Why is Saachi so short-tempered with DV

In these last few episodes since the confession night, Saachi is so short tempered with DV. Even today when dv could not talk to Aaji and Nani, she was upset with him and gave him an ultimatum to talk to them within 24 hours. Yesterday she gave his ring back to him when he was helping A&N make a profile .. after all it wasn't as if she had to marry the first guy who came with a proposal.. she's refused so many already.

age difference..
this makes her like dis
dv is a cutie

But the age difference is not going to change .. she needs to accept it otherwise this will add to the kind of pressure that Aaji was talking about.

yup..age factor for dem lasts foreva n tht wud b i teresting to see how saanchi adapts herself in DVs life..
DV has already adapted to saanchi's life
DV is very patient n thts why he made saanchi love to him..lol

Very valid point you have raised and since i have married a guy 3 years younger than me i have introspected a lot about it and finally sharing with you the conclusion i could draw in my relationship...

Well said. I like it. However Saachi's overreacting nature should be changed slowly...also Dhruv calling her Saachi Ji also should change in the coming episodes...I like the growing love between these 2 and somehow I feel there is distance between them too...may be Saachi's teacher type attitude is shown a bit more than expected...I don't want to see anything like Saachi and Dhruv are giving up on their newly found love...what do the forumites think?

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Very valid point you have raised and since i have married a guy 3 years younger than me i have introspected a lot about it and finally sharing with you the conclusion i could draw in my relationship...

Firstly its because of the usual authority over that person which you have never felt with someone else. You expect that person to be perfect always and whenever you see anything against your wish you get hot tempered.

Secondly due to age gap subconsciously you always feel that you have a responsibility to mend that person so this teacher like attitude comes.

Thirdly you are so accustomed of the other person's unconditional love for you that you dont realise that you are getting rude as you never think before speaking with that person as you do with others...even siblings.

But this attitude must change...as it hurts your partner...but if you have tackled it well and your partner although being younger understands you then this does not create any hurdle in happy married life.

Originally posted by: RS_SV

Well said. I like it. However Saachi's overreacting nature should be changed slowly...also Dhruv calling her Saachi Ji also should change in the coming episodes...I like the growing love between these 2 and somehow I feel there is distance between them too...may be Saachi's teacher type attitude is shown a bit more than expected...I don't want to see anything like Saachi and Dhruv are giving up on their newly found love...what do the forumites think?

Originally posted by: kat6k

All very valid points and very well said. Maybe Saachi will change with time and it is unrealistic to expect to be a different person overnight.

But one thing is for sure .. I want DV to stop calling her Saachiji and refer to her as aap while she says tum to him.. that brings the age factor in play again.

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Very true...these small symbols show the unusualness of the relation...first they have to one by one remove them from their lives...they canot be living forever in this feeling that their relation is different...but DV said it really nice today that they are not two but one.

Very nicely put. The taken for granted attitude needs to go too. Also Saanchi's favorite dialogue "jao tum, mujhe bahut kaam hai"... for everything she says this to DV "choro mujhe, jao tum". It has started to annoy me now...some different form of the same dialogue is needed now or this needs to be stopped.