plz DONT bash heer

guys, plz dont bash heer , she is in a complicated state of mind ,just think about her position,

starting from her marriage she was put in a situation where her husband always take his mother & sister's side ,without thinking he also accused her for lying during veera court case & she lost her brother knowing that he is innocent & her husband sent him to jail & again her husband lost trust on her & doubted her character( it was her fault also but an eternal couple shouldnt break trust) & atlast she thinks he cheated with her for her cousin ,whatever the reason is , cheating is not justified (for a married couple that is very big issue) even though we know prem didnt do anything
I M NOT SAYING PREM IS WRONG ,BUT PREM WAS PUT IN SUCH SITUATION TO DO WRONG THINGS ALSO ,SO IF U ALL CAN UNDERSTAND PREM'S SITUATION WHY CANT U UNDERSTAND HEER'S POSITION ? just put urself in her shoes & then think & then bash her ,sometimes we do complete WRONG THINGS knowing that this is wrong , IF WE CAN FORGIVE PREM WHY CANT WE FORGIVE HEER ?

think what she did for prem & his family ,what phase she has gone through for prem ,rr , g3 ,veera ,sameer ,ash ,JUST PUT URSELF IN HER SHOES & THEN U WILL KNOW ITS NOT EASY FOR HER ALSO

agreed ya.......but its been a month till now d thruth has not come yet>>>>>>its even not heer's n prem's fault its creatives fault!!!!!!!

agree with u.its not heer's fault.plzz guys,dont bash heer,.

I completely agree with Soaps.. I can try and understand Heer's point of view, but what I cannot understand is how easily she's forgotten all her mistakes. What is up with this selective memory of hers where she remembers only what Prem did wrong (in her opinion) but not at all what all she did that was uncalled for? Please, if she's so hell bent on punishing people for their mistakes, then I think she should be the first one getting a slap on the wrist so to speak because of her consistent lying pre-leap.

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Marriage is the name of collective responsibility ... and they both made mistakes ... equally bad ones so why is she acting all holier than thou? As if none was her fault?

agree with u

Oh and heer knew before marrying him how and what Prem's family means to him its not like it was shocking for her ... and when first time prem took gyatri's side over heer during that torn saree issue Prem wanted to say sorry and explain himself ... heer never let him ... she hid things from him and even lied to him what did she expect in return? Both are at fault so why is she blamming just Prem for not respecting their love?

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Marriage is the name of collective responsibility ... and they both made mistakes ... equally bad ones so why is she acting all holier than thou? As if none was her fault?

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Oh and heer knew before marrying him how and what Prem's family means to him its not like it was shocking for her ... and when first time prem took gyatri's side over heer during that torn saree issue Prem wanted to say sorry and explain himself ... heer never let him ... she hid things from him and even lied to him what did she expect in return? Both are at fault so why is she blamming just Prem for not respecting their love?

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Marriage is the name of collective responsibility ... and they both made mistakes ... equally bad ones so why is she acting all holier than thou? As if none was her fault?