Hello destructives what the hell was that???

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Aanandaa

@Aanandaa

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Posted: 16 years ago

#81

Originally posted by: Sanjana92
Creatives can't give everything you want in one 30 mins episode. Shouldn't you be happy because Prem and Heer are together, instead of hoping more? Agree, that we want more of Prem and Heer but really dude! There is something called Patience!...I has just been a day, you can't expect much in a day, and I really think you should stop calling them destructives, after all they are the ones that handle this show and decide the future plot... and stop complaining because consistency is something they are never going to show nor you could expect. So don't even waste your energy typing all these..really! You should be glad that they are together...they just can't show you full 30 mins of Prem and Heer...there are other characters in the show as well!!!

Ermmm...before typing so much, you should make it a point to read what you are replying to...

I don't think she ever complained abt wanting a full 30mnt Premeer...She is more bothered about not being able to relate to Prem and Heer and she has a point...

If you think you could relate to them...you are welcome to disagree with her...But don't try to boss around and tell people what they should be demanding and what not.....

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Aanandaa

@Aanandaa

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: Soaps1
Sanjana i will type whatever i will feel like typing you don't like it don't read it!!! 😊

And not once did i mention in my post that i wanted them to show 30 minutes of Premeer! I for one don't think destructives have done us a favor by showing premeer together...they make shows for us viewers and if we want to see them together and they show them together they are actually doing themselves a favor not us!

Tell me about it...🥱...I don't know why people think the destructives were doing us a favor by showing Premeer together???🤣🤣

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#83

Nadia I have a lot to say but will get back to it later with time in hand. I agree with u mostly on what u said. Took my time to let the episode sink in before I spill my feelings out.

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Sanjana

@Sanjana92

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: -athena-

Ermmm...before typing so much, you should make it a point to read what you are replying to...

I don't think she ever complained abt wanting a full 30mnt Premeer...She is more bothered about not being able to relate to Prem and Heer and she has a point...

If you think you could relate to them...you are welcome to disagree with her...But don't try to boss around and tell people what they should be demanding and what not.....

Hello Ms..I am not trying to be bossy here..I never told you guys to agree with me or anything..so please! I don't care if you guys don't agree with me, I am not demanding anything..I am just trying to get my point across just like how you guys do...is anything wrong with it?..I don't wanna boss around you all nor I am trying to. I just told her to appreciate what they are showing us..you can't expect everything to be perfect. It's just a show..nothing more..

I am sorry if I am being rude, but really instead of complaining..just appreciate what they show us...

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Sanjana

@Sanjana92

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: Soaps1
Sanjana i will type whatever i will feel like typing you don't like it don't read it!!! 😊
I was just doing you a favor 😉

And not once did i mention in my post that i wanted them to show 30 minutes of Premeer! I for one don't think destructives have done us a favor by showing premeer together...they make shows for us viewers and if we want to see them together and they show them together they are actually doing themselves a favor not us!

I know that you don't want full 30 mins of premeer but by what you said seems like you want more of premeer (which I want also) and nothing else...you guys probably don't like veera and maya's track but to me it seems pretty funny and i am just enjoying it..(just love watching how gaya3 is being foolded by them 2, and how despite of being married, veera still wants shit from her own parents house..) nothing else..just enjoying that..!

and also, remember, that only because of us harshad came back...we wanted him back, and they did us a favor by bringing him back..they are just greedy from trps..n we are greedy from premeer scenes..it's all still the same!!!

