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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi...😊

i watched the episode a few minutes back...Really! it's tough being saachi in YG household(YGH) .
People there, are waiting for a chance to keep troubling poor saachi..Come on ,every body suffers from head ache ..but not so in YGH...If you have head ache don't mention it to anybody because they will tell you that you are old..😆...suparna😡

Now...there was a lot of hue and cry over saachi not agreeing to wear the dresses bought by dv immediately...Well!..saachi agreed to wear it later.👍🏼..so that should be ok..😎..come on she is a wife not a slave ,that, the minute the master orders she should fulfill it...she is a human too.she was upset and still she had a smile on her face...👏

by the way...dv ⭐️ knows saachi's likes and dislikes...he brought three dresses for her and not one according to her taste.😕...Actually saachi❤️ had every right to get angry with DV for not keeping her likes and dislikes in mind while shopping for her... He could have brought atleast one dress of her choice...

Before marrying Saachi, Dv knew exactly what he was going in for. But for Saachi , Dv's lifestyle, friends and last but not the least the entire YGH👎🏼 was a culture shock.

Every human being should have a right to dress as they please.True love is accepting your partner AS HE/SHE IS ... There is nothing wrong if the partner does not hesitate...but if she has reservations then first those fears have to be put to rest and then the changes have to be adopted...
Saachi is a strong woman...she can definitely give back to each and every one in YGH...she is a fighter - Remember👍🏼
YGH kis khet ki mooli hai that saachi can't handle...the tragedy is that she is a good human being with genuine concern for the family peace...
But... Alas! Too Good Is Too Bad...
MY POV...😉

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: drveena



Hi...😊

i watched the episode a few minutes back...Really! it's tough being saachi in YG household(YGH) .
People there, are waiting for a chance to keep troubling poor saachi..Come on ,every body suffers from head ache ..but not so in YGH...If you have head ache don't mention it to anybody because they will tell you that you are old..😆...suparna😡

Now...there was a lot of hue and cry over saachi not agreeing to wear the dresses bought by dv immediately...Well!..saachi agreed to wear it later.👍🏼..so that should be ok..😎..come on she is a wife not a slave ,that, the minute the master orders she should fulfill it...she is a human too.she was upset and still she had a smile on her face...👏

by the way...dv ⭐️ knows saachi's likes and dislikes...he brought three dresses for her and not one according to her taste.😕...Actually saachi❤️ had every right to get angry with DV for not keeping her likes and dislikes in mind while shopping for her... He could have brought atleast one dress of her choice...

Before marrying Saachi, Dv knew exactly what he was going in for. But for Saachi , Dv's lifestyle, friends and last but not the least the entire YGH👎🏼 was a culture shock.

Every human being should have a right to dress as they please.True love is accepting your partner AS HE/SHE IS ... There is nothing wrong if the partner does not hesitate...but if she has reservations then first those fears have to be put to rest and then the changes have to be adopted...
Saachi is a strong woman...she can definitely give back to each and every one in YGH...she is a fighter - Remember👍🏼
YGH kis khet ki mooli hai that saachi can't handle...the tragedy is that she is a good human being with genuine concern for the family peace...
But... Alas! Too Good Is Too Bad...
MY POV...😉



Thank you Doctor Ji.. i had decided to keep quiet about JLZ and Saachi as i know how heavily opinions are against her, especially among women folk. All i can say is - you hit the nail on the head... cannot agree more with every point that you wrote.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moderator1961



Thank you Doctor Ji.. i had decided to keep quiet about JLZ and Saachi as i know how heavily opinions are against her, especially among women folk. All i can say is - you hit the nail on the head... cannot agree more with every point that you wrote.



Nice post...but let me tell you one thing...DV has good choice in clothes...remember he picked out Saachi's dress during Praachi's engagement ...and in fact Saachi seeked his opinion to buy a saree during Diwali time...and bought and wore the saree he suggested...even Aaji acknowledge his taste in clothes...so he knew exactly what would suit Saachi and what she would like...he even said so...
Saachi wore a dress in goa and looked beautiful...that fact encouraged DV to get dresses for her...if she had never worn it he would have not realized or thought of getting those for her... Even during honeymoon he had told her he liked her just the way she was,he was even ready to see her in a saree On the dance floor...but once he saw her voluntarily wear a dress and looked gorgeous in it , he was tempted or encouraged to get dresses...I think his intentions are for her to be free of inhibitions,to be like everyone else...my pov...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: drveena



Hi...😊

i watched the episode a few minutes back...Really! it's tough being saachi in YG household(YGH) .
People there, are waiting for a chance to keep troubling poor saachi..Come on ,every body suffers from head ache ..but not so in YGH...If you have head ache don't mention it to anybody because they will tell you that you are old..😆...suparna😡

Now...there was a lot of hue and cry over saachi not agreeing to wear the dresses bought by dv immediately...Well!..saachi agreed to wear it later.👍🏼..so that should be ok..😎..come on she is a wife not a slave ,that, the minute the master orders she should fulfill it...she is a human too.she was upset and still she had a smile on her face...👏

by the way...dv ⭐️ knows saachi's likes and dislikes...he brought three dresses for her and not one according to her taste.😕...Actually saachi❤️ had every right to get angry with DV for not keeping her likes and dislikes in mind while shopping for her... He could have brought atleast one dress of her choice...

Before marrying Saachi, Dv knew exactly what he was going in for. But for Saachi , Dv's lifestyle, friends and last but not the least the entire YGH👎🏼 was a culture shock.

