Sanchi loves DV and really loves him!!! - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes I think she truly loves him because she told dv's dad.. She can't leave dv for the sake of money ,, or he is not for sale ,, she loves him thts why she is leaving him and taking the blame on her . Not go disclose his family's reality ... Today she proved it she loves dv a lot
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee


How will DV know when she will not discuss with him. And how will he know when she will take the blame of accepting money on her...and how will he know what needs to be done to either convince them or separate from them unless you will discuss.

Truth will reveal itself Vinee but will take some time. This is how life works in reality. If you rush into something then there are chances that you will ruin many things immediately. If she tells him immediately, Saachi knows it clearly that DV will react and will just go against his family. This is what she doesn't want, to break his family. With time DV will start observing his family value system and with new found maturity he will take a stand. There is a hell lot of diff betwn Saachi's family and DV' family. It was easy to prove to Saachi's family because they believe in relations but DV' family is all abt money except DV and to some extent his mother.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I ask all those who say sanchi is in love...

Is love sacrifice...only..so if u sacrifice ur love for his parents without asking the lover if he is happy or not
is it love???

Not telling the lover of break-up and going ahead ...by wallowing in self pity is it love???

Not telling his/ her lover how selfish or nasty their true colors of his parents ..Is it love...??

just becoz sanchi is mild and not nasty does it give her the right to hide and take away the respect from DV to decide abt their relationship...

So wats makes sanchi in love??/
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Raatri

yes saanchi loves dv...thats why she will take blame on herself for the breakup...without disclosing the reality of their family to him...yeh toh koi pyaar karne wala hi kar sakta hain...

exactly, saachi loves dv, true love ka matlab hay uske lea sab khuc acche karna jese o sabse zada payer kartihay,chahe khdko kitni takleef hi na ho,,,ye jaruri nehi hay jisse tum payer kartiho usko hasil karna chaia..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas

I ask all those who say sanchi is in love...


Is love sacrifice...only..so if u sacrifice ur love for his parents without asking the lover if he is happy or not
is it love???

Not telling the lover of break-up and going ahead ...by wallowing in self pity is it love???

Not telling his/ her lover how selfish or nasty their true colors of his parents ..Is it love...??

just becoz sanchi is mild and not nasty does it give her the right to hide and take away the respect from DV to decide abt their relationship...

So wats makes sanchi in love??/


But sometimes your partners nature has to be kept in mind. DV is very fast in reacting. He would eventually come to know about what has happened.
DV , he has always maintained that he will go against everyone if need be for the sake of his love. He is a little reactive but in family life u hv to be patient.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyankaThard


But sometimes your partners nature has to be kept in mind. DV is very fast in reacting. He would eventually come to know about what has happened.
DV , he has always maintained that he will go against everyone if need be for the sake of his love. He is a little reactive but in family life u hv to be patient.


well that theory does not hold good as she took the money in front of dv and his whole family...how does that makeher in love😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In any relationship, if you don't gather your partner's opinion before making decision that impacts both.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas


well that theory does not hold good as she took the money in front of dv and his whole family...how does that makeher in love😊


She is not expecting anything from DV by doing this. And she has clarified her move to Mr. Goel clearly that she had already rejected his offer but the logic given by his wife was more convincing so the decision. If this time also she tells DV abt the convo betwn her and mom then surely he will leave everybody behind. But she doesn't want this to happen.
In future I think DV will understand the unethical ways of his family. Till now he has considered his family to be very cool, supportive. His convo with Bhabhi also showed that he doesn't know anything abt family politics. Once married the first thing a couple will hv to do is to deal with the family. He will get time to understand the realities of family life.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyankaThard


She is not expecting anything from DV by doing this. And she has clarified her move to Mr. Goel clearly that she had already rejected his offer but the logic given by his wife was more convincing so the decision. If this time also she tells DV abt the convo betwn her and mom then surely he will leave everybody behind. But she doesn't want this to happen.
In future I think DV will understand the unethical ways of his family. Till now he has considered his family to be very cool, supportive. His convo with Bhabhi also showed that he doesn't know anything abt family politics. Once married the first thing a couple will hv to do is to deal with the family. He will get time to understand the realities of family life.


Tell me as to how many love stories have you seen where parents have accepted it in one go. And moreover how many unique love stories have you seen where parents have accepted them with open arms. I am talking about real life.

This has been the biggest struggle of lovers since ages to convince the parents. How can she not put a fighting foot or even a convincing word towards mom and just gave up without even the partner being informed.
If that was how lovers did always then I don't think anyone had any right to love. Had they both discussed out and mutually decided then could have called it as love.

Just mother painting a difficult picture and saying DV will separate from family then Saachi chali sacrifice karne...without thinking what DV wants...just because his family is not good then DV should be given no right to love no matter how much he can battle for it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@vinee_vinee but in her case Saachi has grown up in a family without her parents, so she values parents a lot. so he doesn't want DV to loose his parents. Discussions should hv taken place but given DV's nature I guess, he is stubborn so the decision.
I think one of the parents will mellow down with time after seeing DV's condition and then DV will come to know the truth.

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