Payal I couldn't have said it better the way u did here. I agree with all u said! Suddenly I am reading mesgs all over the forum sympathising with Heer & bashing Prem! I mean why? I thought maybe I missed out on something that these people didn't! Then when I read them I was really 😲😲! Why would any1 think knowing Prem that he would be doing everything purposely to make Heer cry & suffer just like that? He ought to have some solid good reason for whatever he is doing! He better have or else the creatives will be holding on to their last breath to see the next daylight of their lives!! He who cries with Heer, understands & feels her pains all throughout will willingly put her through all this misery? I mean why? Is that what we know of Prem?
I can't understand it either. Raksh and I were discussing the same, just yesterday. Everyone seems to be crying with Heer b/c we saw her pain, but no one is giving a second thought to Prem's pain. As you said, Prem would never purposely make her cry - this is the same guy that not only wiped her tears, but when he did, he encompassed them in his fist and held them close to his heart - how could he ever, for his own kicks, make her cry those tears that are so very precious to him, without damn good reason? (as you said, he better have damn good reason, or else, the creatives are in for it.) Prem would never hurt his Heer - and I am appalled to think that the others on the forum have been so misguided by the destructives to think that he could ever do all this and cause her pain and be okay with it himself. He is surely not okay with it, and he himself is dying a thousand deaths as he is doing all this. I think we just need to be patient and let the truth of his actions come out, and then we will see ourselves (hopefully, if the creatives don't make a royal mess of things) crying buckets with our beloved Prem.U know I am so thankful to Raksha for putting that 'tone down Heer' post. After that she did took it down some notches & it got bearable or else I seriously would have left watching the show. She ought to know its her Prem just 2 feet across from her & yet she was blasting him left, right & center? Then how r u Prem's Heer? How can u be 1? How can u be his heartbeat? Really I was appalled to see this & the entire forum was supporting this! They killed Heer there! I know I am in for big trouble for saying so but really it hurt me to think nobody thought why Prem is doing this, what he must have gone through in his life after that blast to make him act & feel so!
I too am so very thankful to her for that post. It really did help things with Heer. I don't know if I oculd have tolerated that Heer any longer than we had to. That is not the Heer we knew - Indeed not Prem's Heer, and that is why I was so glad the other day when Prem went so far as to tell Heer that she perhaps has forgotten who she herself is. I think that had two meanings - one, she has changed, herself, as in her manerism, and 2, if she knew who she was, maybe she'd be able to see who he really was.
I cant' tell you how much it bothers me that he's not able to recognize Prem. I mean, she could here his mandolin from across continents when she hadn't even met the guy yet, but now can't feel his presence when he's in the same room? I find this very hard to believe. I too don't see how the creatives messed up the Premeer-are-one theory so badly. How can she be his Heer, how can they be one if she doesn't realize that he is her Prem, the other half to her whole?
And I completely agree with the bolded line above. Raksh and I have discussed this as well. Why is it that no one has questioned his whereabout for 2 months after the blast? Why is it that no one asked him what he went through and what all he's endured? I'm really really hurt by all this as well.This is all the more reason I am mad with this creatives! Payal u ought to have written this in that 'should Heer forgive Prem' post, everyone would have understood the other side of the coin!
My list for why I'm mad at the creatives is endless now, I'm afraid.
As for the "should Heer forgvie prem" post, I must have missed that one....but yes, I wish others would see the flip side of the coin....😭