Are people really so insensitive?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I mean i don't understand the whole Veera wedding drama...Yes it was prem's wish to marry her off in a great way...but now he is supposidely dead...he died only days ago...and there his family is having a wedding with sangeet and all??? Can it get more unrealistic than this? I mean the are more worried about her jewelry and cloths and grand wedding than to remember that their son is dead???
And even Heer's behavior seems so unnatural...i mean had it been 2-3 months since Prem died i could have understood her urge to fulfil Prem's dreams and have so much courage but so soon?
Doesn't such instances make you feel all weird and at times sick? Isn't it a bit too unrealistic?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Dear, its not a bit unrealistic. Its utter non sense that no one other than Ekta can understand. No one cares Prem died. No one cares how his mother is dying every moment.

This family is so strange. Veera is just worried about her marriage lehnga. Lallu and Preet about hotel and Harman is worried about Maya/Meher. I have no idea about Kulraj and her hubby. But everyone is so strange.
And I agree, even Heer's behaviour is strange. People get strength after months. But this family is fine in few days.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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in 1st october sbs interview aditi said heer will cry for two months and will take care of family but i think they changed da story and they r moving forword for bringing prem back as without the story moving forword prem cant be brought back so they r showing it like this as da trps are going down and other channels r giving tough competition to starplus and they know without prem(harshad) and premeer chemistry kdmhmd is nothing and they already stretched prem's death for 3 weeks.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I know eh, but when it comes to BT serials, they're never realistic and no one can really relate to them beccause the things that happen, situations that the characters are put in are completely outrageous lol it's ridiculous.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweta2005

in 1st october sbs interview aditi said heer will cry for two months and will take care of family but i think they changed da story and they r moving forword for bringing prem back as without the story moving forword prem cant be brought back so they r showing it like this as da trps are going down and other channels r giving tough competition to starplus and they know without prem(harshad) and premeer chemistry kdmhmd is nothing and they already stretched prem's death for 3 weeks.

tumhare muh mein ghee shakkar.....kaash ki prem aa jaye...i mean harshu..
ekta has done harakiri...uska ek promising show jisko khud hi barbaad kar diya
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

I mean i don't understand the whole Veera wedding drama...Yes it was prem's wish to marry her off in a great way...but now he is supposidely dead...he died only days ago...and there his family is having a wedding with sangeet and all??? Can it get more unrealistic than this? I mean the are more worried about her jewelry and cloths and grand wedding than to remember that their son is dead???

well, to be fair to the junejas, lalit juneja did want to not do the wedding. remember that it was heer who came forward and said that the wedding must go on. but one thing i agree with you: given that the most beloved son is dead, id have expected them to do a more sober version of a wedding... unless even here, they are justifying it saying that it has to be the most fancy wedding around because prem wanted it..?

And even Heer's behavior seems so unnatural...i mean had it been 2-3 months since Prem died i could have understood her urge to fulfil Prem's dreams and have so much courage but so soon?

i am not sure that i understand what heer's mindset is - actually? someone else posted saying that to everyone else, heer just seems like she wants to fulfil prem's wishes - so outwardly, she has accepted that prem is - no longer there, if not actually dead. and yet, she talks to him (everynight?) and tells him to take care of himself - so inwardly, she has not accepted that prem is dead?

basically, we are left to imagine what happened between the heer who was left screaming in grief on the floor and the heer who came in to say that veera's wedding will go on. maybe one day soon, they'll tell us what is actually going on inside heer's head about prem...?
Doesn't such instances make you feel all weird and at times sick? Isn't it a bit too unrealistic?

imo, veera is the only person that makes me feel sick. everyone else is feeling the absence of prem in some way or the other, everyday. i mean, even kul-di's husband has felt his absence and is working to remove that feeling. veera? veera sulks and weeps because she cant have the big wedding she wants. she seriously needs to be (violently) written out of the script!!! 😔

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Posted: 16 years ago
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i guess if it was anyone else, they s have a quite wedding just to gget it done at the scheduled time, but since it is darling VEERA, she can not be expected to leave without any fanfare... this way i guess it tugs at the heart more too, they ll show heer trying to be brave and take part and i think that will drive us to tears that s what they want to do
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Posted: 16 years ago
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They should've atleast kept the wedding simple and a low-key affair. But it's Veera....what else can we expect !

Moreover, they are using the lame excuse that Prem wanted it to be grand and blah blah.

I agree...it's just been few days and nobody, with the exception of Heer, even remembers Prem and are all busy in their own world. It's really insensitive of them...but then it's the J-zoo we're talking abt......I don't expect anything from those GFNs.


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Posted: 16 years ago
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yeah its really very insensitive...only few days passed their darling son died...n now they r having a wedding at home...i mean no sister is so insensitive that she cannot even understands her parents feelings n above all her bhabi's feelings who was also preparing to get married on da same day...ridiculous n far away from reality....

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