Communicate Difficult Truth in Love!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Episode 1-1-2014

Always telling the truth is the most important consideration in any relationship among people. Speaking your truth is an essential aspect of living a life of passion, fulfillment and authenticity. It is much easier to talk about speaking our truth than it is to actually do it.


Dhruv shown expressing what he think and feel in an authentic, vulnerable and transparent way. He was real, not right. He was not focus on winning or being right. He was being vulnerable and transparent of speaking the truth, not dominating the conversation with Saachi or Aaji and Nani he was talking to. He did share subtle hints, hoping Saachi will understand and fix her appearance or behavior without him having to be bluntly honest.

Dhruv always have faith, trust, hope and confidence. He plan big things for tomorrow in spite of zero knowledge of the future or having any certainty of uncertainties. The confidence that comes through his faith is contagious and spreads to others.

Saachi did not show respect with her actions, nor with her words. She belittles Dhruv, put-downs, and unreasonable accusations. They are not a part of a healthy relationship. Saachi could have confront the lying in the best way to deal with such problems in a calm, rational manner - in such a way that the other person can hear what she is trying to say without feeling like they are being attacked. She took the discussion as a "confrontation" not as a "conversation".

Dhruv and Saachi for a relationship to work there must be at least 5 positive, friendly, and supportive encounters for every negative, indifferent, or hostile encounter. This 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative encounters. And it demonstrates that for a relationship to last, people must get along and create a lot of positive outcomes. Otherwise, what are people doing together?

Trust is an important component of any healthy relationship. If your relationship lacks trust, it's hard to get close to the other person and to rely on him or her for support.


Dhruv/Ruslaan got this deep resonate voice. He's a fascinating face. He's a lovely guy and just super smart.


Saachi/Sangita ability for self-expression and performance. Her looks are an important part and is able to express herself well.


Both Sangita and Ruslaan are able to express what their character is feeling and to express their character well. They are made up partly of talent and technique.

Tidbit: In the 12-5-13 episode, Dhruv said his family background consist of 4 bhai bahen siblings.


I feel it will be non love triangle shape story, it's all pretty normal at the beginning. A girl falls in love with one guy, and all the signs indicate that THIS is the couple that we need to be focusing on. That's when the fake-out happens. All of a sudden, something goes wrong and the original couple is no more. Whatever the reason they break up, and she has to get over it. Then the magic happens and a new guy enters the picture. Maybe he was already quietly in the background. Maybe he comes galloping onto the scene when she's least expecting him, and you finally realize that this new guy is the ONE that was right all along.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gud post kalpana ... Very nicely written.. agree wd yur points
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think this story will go down the road of the main pair splitting up permanently...if they do then it will destroy the main core of the theme...The CVs are purposely messing with Saachi 's character in order to extend the show...this is a show ,not real life,and the lead characters are puppets in the hand of the writer/writers...when the right time comes,they will evolve Saachi and make her compatible with DV...Ruslaan was asked in an interview when DV will marrySaachi and he said that he has not been told when...it all depends on the audience,... if they want them to be married they will and if they don't they won't ...it is totally audience oriented...that's what serials are about.
At this point in forum people are upset at the way Saachi's character has been evolved ...and are requesting to make it better...so hopefully we will see Saachi and DV getting along...anyway it's good for TRPs ,ratings,ranks etc. ... it's not a 2 hour show but will last a year/ years ?...who knows ? So they have to keep evolving characters to prolong the show...Next DV might change when the time comes !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jyoti410

I don't think this story will go down the road of the main pair splitting up permanently...if they do then it will destroy the main core of the theme...The CVs are purposely messing with Saachi 's character in order to extend the show...this is a show ,not real life,and the lead characters are puppets in the hand of the writer/writers...when the right time comes,they will evolve Saachi and make her compatible with DV...Ruslaan was asked in an interview when DV will marrySaachi and he said that he has not been told when...it all depends on the audience,... if they want them to be married they will and if they don't they won't ...it is totally audience oriented...that's what serials are about.

At this point in forum people are upset at the way Saachi's character has been evolved ...and are requesting to make it better...so hopefully we will see Saachi and DV getting along...anyway it's good for TRPs ,ratings,ranks etc. ... it's not a 2 hour show but will last a year/ years ?...who knows ? So they have to keep evolving characters to prolong the show...Next DV might change when the time comes !



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you, I really appreciate it.

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