Boundaries are not clearly defined

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode 2-24-14

it can overwhelm a couple and erode their marital bond.

Dhruv and Saachi are allowing too much "outside" interference which may become the #1 cause of failed relationship's. In modern relationships, people are looking for a partnership, and they want partners who make their lives more interesting.

In the marriage, going out to nightclubs and singles bars is absolutely out of the question for Dhurv and Saachi without the other coming along. In fact, Saachi generally don't even go to places like that anyways.

What makes it hard to keep their marriage in tact, it's that culturally all three sides of a fulfilling relationship are being attacked: mind, body and spirit.

MIND:
One word: loyalty. To be fully connected and fulfilled emotionally requires complete and total loyalty on both sides. This is becoming a lost art in every aspect of society.

BODY:
The body is now viewed as little more than a car one might enter momentarily for a roller coaster ride or adorn in such a way as to tempt someone to enter for a momentary thrill. The magic has all but been forgotten.

SPIRIT:
By not sharing and helping each other reach for greater heights, I think we cheat ourselves out of a precious type of marital fulfillment.


Ankita it is time for you to move on and create a life for yourself without Dhruv.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written post kalpana. Today people are more materialistic and commercial. It gets more challenging for a couple to hold on to each other. Couples have to be careful about how much space they give other people in their life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post seems it's after effect of their HM fiasco.ppl in d show n situations r after them n their happiness n not letting them to bond to ve ambuja cement wala marital bond lol.

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