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Episode 12-24-13
Sensitivity is one area of our nature which becomes most evident in our relationships. Our innate nature is the result of our conditioning as well as genetics. In other words what we at a deep level cannot really change much.
Dhruv a sensitive man get hurt quickly and then get into a shell or avoid talking about it. So you won't even know if you actually did something to hurt them. The best way to judge if your boyfriend is hurt is to look out for some anger or dullness in their voice when they talk to you. It would be up to you to initiate a truce.
Saachi think about what you can do to change the dynamic. She show off her new found self-realization. Actions speak louder than words. Though she is an improved version of herself, you're still you at the end of the day, so remember to be the girl Dhruv fell for in the beginning. If you try too hard to prove how different you've become, you'll lose sight of who you are. If you are with Dhruv who is highly sensitive it's a good thing, but it also requires a tad bit more of understanding and love and "sensitivity" on your part. We are human and none of us is perfect in any way, so why do we feel the need to judge anyone? On the upside sensitive men can make for great partners because they will be very devoted to you once they find solace in your company.
Saachi the extrovert in her relationship since Dhruv slightly on the reserved side especially when it came to opening up with his emotions and feelings. Saachi make up for this lack by being the one to initiate more communication in their relationship. She apologized to make Dhruv feel better. Since unconsciously she behave in a manner that hurt him, and the fact stays that he is hurt. Remember that he is sensitive and that's his innate nature.
Saachi be patient there are times when you might feel a little irritated by Dhruv's sensitivity. It's important to be patient during these times and just remind yourself of all the things you love about him, this keeps you from making things worse by spewing your anger. Patience and understanding are the keys to any successful relationship, a sensitive person might warrant more of it. Saachi the fun element in the relationship since she just want to be happy and with her capacity bring joy and cheer and be Dhruv's beacon of happiness and did let him know that she will always be there for him.
Dhruv's cooling off period is where one person is so angry by the other person that they just cannot deal with the situation in that state need time to calm down before they begin to speak to the person. That's fine and actually that's probably better than sitting and screaming at each other. Saachi the person on the receiving end may feel rejected, of low importance to the perpetrator, and in some instances, desperate for attention and the return of normalcy. The best way to deal with it is to allow them their space.
In conclusion, we all have certain gaps in our life and we look towards our relationships to fulfill them. True love cannot blossom in the presence of resentment or complaining. Instead of wanting people to change, be the harbinger of love and you will be surprised how easily it gets reciprocated.
Dilz looking very elegant in her orange dress and stylish hair style.
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Kumkum Bhagya
