Rishtey - Relationships - Sacrifices

Just ranting.....

Why are relationships so week? Why can't a mother have a say when her son gets thrown out of the house? Why is it the mother who silently weeps for her son because the man who was supposed to keep her happy for entire life is the one to cause her tears? What right does a father have to disown a son? Is it because he lives in patriarchal world and receives his last name from him? Why always the man of the house is the one to make decision? He is no greater than the woman. If God saw no difference in a man and a woman, then why do women put them on a pedestal? If a man has the right to disown his son, then a woman should have to right to bring her son back. Why does a woman have to choose between being a wife and a mother? Why can't she be both at the same time?

Ignore me, just taking my frustration out.

- Happe

Originally posted by: happe

Just ranting.....

Why are relationships so week? Why can't a mother have a say when her son gets thrown out of the house? Why is it the mother who silently weeps for her son because the man who was supposed to keep her happy for entire life is the one to cause her tears? What right does a father have to disown a son? Is it because he lives in patriarchal world and receives his last name from him? Why always the man of the house is the one to make decision? He is no greater than the woman. If God saw no difference in a man and a woman, then why do women put them on a pedestal? If a man has the right to disown his son, then a woman should have to right to bring her son back. Why does a woman have to choose between being a wife and a mother? Why can't she be both at the same time?

Ignore me, just taking my frustration out.

- Happe

Awww bacha..
I knowww...
I was soo frustrated my brain cells just gave up..
I told RuRu and Mehndi bhi.. I have put my brain in the fridge abhi..
Seriously I m not even thinking abt it..
The more I think.. The more I go nuts...

Oh and in the last scene with the Lallu pic in the wallet.. wudnt it have been nicer .. if it also had Gayatri's pic.. And in the speech too.. wish she got more mention..
But Happo bacha .. I dunno too many question marks..
And not just the show... Ironical double standards of our world ju see..

I m sowwie just blabbering.. not even adding anything to ur topic cholly

awww your sooo sweet... hun your frustration is completely understandable... i get annoyed to about this.....our asian culture (don't know about western)is based on patriarchal status.... Men seem to think they are in power and they rule the house and what they say should go and some women even let me have that power... When Allah created man and women... no where in the rule book did it say that Men are to be obeyed above all or Women should be obeyed above all... relations are supposed to be equally based but now a days people are blind to that...

Don't worry much....as long as you know the difference.... thats all that matters.... right.... well sort of... 😆 😆

Happe di!!!
First of all, I love our avi!!! 😃
I hear you di! And this is not the first show in which Ekta/creatives her male charachters dominating. And when she does make her women charahcters strong, its complete rubbish, like in KSBKBT! 🤢 Last week was a complete WASTE of my TIME, ENERGY and my BRAIN CELLS!! 😆 COuldn't stop thinging about the idiocity they showed! But hey! Keep hope! Inshallah this week will be full of our rocking jaans!! 😳 *CHin up**Keep Smiling**Live Laugh Learn*

Shabo 😳

Originally posted by: shabo24

Happe di!!!
First of all, I love our avi!!! 😃
I hear you di! And this is not the first show in which Ekta/creatives her male charachters dominating. And when she does make her women charahcters strong, its complete rubbish, like in KSBKBT! 🤢 Last week was a complete WASTE of my TIME, ENERGY and my BRAIN CELLS!! 😆 COuldn't stop thinging about the idiocity they showed! But hey! Keep hope! Inshallah this week will be full of our rocking jaans!! 😳 *CHin up**Keep Smiling**Live Laugh Learn*

Shabo 😳

Shabo, u r such a sweetheat. All ekta's shows are getting rubbish day by day such as Kayamath, Kasturi, and especially KSBKBT 😡. My hopes are for next week and hopefully won't have to watch somthing nonsense.

You also keep smiling,

-Happe

awwww happe u r totally right 😳 .......i don't understand why that ullu only listens to that dj BUT not his wife 🤢.....now i wonder who is his real wife???!! 😕 ......or perhaps he is scared of dj 🤔 😆 😆

Originally posted by: happe

Why are relationships so week? Why can't a mother have a say when her son gets thrown out of the house? Why is it the mother who silently weeps for her son because the man who was supposed to keep her happy for entire life is the one to cause her tears? What right does a father have to disown a son? Is it because he lives in patriarchal world and receives his last name from him? Why always the man of the house is the one to make decision? He is no greater than the woman. If God saw no difference in a man and a woman, then why do women put them on a pedestal? If a man has the right to disown his son, then a woman should have to right to bring her son back. Why does a woman have to choose between being a wife and a mother? Why can't she be both at the same time?

Ignore me.... just taking my frustrations out.

if you wanted to be ignored, you shouldn't have posted this with such a delicious title! 😆

it's 3am where i am and i'm really tired. so the one line answer to all your questions is: she's doing it because prem wants it that way. her role of the most loving mother is pushing her to chosing to be with the husband.

if she chooses prem, prem will be shattered thinking his father is alone. he'd go crazy. she knows that about prem. so she stays with the husband.

makes sense?