if you are prem or heer.......

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Posted: 16 years ago
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hi friends i wants to know what what u do if u r in place of premeer and pls be honest because dont give answer because on the basis that u r fan of harshad or aditi just say what is in your heart.
if u dont like my topic u are free to close it
i will put u in situation from which heer and prem has suffered and i wants to know if u r in their place so will be writing some situation below.
1]think if you are heer and prem confess to u that he has slept with aish(which is not true) than what u do will forgive him like typical indian woman or leave him as heer done?
2]think if you are prem and if gayatri says to tell heer to leave house than what will you do will tell heer to leave or not? pls remeber gayatri is ur mom here so dont say u will slap her.
3]if you are heer than u will hide from chahat about her father or tell her about her father? if u say i will tell than remeber she will creat a quetion why u left my dad and no woman has courage to say bad things to thair children.
4]if u are prem and u have mis understanding that heer is getiing married to yuvraj than u let her marry or allow her to get marry? if u say u will stop her than on what basis you will stop her?
5]if u r chahat than what u do?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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HI, Nice topic, there is no need to close it, don't worry . Anyways here is what I will do....


#1: If prem says he slept with Ash, then I will not forgive him, but If I was pregnant like Heer then I would still stay there for the sake of my child... I will be upset all my life...but I will take that poison

#2: If I am prem and my mom tells me to kick my wife out, then I will definitely ask her why, and will not kick my wife out without any reason.

#3: If I am Heer, and i have to make a decision about Chahat, well these things can never stay hidden, so I am gonna have to tell her about her father and who he is... but I cannot tell her about Prem's sin, I will rather make up something.

#4: If I am prem, and my heer is getting married to someone else then I'd let her if she is getting married to a right person. If this is what she think is best for her then I'm ok, although a bit dissappointed in my love.. but I always believe that "You cannot claim your love that you've lost a long time ago, when someone else found it, unless your love wants you back again".. But before she gets married I'd request her to have a long talk with me about us.


#5: If I was chahat, then obviously I will question about my father, who he was, how he was and.. all ........ I would want to know all I can know about him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: cindrella_fairy

hi friends i wants to know what what u do if u r in place of premeer and pls be honest because dont give answer because on the basis that u r fan of harshad or aditi just say what is in your heart.

if u dont like my topic u are free to close it
i will put u in situation from which heer and prem has suffered and i wants to know if u r in their place so will be writing some situation below.
1]think if you are heer and prem confess to u that he has slept with aish(which is not true) than what u do will forgive him like typical indian woman or leave him as heer done?

ok if i were heer (wishes she was heer, prem's wife 😍.... focus silly girl) ok if i were heer and prem had told me that he cheated on me... i would NOT forgive him ever, ever again and leave.....ofcourse i would tell him that i am pregnent and let him be a part in my child's life.... coz even though i could never forgive him... my child deserves a father so does prem have right to know his daughter.... but i would not live in the same house with prem coz there will be constant tension in the house which may have negative effect on child.

2]think if you are prem and if gayatri says to tell heer to leave house than what will you do will tell heer to leave or not? pls remeber gayatri is ur mom here so dont say u will slap her.

I would definately ask for a reason and will try to resove the problem... i would understand my resposibility towards my wife. and no matter how much i love my mom i wouldnt trun my back to my significant other just to make my parent happy. thats a big NO NO for me. especially when she has not done anything wrong.
3]if you are heer than u will hide from chahat about her father or tell her about her father? if u say i will tell than remeber she will creat a quetion why u left my dad and no woman has courage to say bad things to thair children.

i would definately want the father of my child be involved in child's life...... i would not give the reason as bad as it is.... but there are other ways around the question..... i dont think u can justify keep a child away from their parent or a parent from a child..... also, what is the gurantee that when chahat grows up and one fine day finds out about her father and she wont ask her mother questions..... heer will have to face the question why she left chahat's father..... but by not telling she will face more questions and may be chahat will hold negative feeling toward her mother for not telling the truth. so there. i would tell 100%

4]if u are prem and u have mis understanding that heer is getiing married to yuvraj than u let her marry or allow her to get marry? if u say u will stop her than on what basis you will stop her?

i wont stop her.... coz i know i messed up and caused so much pain to heer in process.... and now if she has optioned to move on with her life and start over i would let her.

5]if u r chahat than what u do?
hmmmm in what sense.... this question is a bit unclear to me.... but if i am chahat and i grew up knowing that mother hid the truth that my father is alive or around.... i would definately be upset with my mother but wont hate her...... i would ask million question and wont let go of her untill she satisfies me..... and then i will go look for my father...

please reply if u like my topic
thankyou
cindrella_fairy

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Posted: 16 years ago
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thanx for reply friends u were very honest to your answer and without bias u replied me by the way i m new thx dor supporting
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