loneliness and grieving after a break up

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode 1-16-14

One thing you must keep in mind is, no one deserves to be alone or to feel lonely, but as a human being we must learn to be okay when we are alone. Breaking up can hurt so bad that we feel we lost someone both physically and mentally, and the grieving begins.


Saachi dealing with Money Stress, she may not be able to count on people, but she can count on her cash. Now her thinking's gone to - There's nothing between her and the abyss. She is desperate to overcome financial stress, she need to use verbal cues to put clients into a deeply relaxed state, where they become absorbed in their inner thoughts, then offers suggestions to shift an attitude so they can better tackle a problem. In her case, the suggestions might be "Money is energy that comes and goes" or "Her net worth doesn't equal her personal worth", to deflect the paralysis and insecurity that financial panic can cause. While it won't make her richer, it will help her handle, and feel better about, the money she do have. Don't worry, be savvy!

Her feelings expressed in the dream most likely reflect the feelings of the dreamer. Having a strong reaction to this and she not being able to entertain the idea that her dream about Dhruv is telling her anything else besides that this person still loves her and she is destined to be together should show her how strong her hopes and wishes are. Also dreaming of a past relationship does reflect her current stage in grieving the relationship that ended. Perhaps she miss Dhruv, the companionship, or other positive aspects of their relationship. But she has emotionally discard Dhruv and at times became obnoxious and left him to feel confused and broken-hearted.

Dhruv often obsess and ruminate over if Saachi ever really loved him and how he could have been so easily discarded. His emotions range from hurt, to disbelief, to anger. He feel like an opaque curtain has descended around him, separating him from the rest of the world. He move around as if in a bubble.

Dhruv and Saachi breaking up has hurt so bad that they both feel they have lost someone both physically and mentally, and the grieving begins, minus interment. Their being lonely can feel like it lasts too long, but like everything else, it does end.

A best friend take advantage of him when he is in the intoxicated state. To avoid the mess, avoid the tears. You're a childhood friend and you're certainly not his girlfriend. Be polite and even helpful, but stay strong and keep your shoulder to yourself that's not the job of friends.


Mommie, Nina come clean to tell the truth, that you have been trying to keep a secret for letting son down and letting herself down. She need to take their brunt, since she was too caught up in the madness of her leader whom she know now is just as evil.

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Edited by kalpana19 - 11 years ago

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