What if.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: LUV_shabboo

i dont justify prachi's behaviour of endangering her life by falling off the steps.i mean wht use if she saves milind's life by killing herself?my milind will die the sec,she leaves him forever.its natural,he behaves in this way,as he was deeply affected by prachi's dumb act(eventhough her intentions were gud).only making food for him,selecting his shirt wont make up for her wrong acts.

So what is she to do, live a life of penance? The fact that she selected the shirt for him for the party indicates that she supports his decision to attend the party even though she has reservations about his leaving the house. Does that not count for anything? Marriage is about give and take. Couples make mistakes. Nothing is so unforgivable especially in this incident because whatever she did she thought she was safeguarding her husband's life. I was supporting Milsi anger of the previous day. Any husband would have reacted that way. But continuing with that even the next night especially seeing her reconcilatory moves is not something I find acceptable even if you do.

give milsi some time....,michi cant stay away from each other for long 😳 .

How long, one day, one week, one month? Are Prachi's mistakes so grave that he requires a long time to forgive and forget? My only fear is that this misunderstanding should not get blown out of proportion in the time he is not on speaking terms with her. The longer Milsi takes to forgive Prachi the greater the danger of this.

just my POV.to each his own..!!

Yes, just as you are a Milsi fan, I am a Michi fan and would admonish both Mi and Chi if I fear that their actions are a threat to Michi.

i can understand both mi's & chi's plight & can easily justify them 😃 .milind didn't know tht his life is in danger also..till now he is ignorant of his fact!how come he can justify chi's actions?😕

Why is Milsi ignorant of the fact that his life is in danger? He very well knows it is. There have been atleast three attacks already and the latest one was not even a couple of weeks back. I dont want him to justify Chi's actions. I only want him to stop being grumpy.

As to this thread becoming negative, I fail to understand that. If anything is said against a character, does it become a negative thread? I thought this was a free forum where people can voice their opinions of the show, the good and bad of it as long as it is expressed in a civilised manner. Should there only be threads which are singing the praises of the characters? And what is this bashing? Nobody is bashing anybody up. All I was doing is to voice my opinion of what I did not like about the behaviour of a character.

Yesterday I supported Milsi's anger and blamed Prachi for picking the wrong time to speak about her fears and the wrong act to stop Milsi from going to Pune. It does not mean I would have to support his anger forever or blame Prachi forever. I go by what is being presented to me in a particular episode. If people here do not like it, I really cant help it. Anyway I am not here to please everyone.

Originally posted by: Grateful Dead

You could be right Opti.😆.if the topic sounds negative..i dont enter that thread.."Wht if.." had a streak of mystery in it..so i did come..😆

I do or watch things to enjoy and and get positive energy..its wiser for me to daydream abt Michi Romance😳 and dodge the negative parts😆..

Im an idealist😆you could say😳

Sorry GD I am generating negative energy. Next time I will give warning that this may not be to the taste of some members. Maybe I will rate them H - for humour, HP - for happy prediction, GP - for gloomy prediction, R - for romance etc. I have frankly lost track of the type of posts I make and will come up with more ratings when I find them.

All said and done I feel it is not fair to hold me responsible for how one feels about the show. Why should I keep giving explanations for what I write? Do I not have the right to have my opinions and voice it as long as I am not breaking any rules of the forum? Should I always conform to the views of some?

Opti Jan Congrats 🤗

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optimist

10/14/2006 7:32:00 PM

Optimist, i totally agree with u here and see what ur trying to say... in fact i was pretty angry with Mils in that first episode itself when he said that last line to prachi when Ranvir came to invite them.. And ur right, his anger in yesterday's episode is uncalled for, childish and immature to say the least. I mean which couple doesnt go thru disagreements? And if Prachi put her life on the line by skidding off the stair case deliberately to stop him from going must mean SOMETHING to the guy. I mean he can at least think that Prachi isnt stupid to do what she did. And yes, she's trying to make amends.. forget explaining to him.. Since, he doesnt wanna hear her out. But for chrissakes, she isnt ur enemy. She's out to protect u. Cut her some slack!

Anyway, like i said in the "New Preview for the next 2 days" thread, it iss not such a bad thing after all if Milsi gets shot at... In fact, its the only way he'll realize that prachi was right in stoping him from leaving the house.