Every human being should have a right to dress as they please.True love is accepting your partner AS HE/SHE IS ... There is nothing wrong if the partner does not hesitate...but if she has reservations then first those fears have to be put to rest and then the changes have to be adopted...
Saachi is a strong woman...she can definitely give back to each and every one in YGH...she is a fighter - Remember👍🏼
YGH kis khet ki mooli hai that saachi can't handle...the tragedy is that she is a good human being with genuine concern for the family peace...
But... Alas! Too Good Is Too Bad...
MY POV...😉


superb comment. ilike it

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Posted: 11 years ago
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prabhatji and lakshmi...thanks...😊

@ jyothi - agreed dv has a good taste ,and nobody is denying this...😊

But ,saachi did agree to try on the dresses later.The fact that she dressed up that way during the honey moon was only to please Dv.This, dv too is aware of. So he should have bought one dress of his liking and the rest according to what saachi normally wears.
When Dv himself is not able to take a stand against anki and tell her that the dresses are meant for his "wife" only and with him still approving his dad's views about missing adu and believing that his dad really wanted adu to stay and that it wrong on saachi's part to send him to the hostel - all these things show that though Dv's love for saachi is very strong their relationship especially when compared to that of Dv's with YGH is still very tender.
Dv has great love and regard for his family.The day he stops taking his dad,etc for their word and starts supporting saachi unconditionally..that will be the day when saachi will, in all probabilty, take on YGH.
Till then , she has to wait patiently albeit grudgingly...For now Neena has seen through her husband's double standards. Actually, she too can tell dv about this..but that's not happening! So , even for Saachi, to explain YG's chameleon type of nature, to DV , is not easy.
Dv, time and again , keeps reminding Saachi that YGH is very broad minded and large hearted , which infact is the other way round. Saachi is totally aware of this and is probably waiting for DV to realise this harsh truth on his own.
DV is still not aware that Anway is jealous of his achievements..So, DV who was treated as the baby of the family ,is still that only "THE BABY" when it comes to deciphering characters.
Saachi has grown up before time...rather circumstances compelled her to...but , politics amongst family members is something very new to her.
For her Family= total sacrifice= no ambiguity=real love...which is not the case in YGH...which DV still needs to understand. He is so Naive. He believes it when his dad praises Saachi...he fails to read between the lines...
So, i guess it will be a while before saachi is really able convince DV about the real intentions of YGH except Neena.
AND...
keep commenting...i like it... DV style...😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Saachi the character is an idealist one. She is ever giving , always understanding. In this practical world we bash her for being so because we dont see people like her. She is a truly a spiritual person for me. Positive, strong and etc etc. And yes it is a tragedy "Being Saachi" in today's time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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DV had gifted the dresses to Saachi. What she does with them after that-wears them, never wears them or gives them away was up to Saachi. Thats the reason Anki asked Saachi for the dress and not DV. It was up to Saachi to say a firm no. Anki is not Prachi that she has to indulge her. I dont see anything wrong in what DV did...he knows what looks good on Saachi. In his society married women wearing western clothes is no big deal. Also lets not forget DV is 27 so there will be a difference in what both want from life. Saachi has shown willingness to fit into DV's world just like DV fit into hers. If she wasnt comfortable they could have worked out a compromise.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yaar Veena, as you said too good is too bad in YG's mansion! Also I JUST WANT TO SEE SANCHI A STRONG AND CONFIDENT WOMAN!! NOT A SUFFERER AND SOFT TO EVRY SUP AND ANKI. ALSO SHE LOOKS BEAUTIFUL IN WESTERN OUTFITS. That's why if she wears those modern outfits , I and DV will be very happy!!😃 This is my POV!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well Veenaji..it is tough being sanchi in YG household becoz thats what she wants it to be...I would rather she tells supu or puts her foot down for not giving the dress to ankie.AT SHE CAN CONTROL THAT PART...
I feel it is better to please ppl who lve u rather than be extra nice to ppl who are mean to u..
as for DV choosing n getting and asking sanchi to try the dresses I did not see him ordering forcing orher to wear them yes he liked then for his wife n got them wanted to see her in them THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT,,
IF AS A WIFE U CANT DO THESE LITTLE THINGS FOR UR HUBBY IT WILL BE DIFFICULT FOR A MARRIAGE TO LAST...
Dv has gone out of his way to do things for her n if she cant do this much its a problemm..
sanchi is in a mess as its her creation it has got nothing to do with her being Mahan or good person
sorry veenaji I will fight for ppl who loveme so cant relate to her..I hope u will not feel bad for me being blunt😳😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas

well Veenaji..it is tough being sanchi in YG household becoz thats what she wants it to be...I would rather she tells supu or puts her foot down for not giving the dress to ankie.AT SHE CAN CONTROL THAT PART...

I feel it is better to please ppl who lve u rather than be extra nice to ppl who are mean to u..
as for DV choosing n getting and asking sanchi to try the dresses I did not see him ordering forcing orher to wear them yes he liked then for his wife n got them wanted to see her in them THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT,,
IF AS A WIFE U CANT DO THESE LITTLE THINGS FOR UR HUBBY IT WILL BE DIFFICULT FOR A MARRIAGE TO LAST...
Dv has gone out of his way to do things for her n if she cant do this much its a problemm..
sanchi is in a mess as its her creation it has got nothing to do with her being Mahan or good person
sorry veenaji I will fight for ppl who loveme so cant relate to her..I hope u will not feel bad for me being blunt😳😃


yaar 100% agree!

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