Shaadi, Memory Loss, Heerisms...etc.

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No analysis today...just thoughts..lots of thoughts....


Shaadi Ki Taiyaariyan:

Lalit (I'm making a serious effort to stop calling him Ullu since he's redeeming himself) definitely has something up his sleeve.

My thoughts after seeing todays episode:
Tons of attention was given the DJ today that depicted how excited and happy she was about her daughter's wedding. It can't have been for no reason. Too, Lalit was watching her every move, and even egging her on to go all out since after all, its her daughter's wedding. As far as I see it, Undoubtedly, DJ is going to be in for some serious dissapointment. If we take into concideration what Lalit said to her (the convers that Heer overheard and misunderstood), we plan for weddings and sometimes they don't happen...but sometimes, even unplanned, two people get married. I think it was a big giveaway that indeed, this is Premeer's wedding they're preparing for. Lalit is letting DJ get excited and plan all these things for her "beti"s shaadi....can you imagine the look on her face when DJ finds out Preet/Ash aren't getting married? I bet Preet/Ash are in on it too....

Another indication: Prem in the precap today. He's very dressed up for one. I mean, I know its his brother's shaadi, but he looked like the groom himself. Also, he was very happy, blushing and gushing even, as he pushed the hair off his forehead. The reason for this happiness? The idea that soon, Heer will be his wife?

Hmmm....I wanna know.

Memory Loss or Not

This may be a thing with the writers/directors, but....

Yesterday, Heer looked very shocked when Prem came into her hospital room like that...she even retreated as he went to go hold her hand. Indeed, it seemed like memory loss.

Today, she's perfectly fine - no memory loss.

I like Misty's theory in that the stress and fatigue from the events at the dargah could have led to mild temporary amnesia. Her shock just looked too genuine in the hospital to completely ignore it now. This is the best theory I've heard, so I'm going with it.

Today, in the Raasta Roko scene (that I'm upset with b/c in the preview it was longer and here, it was butchered) it seemed as though Heer did remember everything..if you watch closely, she eyes the suit that is in Prem's hand. And Prem is eyeing her the whole time very quizically as if trying to figure out whether she really is lying or not. He goes and stands by the window and tries to collect himself as if he knows she's lying, but he's trying to force himself to just play along - maybe to figure out why she's lying? Then he turns and tells her about the dress, and very accusingly says "lekin tumhe toh yaad hi nahi hoga na...Kuch yaad nahin tumhe? Koi baat nahi - jaane do." ..."kuch yaad nahi tumhe?" There was accusation in his voice as if he were saying "why are you lying? i know you remember...you can't forget, you couldn't forget our past even if you wanted to b/c it is so much a part of you...of us."

I think Prem is well aware that she's feigning the memory loss...but, if he knows, why would he play along with it?

I wanna know.......

Identity Revealed to All

As Misty said: Does Heer remember (that is, if she really has regained all her memory or never lost her memory to begin with) that Lalit now knows the truth about her identity? If so, how could she make the grave mistake of misunderstanding what he said to DJ? More importantly, how could she think her disappearing act will make everyone happy? If Heer leaves, with her leaves any chance of Lalit fulfilling his promise...How Will This Make Him Happy?

ALSO: IF Heer knows that Lalit/Gayatri are now aware of her identity, does she know that Prem too must know? I wanna know why the creatives didn't shine light on this. Granted Prem is supposed to think she's lost her memory and doesn't remember anything, but I still would like to have seen Heer get some kind of affirmation that Prem too knows her true identity now. I don't want her to go on thinking that Prem isn't aware.

And IF she knows that he knows, then how and why would she think that for some reason, her leaving will make things better?

Also, I would have liked to see that Meher finds out that Lalit/Gayatri know about their true identity now. I mean, its a given that they know, and that she knows they know, but I would have liked to see her actually find out that they found out during the storm.

Heer's Insecurities?

