure person and doesn't end up behaving like Yug. It takes inhuman strength, not to mention the biggest of hearts, to be with someone who can't return your love with the same intensity. They say you can never forget your first love, in KA's case that's a done deal, come what may. Therefore, if A treats this marriage as a duty she owes to Bauji then it would just be another way for her to continue living a shell-less existence. That there is my main concern, not to mention the fact that Shaurya might be Nirmala's son, its scary to think what the two of them might be up to. Even if S has good intentions, Nirmala might twist and turn situations to get the better of them and such betrayal (S not letting the Nandas know his 'raaz') might have adverse consequences on his relations with A and the family.

I agree with your view on A and S sharing a bond, as far as love and admiration for Kavya is concerned, both having been in a close relationship with him (wife/best friend). The fact that S might be a cousin, therefore related to K by blood, makes this a somewhat suitable match.

You are right; we never go for a major decision unless a person whom we hold in high regard, as K to A in this case, reassures us it would be ok to do so. So there you go, more of K to come, though I get a feeling scenes between KA where he urges her to move on would be MAJOR tearjerkers, grab your tissue boxes and get ready to bawl em eyes out! Hehe..

thanks for ur views mahaam ... 😊
very well put and good points.... 👏 👏
i too think that kavya is best placed to lead anjali to that final decision and yeah it will be a very emotional scene....
yeah u mentioned one point that shaurya is a human being and i do hope that after marriage he doesnot change and become possesive as yug was...
i think he has his head on his shoulders and will never hurt anjali as he has witnessed the pain anji has endured after k death...
another point he will be related to nirmala i mean mother and son...he seems not to get along with his mother and is not ready to reveal the family that who he is...at last he will be bauji's grandson and k cousin bro.so being bauji's grandson will make the rishta with anjali more concrete..finally anjali remains a nanda if they get married..
kavya may be the one to show anji's the right path but i think if shaurya's secret that who is he in fact will play a role in this rishta with anji..she will have another point and that to do a patch up of the family...
but one difference here is shaurya seems to hate his mother and kavya loved nitya to the limits even knowing about her truth...so anji get prepared to patch up mother and son now and in case of kavya she was doing the reverse to show his mum true colors.. uff anji will never get rest i think she will caught in this mother son relationship and she will be the bahu of nirmala...

Personally I think…bauji is a sweetheart…for caring so much for anjali…but I still don't like the fact…he's trying to force anjali for this marriage…! Although considering all the facts… about ved's future and anjali's isolation…she needs companionship!!! I think she really needs to move on!!! And get married to shourya as this will be beneficial for her and ved's future!

Hopefully I think kavya will surely come into anjali's hallucinations and … encourage anjali to get remarried!
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thanks for ur views ... 😊

very long posts yaar now to read them,