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Lana Ghosh

@lghosh

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#86

Nadia read this post y'day & felt like replying back then but needed to contemplate well before putting my words down here. There were many issues that cropped up in my mind which needed some justification & I had to let these sink in well before I wrote anything. But before I write anything here I just want to say this is solely my viewpoint & I am just penning it down for my benefit to get it out of my system & don't intend to offend anyone here. All along we were desperately waiting to see some romance between Premeer after these prolonged crying for ages & when finally we got some romance I was left at a loss to wonder why couldn't I enjoy it fully! It disturbed me a lot personally seeing everybody loved it & yet I didn't as much & I kept wondering why! And I found the crux of the problem being I couldn't relate to them, couldn't associate with them, couldn't connect to them! I will start at the beginning! When Prem came back & he looked at her & she unbelievably looked at him & then looked at the holy book to reassure herself that she wasn't hallucinating & then her running to him was fabulously done. Thanks creatives for that. The hug was mindblowing, as if they were trying to absorb each other within themselves to never let go. I loved that hug, it was so passionate, so loving, so romantic. Even the dialogs I loved when Prem told her that he is back because of her faith in her love when she asked him why did he come back! Then when he asked her to see the first rays of the Sun to indicate they too r looking at a new day, a new beginning in their lives, I loved all that because it was so Prem-ish, I would expect Prem to voice these exactly as he did it. But the hug only lasted a minute & whatever was bothering him for the past 1 yr (& us for past 6 months) was done with in that span of 2 mins. We expected for a breakdown but that never happened, it would have been a perfect conclusion of that chapter of GS & these ailment track but I knew they wouldn't show this. Prem's emotions & feelings r omitted most of the time, we didn't see his pain for these past months & knew even now we wouldn't see anything so was not surprised to see this. Somehow expected this. But what happened immediately after that literally shocked me. When Prem said now he has an important work to finish I really thought he would say something like going to the parents or fulfilling a responsibility like he usually does in a typical Prem like fashion but when he spoke about gifting G mom a grandkid at that precise intense moment I was very surprised. Never expected Prem to say something like that at that precise instant. It was very unPrem like but again I let it go thinking maybe he is trying to lighten the moment, trying to take the initial step to close the bridge between them. After this whatever I saw in the 2nd segment I was left agape. I have a request for these creatives, if u want to give us Premeer, then please go & watch the old episodes to know the essence & soul of Premeer before u try to present them to us. We know them more than u do! Everytime the creative team changes & we get modifications too in the character, personality, nature of Premeer, the consistency, the basic characteristics....everything gets lost. Before I write this I will have to say I cherish & love the romantic moments we saw in last year May, June, August & September. I love the witty & flirty nature of Prem be it that 'bol na halke halke' dance scene or the 'anda' scene. All throughout his naughty side came to the forefront alongwith his passion & romance & I simply die everytime watching those. And yet in all these scenes there is that underline of intensity, depth, purity & seriousness that prevails all throughout. And his eyes speak volumes of these characteristics in these scene about his nature & character & this was what attracted me to him & I am sure did so for almost all in this forum. That emotional profundity in him practically abducted me from myself. This is the reason many of us didn't like the hip-hop GS when HC later made an re-entry. GS was loud, boisterous, restless & almost a jumping Jack which was contrast to that calm, serene & confident Prem. But y'day's scene right from the moment he asked for that towel all I could see was GS to be back. It wasn't Prem, his desperation from the word go, his being hyper, his impatience I could never attribute these to Prem. As I said even when Prem was flirtatious & naughty his passion & intensity always was portrayed with a class & dignity but y'day it lacked this. I couldn't find that elegance & swank in him. Forgive me for saying so but he so looked like he was just thriving on hormones, to me that was a little crude, a little crass. Believe me it pains me to say so but I felt in that scene our Prem was missing, he was GS there & I don't know, maybe to some extent HC himself. I know at moments like this many will say thoughts r usually far behind but I will again like to ask the creatives does the basic nature & characteristics of a person change as well? I thought it was otherwise, when a person is very depressed, very happy, very angry, very excited, very scared then the basic nature of a person comes to the forefront overriding any facade so I don't think even if he was living the life of GS for these past months his GS facade would crumple at this precise moment when he was going to live the most pure ecstatic moment of his life for the 1st time with his beloved. This is just pure psychology nothing else! So there u go my faith was shaken right there when I saw Prem like that, just couldn't wait to be intimate with Heer, it lacked a little nobility, well atleast for me. I agree afterall he has lived for the past 1 year in sorrow & fear of death looming over him & suddenly now he has got a new lease to life & he wants to live to the fullest, that is fine but why will the class leave him now? Why will he behave so unPrem like fashion? It still doesn't sit well with me. It just looks like its a regular normal run of the mill couple we witness everyday in our lives & maybe in all other shows. It is not that ethereal surreal couple I knew & fell in love with. They were over & above every couple, they were beyond comparison but what I saw y'day was some ordinary couple who just couldn't wait to consummate! Again couldn't relate to my Premeer there. I am not even referring to breaking his button & asking Heer to stitch it, that I will pass, that I will give many people & even Prem might do that to be in close proximity with Heer. But his almost gobbling Heer up though was sweet but wasn't Prem like. If this was shown on anybody else I would have said it was cute & romantic. I can so well picturise it on Preet & it would have fit the situation well but again as I said I feel the pain & loss when the consistency of a character is broken & here my THE Prem was taken away. About Heer well I already got shocks after shocks in the past couple of months that it was not a surprise to see Heer at all making those expressions with a smirk all throughout egging him, teasing him, tempting him! I lost her when she was lashing at Prem thinking him to be GS, the 1st crack appeared then, later when she tried putting on that siren avatar not only talking trash with that smirk on implying almost vile scenarios but also put herself in front of the world & G mom in that shameless fashion about being pregnant by the end of the year. Sorry I love Heer, infact loved her more, but these past months just broke that image to pieces. I know she had a goal to achieve but still can't fathom the creatives will make her stoop to that position to obtain it. So y'day when instead of being that shy & coy Heer that I fell in love with I saw this seductress Heer again I lost my love for them. Either these creatives doesn't know about Premeer at all or they have no idea how to carry out a love scene with class. I loved Heer in anda scene when she just copied Prem to the hilt & teased him so boldly but all throughout I could sense her purity & naivete there, it was some pure fun but y'day it was some1 else I saw who looked very experienced in the world of passion & love. I know now they r married & r no more that awkward couple falling in love. But the intimacy they showed it seemed as if they r married for a long time & already living like a husband & wife in the true sense. They got married for a month & only 2 weeks back Heer came to know he is Prem & this is the 1st time they r sharing some intimacy. So correct me if I am wrong, it takes months if not year for those shy inhibitions & barriers to be down before a couple can freely act & do what they want with each other. Till then a little bit of shame persists, it just doesn't vaporise immediately after one ties the knot. If this scene was shown after some months I could have accepted it well but for the 1st time they r together & not a trace of shyness was there specially on part of Heer! Well lots can be said but I think I have made my point where I had felt the jolt in missing my Premeer. It was some other couple, it was HC & AG instead of my Premeer. Again this is just my opinion so many of u can differ with me & that's fine. But I sincerely hope the creatives get the essence & soul of Premeer right before they portray them in any intimate fashion in future.

Sorry for this long thesis Nadia but had to get it off my chest once & for all. Thanks for the post.

Lana.