What is with her "main tumhare saath jajti nahi hoon"? Where the heck is that coming from? Why does she not see that she is his better half...and he is her better half? This girl has lost her mind. She knows that she's incomplete without Prem...then, doesn't it go without saying that He Too Is Imcomplete Without Her?

Come on, Heer, think things through dear.

Heer's Determination?

She is Hell-Bent on leaving Prem. Before, she wanted to leave him because she was causing a rift btwn Prem and Lalit. But, now why does she want to leave him? All Prem/Lalit problems have been resolved, Prem's back in with the family again, and everyone is busy preparing for their wedding...the wedding they came to India for in the first place. SO, Why is Heer Still so determined to leave him? I'm not buying the "main jajti nahi hoon" business...I want an answer! Does she really all the sudden think that she's not good enough for him? What nonsense!

But, I must say, once she decides on something, she decides on it and follows through (she's very much like Prem in that way...heh...and she thinks voh uske saath jajti nahi hai...paagal ladki - they are the most determined, "main-bhagwan-nahi-hoon" people I've ever come across - clearly a match made in heaven). The girl packed her bag and left - kudos to her for her courage in doing this. But again, she's Not thinking it through. Where will she go? Where will she stay? Does she even have any money? What will she do? And again, why, is she playing run away?!?!

I would like to know....!

Sister Separation?

WHY is Meher not allowed to stay with Heer? According to Gayatri mom, its b/c Heer needs her rest. I'm not buying that. It didn't seem to me as if Heer was resting. AND, even if she was resting, she probably would have appreciated having Meher there with her. SO why the need to separate the two? Its not like Meher was going to be a disturbance to Heer. I just don't get it.

We didn't even get a Heer/Meher scene after the toofan incident. What are the creatives thinking? Have the sister's conversed at all? Has Heer told Meher about how Lalit discovered their identity? Does Meher know about what happened to Heer and that she had Memory Loss? Why wasn't Meher seen taking care of and nursing Heer? (Ok, it was sweet seeing Prem do it, but really, lets be practical.)

And the BIGGEST one: WHY isn't Heer telling Meher of her plan to be a runaway bride...and why isn't she taking Meher with her? If she thinks Meher will be safe and happy with the Junejas, she should know better - Heer is all Meher has and Meher needs Heer right now, just as much as Heer needs Meher. And Meher can never be happy in that house with the likes of Veera around anyway (what's with Veera? I wonder how she can really be related to the rest of Lalit/Gayatri's kids!).

Seriously...I'd like to know...............

Miscellaneous Thoughts

Where was Preet today? Even the "Prem Bhaiya" wasn't his dubbing.
Where is Nihaal and are they even going to continue his angle of the story? (Perhaps Heer will leave, find Nihaal, and Nihaal will see Heer's necklace and realize that she's his sister?)
Where is Beeji? With Nihaal?
Now that Prem is back in the Juneja mansion, Did Lalit kick his so called adopted son to the curb?
How come the sudden change in plot? Why couldn't they just hold on to the memory loss track for a week or two? It would have given us a chance to see some really cute Prem reminding Heer scenes.

Will be back if I think of anything else I wanna add to this list....

Love,
~Payal

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Posted: 17 years ago
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the whole seriel is scattered in different parts........kisi ka koi pata nahi hai................first of.......I would like HARMAN to make his grand comeback.......LOL..........I don't hv a clue where is he since last month.......LOL.....is he missing or what?........
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: zindagi001

the whole seriel is scattered in different parts........kisi ka koi pata nahi hai................first of.......I would like HARMAN to make his grand comeback.......LOL..........I don't hv a clue where is he since last month.......LOL.....is he missing or what?........