Saju, I dont agree with you here. Yes, Milsi is a fussy baby around Prachi. But his behaviour during PIM and PA cannot be compared to now. Those were the times when he felt he was wronged and Prachi does not love him. Now things are different. He knows how crazily in love with him she is. That is why I expected him to stop being grumpy atleast after a whole day to calm down. Ofcourse things may take time to become hunky dory again but the least the guy could have done is to just take the dress she was giving even if he refused to speak to her. Well maybe I am expecting too much from the fussy baby. Hope this misunderstanding is resolved soon (that is today). I cant take another separation stemming from this.

Yes, Prachi seems to place a lot of importance on that piece of evidence when she herself asked Milsi why he believed the DNA report. But in her defence I would say she holds her husband's life so dear she does not want to take any chances with it. The worst that can happen if she was wrong is that she would have hurt her childhood friend's feelings, but the worst that can happen if she is right is that she could lose Milsi. So is her friend's feelings more important or is Milsi's life more important?

Yes, Prachi is foolish to trust Ayesha after all she has done. Both Mi and Chi have a short memory and a large heart when it comes to Ayesha. What can we do?

That song was dreadful and thoroughly out of place but then we know why it was included.

Yes, Ayesha's makeup was garish.

Originally posted by: optimist

Sorry GD I am generating negative energy. Next time I will give warning that this may not be to the taste of some members. Maybe I will rate them H - for humour, HP - for happy prediction, GP - for gloomy prediction, R - for romance etc. I have frankly lost track of the type of posts I make and will come up with more ratings when I find them.

All said and done I feel it is not fair to hold me responsible for how one feels about the show. Why should I keep giving explanations for what I write? Do I not have the right to have my opinions and voice it as long as I am not breaking any rules of the forum? Should I always conform to the views of some?

hey Optimist, relax. I can understand the reason ur frustrated. Explaining urself everytime sucks. Reiterating what i told u earlier, everyone has the right to post their views... like u or anyone else does... Perception is key here. How people Percieve is something you, I or the post-maker cant control. So leave it! In fact, u always bring up varied and valid topics for discussion, which many people apprecicate.. For everything people do or say there's always gonna be bouquets or brickbats - and all because of how it is perceived! You're strong, so take it with a pinch of salt and keep those posts coming now, will ya!?

I dont see why Mils is still giving prachi the cold shoulder too. Prachi is usually the first to reconcile and forgive mils... cant mils give her the benefit of the doubt and be more receptive? prachi is hurting as it is... oh well, ive said it all in my post on the 3rd page... He's just giving prachi another chance to say, "I told u so"

P.S. - im a michi fan and my views are entirely based on the episode in question

Originally posted by: optimist

Sorry GD I am generating negative energy. Next time I will give warning that this may not be to the taste of some members. Maybe I will rate them H - for humour, HP - for happy prediction, GP - for gloomy prediction, R - for romance etc. I have frankly lost track of the type of posts I make and will come up with more ratings when I find them.

All said and done I feel it is not fair to hold me responsible for how one feels about the show. Why should I keep giving explanations for what I write? Do I not have the right to have my opinions and voice it as long as I am not breaking any rules of the forum? Should I always conform to the views of some?

OMG Opti😲..so may question marks!!!😲 and when did i hold you responsible😕..neither did i say that you are generating negative energy!!!!😕😕..I havent stopped you from writing any thread, infact i enjoy some of your threads..they are brilliant..its just entirely my wish to enter only the positive threads and where like to post..😊..i havent even asked you to rate them😕

I thought this is a forum so i had just expressed my opinion..that Prachi in jail or in an asylum makes me feel very negative.😭.Thats it ,,Period!!😊

Ive seen in the past also you take members' comments too personally.. ..cummon.. this is not a saan Bahu drama..so just chill😊..we all are here to have fun and share our opinions..you have 100% right to do so....😊

Originally posted by: Bee-dz

hey Optimist, relax. I can understand the reason ur frustrated. Explaining urself everytime sucks. Reiterating what i told u earlier, everyone has the right to post their views... like u or anyone else does... Perception is key here. How people Percieve is something you, I or the post-maker cant control. So leave it! In fact, u always bring up varied and valid topics for discussion, which many people apprecicate.. For everything people do or say there's always gonna be bouquets or brickbats - and all because of how it is perceived! You're strong, so take it with a pinch of salt and keep those posts coming now, will ya!?

Beeds very well said...😊..

well, my post was meant to cheer Optimist up and support her views... because she has a right to! just like anyone else has... Be it negative or positive, she has every right to say what she wants... after all, nobody's breaking any IF rules here right?