I heard somewhere that the guy that played Harman had to leave because his dad was really sick or something? If thats the case, then I hope his dad is doing better now...😔
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: IndianPari



I heard somewhere that the guy that played Harman had to leave because his dad was really sick or something? If thats the case, then I hope his dad is doing better now...😔

Paayu, tfs......that's so sad news........I hope his Dad is fine, now...............but, EKTA atleast had showed us viewers something like, ok he is going to some other country on a business trip or something.......she just had him missing without any reason on the show..........Lol.........these creatives really gotta think out of the box............
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Posted: 17 years ago
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👏 I think Prem also wants to know some of this. 'pecially those questions about Heer. i think that Prem had understood that heer had wanted to leave him before he rescue her. i think that's why he keeps saying tum mujhe chood kar nehi jaa sakti over and over again. 😆 Maybe now he konws she is faking it but is giving her some time before catching her out and asking her why? I just hoep the creatives give him time to do all this.

Prem is so haaaaaaaaaapy n the pre-cap

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Nice post payal
You are so postive abt everthing and just given ur thoughts on everthing....
Shaadi Ki Taiyaariyan:
No i don't think there is any ray of hope for prem heer marriage.... she leaves and no one will see her for sure. bcoz in ekta land everyone will leave so easily among the crowd and prema nd heer are walking int he opposite direction.
I do accept lalit and gaya3 has something in store for DJ but prem is not happy for him he is happy for preet thats all i can say... they are showuing a happy prem b4 making sad for the rst of the scenes..
Memory Loss or Not:
There are chances that he would have find out but i doubt it.... but i loved prem and i thought te creatives have their mind back into track bit all the heer's action following is so stupid and i hate it.
Identity Revealed to All
Heer doesn't know anyhting abt the indenty reveallation even i wonder whether prem knows that it is the same heer of his fathers friend... bcoz lalit told that to prem in his dream... not in real. so i doubt it.... only lalit and gaya3 knows the truth.... so it is again a big knot to be cleared int he show
Heer's Insecurities? & Heer's Determination?
I think she is very much decided to leave prem... she thinks for sure if she leave prem he'll be happy with his father.... till when it is not known to her that lalit loves her family she'll run away only...
And i'm sure she will go bcoz i think BT doen't want to make us happy and i know they will spoil the show...
Sister Separation?
yes heer never once thought abt meher... she is more preoccupied abther elopeing from prem she forgot meher. soonly i'm so sure that she will suceed in her plan
Miscellaneous Thoughts:
Preet is busy getting ready for marriage.
Even i'm looking for Nihaal does he got any clue to find his sisters or not?
What hppnd to beeji why she is not around is also a million dollar question.
Dheer is not around after the strom.... i think they forgotit since they want to seperate prem heer now...
Final thoughts:
I'm so sorry payal even though u repeatedly told to beleieve in the show i completely lost it on seeing heer go away form prem and when they walked in opposite directions... entire family is aying starting everthing new from begining is also bugging me like anything and i'm sure heer will go away form prem. I'm sorry agin for my -ve thoughts but i love u for ur +ve wish and i loved ur post hun.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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oh, and also, Heer does not look Prem in the eyes when she says I don't remember anything! and that's when Prem looks very hurt. Yes, i think prem knows.

why didn't he put extra gaurds on her doors? 😭😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: zindagi001

Paayu, tfs......that's so sad news........I hope his Dad is fine, now...............but, EKTA atleast had showed us viewers something like, ok he is going to some other country on a business trip or something.......she just had him missing without any reason on the show..........Lol.........these creatives really gotta think out of the box............



I agree...there could have been some indication of his need to go away for a while.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: only.asking

👏 I think Prem also wants to know some of this. 'pecially those questions about Heer. i think that Prem had understood that heer had wanted to leave him before he rescue her. i think that's why he keeps saying tum mujhe chood kar nehi jaa sakti over and over again. 😆 Maybe now he konws she is faking it but is giving her some time before catching her out and asking her why? I just hoep the creatives give him time to do all this.

Prem is so haaaaaaaaaapy n the pre-cap



Who knows what the creatives will do...all I'm saying is, from a realistic, practical pt. of view, these things need to be ironed out...and Premeer need to talk, like two sophisticated adults.

(Though, Premeer aren't our typical "two sophisticated adults" in love, are they?)
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Originally posted by: tulip21

Nice post payal

You are so postive abt everthing and just given ur thoughts on everthing....

I've done my fare share of damage with the negativity in the past, so I'm trying to make up for that. Also, I'm done with speculating whats going to happen next...I'm just waiting and watching until the day I can't stand to watch any more. 😊
Shaadi Ki Taiyaariyan:
No i don't think there is any ray of hope for prem heer marriage.... she leaves and no one will see her for sure. bcoz in ekta land everyone will leave so easily among the crowd and prema nd heer are walking int he opposite direction.
I do accept lalit and gaya3 has something in store for DJ but prem is not happy for him he is happy for preet thats all i can say... they are showuing a happy prem b4 making sad for the rst of the scenes..

You really don't think they're atleast preparing for Premeer marriage? I mean, ok, I know Heer is leaving and that its an Ekta show, so they can't be married so quickly, but all I'm saying is, I bet Lalit intends for Premeer to get married and not Preet/Ash.
Memory Loss or Not:
There are chances that he would have find out but i doubt it.... but i loved prem and i thought te creatives have their mind back into track bit all the heer's action following is so stupid and i hate it.

Heer's not going anywhere - Prem won't let her...and even if she does, Prem will pull heaven and earth together to bring her back to him. Don't worry.
Identity Revealed to All
Heer doesn't know anyhting abt the indenty reveallation even i wonder whether prem knows that it is the same heer of his fathers friend... bcoz lalit told that to prem in his dream... not in real. so i doubt it.... only lalit and gaya3 knows the truth.... so it is again a big knot to be cleared int he show

You're right! What if Ullu forgot to tell Prem that Heer is THE Heer...Balraj's Heer...but, something tells me if Lalit has forgiven Prem and Heer and Heer/Meher are now in the same house with them, that though we weren't told that Prem is aware, he has to be aware...I'm sure somewhere in KDMHMD land, while we were all sleeping, Lalit and Gayatri told Prem everything. I'm sure he knows...he has to, right?
Heer's Insecurities? & Heer's Determination?
I think she is very much decided to leave prem... she thinks for sure if she leave prem he'll be happy with his father.... till when it is not known to her that lalit loves her family she'll run away only...
And i'm sure she will go bcoz i think BT doen't want to make us happy and i know they will spoil the show...

I hope that she realizes that since Lalit knows who she is now, he's kicking himself for hurting her. I hope she realizes that things are okay btwn her and Lalit now and that Lalit sees her as his own daughter...Heer is confusing the heck out of me...or, is it the fact that the creatives are leaving so many important details out? I wanna know!
Sister Separation?
yes heer never once thought abt meher... she is more preoccupied abther elopeing from prem she forgot meher. soonly i'm so sure that she will suceed in her plan

I hope somehow, tomorrow, if Heer does infact end up leaving, that Meher is with her.
Miscellaneous Thoughts:
Preet is busy getting ready for marriage. Good pt...could be.
Even i'm looking for Nihaal does he got any clue to find his sisters or not? I think perhaps, if Heer leaves, she will bump into Nihaal and he'll see her necklace, and at long last, bichde hue bro/sis will reunite.
What hppnd to beeji why she is not around is also a million dollar question. Eh, small tibdit overlooked by the creatives...
Dheer is not around after the strom.... i think they forgotit since they want to seperate prem heer now...lol, so its confirmed, na? He got kicked to the curb? 😆
Final thoughts:
I'm so sorry payal even though u repeatedly told to beleieve in the show i completely lost it on seeing heer go away form prem and when they walked in opposite directions... entire family is aying starting everthing new from begining is also bugging me like anything and i'm sure heer will go away form prem. I'm sorry agin for my -ve thoughts but i love u for ur +ve wish and i loved ur post hun.

Don't be sorry hun, we all go through negative phases like this...I went through a huge one just 2 weeks back....it took a whole force of Premeerians to pull me out of my lull...just have faith in Premeer and their love and the fact that they're destined to be together in the end...have faith. 😊

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