Patience please, Ladies....

Hello.. wots gone into more than half the forum? Why are we behaving like juvenile teenagers??

I Know it was unsual for Milind to go get Ayesha for his wedding, but you ppl seem to be forgetting two important things. First..HE was the one who wanted a hasty wedding done with Prachi by tomorrow, and Second (and more important) it was Prachi's wish that Ayesha make it to their wedding. I know she IS a saint, but this recent new olive branch of hers is complete lunacy, knowing Ayesha is still freshly hurting from losing Milind.

Milind was the one to go over to Ayesha, coz he knows he is the only one who can persuade her to come, if Prachi would have tried to go, Ayesha wud have gauged her eyes out. So, Milind went.

As for his becoming a softy.. well, the day Ayesha got hysterical at the mandap, even we, loyal Ayesha haters felt for her. And Milind is her friend, has been in love with her for a long time in his life, and she is the closest friend he has ever had ( the fact that she is obsessed and misguided in her actions is not HIS fault) ANd he is still feeling guilty as hell for rejecting her.. he almost went ahead with the wedding coz he KNEW she wud be shattered.. as she is..but finally he did choose himself and Prachi together over himself and Ayesha.. or are we forgetting that so soon? But the guilt wud take time to go.. and Prachi in a way is trying to do the same..make his guilt go i guess..

So please, lets not run away with all our conspiracy theories ( Opti, the impostor one was the best 😆)

Please give him time guys.. I am sure we will get to see him in his past glory. Even if we dont, its not that every character remains the SAME thruout his career graph in a serial.. He is bound to mellow over time, which is natural. Wot shud remain intact is his character and chemistry with Prachi.

sorry but not anymore my patience with this stupid show and stupid track and storyline is all gone and I'm just waiting to see real or fake Milind married that witch then I will be all gone as well.

I can't seem relate to Milind anymore because of the inconsistancies in his behaviour.

I ask for one simple thing from Milind, he should remain faithful to Prachi and not turn into a adulterar. That would totally go against his character and principles. No matter what the provocation may be, polygamy and adultory/one night stand (ONS) should be avoided at all cost, there is nothing attractive about a unfaithful guy.

The beauty of the character of Milind and Milind-Prachi pairing so far has been that there has been no OCD- One night stands, cross marriages and divorce.

Arent u jumping to conclusions too soon Ema? Last thursday he was romancing Prachi come hell and high water, and we were drooling.. and now we are ready to hurl abuses in heaps just because he is feeling bad for Ayesha
See, Ayesha, frankly speaking, needs psychiatric help. And I think Michi both know it. The fact that they unintentionally led her to her last breakdown isnt helping them much.

Lets just stop judging every thing the guy does.. there are good and bad moments..

AND, its not their fault that the scene looked terrific.. that definitely was some brilliant acting by both Shabbir and Sanjeeda. i give them the credit where due. 👏

I will give him time cos I know the old milind mishra is still there somehwere whom we all love and know. 😳

I admit I felt sorry for ayesha but that was for a second. What should he feel guilty about? 😕
What about all the things ayesha has done? Kidnap rithwick does she have any explanation for that?

Okay, even if he went to get ayesha. I would have wanted to see him teach her a lesson about love. If she loved him, she would be able to see him happy but ayesha is selfish. He should have reminded her of what she has done, make her feel guilty, tell her that the he misses his old friend and tell her that ayesha is just ruining herself over milind.

I agree Morningdew....he even gave a justifiable explanation....saying he realises relationships are more imp than thinking about the wrongs ppl committed. That's Prachi's influence on him and part of his growth as a calmer man.

And he did go to Ayesha more for Prachi's sake than for himself.

However, having said that, what most ppl here took exception to is the way he pleaded his case.....someone as uninvolved in MP affairs as I also felt the ONS coming on.....their chemistry was a stark reminder of their earlier one....there was more intensity bt MA yesterday than there is now bt MP.
Not acceptable by MP fans, whatever the reason.

Hence, all the negativity.

Yes Fahima, good point.. but we know that Ayesha is beyond any rational discussion... either she is plotting, or she is raving mad and hysterical when things dont go her way. As I said, she needs professional help. So I am sure she wasnt ready for a lecture from Milind any which way.. thats why Michi both are treating her like an ill behaved child..love and coercion.

The ideal thing for the creatives shud be to show Michi taking Ayesha for treatment.. and then moving on with their lives. End of Ayesha chapter..but only if we were so fortunate!!

I dont think there is gonna be ONS (hopefully). I just dont approve of what milind did yesterday.

Originally posted by: pippa

However, having said that, what most ppl here took exception to is the way he pleaded his case.....someone as uninvolved in MP affairs as I also felt the ONS coming on.....their chemistry was a stark reminder of their earlier one....there was more intensity bt MA yesterday than there is now bt MP.
Not acceptable by MP fans, whatever the reason.

Hence, all the negativity.

Exactly the point Pippa.. the scene rocked . it was brilliant acting.. and pretty intense.. but we shudnt be getting insecure, shud we? Shows how little confidence we have in Michi after all the posts we have dedicated to them being soulmates and stuff.. where's our belief in them?

I am repeating what I said in the ED thread.

More than what Milind may or may not do in future in rlation to the dreaded ONS, what I found irritating was that here is a guy who literally severed all ties with Ayesha before the PA once he came to know of her hand in Ritwik's kidnapping. Yet it is the same guy who is begging her to come and witness his wedding and this after being aware of how desperate she was to get married to him just a couple of days back that she was willing to keep in in the dark about his past and tortured Prachi in the process. Now with her sins multiplying since the last time he cut his ties, should he not take a more rigid stand against her? A man who could not forgive the woman he claims to love for having a child out of wed-lock has suddenly become so large hearted?

He was well aware of all the sacrifices Prachi had done for him. He had heard her declare her love for him. He had consummated their marriage and witnessed her to be a willing participant in it. She never admitted having an affair with Neev. All she said was Ritwik was her child. Could he not have accepted that although she had had a child out of wedlock, she now loves him? No, he could not. He went to the extent of mentally and physically torturing her for it.


Yet, here is a woman who kidnapped a child, tortured his wife and misused his PA to get her way after throwing him away to exact her own revenge and he is begging her to come to his wedding. He is begging her to be his friend. Why is a man who took such a rigid stand against Prachi during the PIM track willing to overlook blatant sins of his former lover?

Another thing which is indigestable is that for all his claims to being her friend, he seems to be sadistically selfish in wanting her to witness the marriage of the one she obsessively loves to the one she obsessively hates.

I am thoroughly disappointed in Milsi. So such an inconsistent character can do anything in future, even have a ONS, with his wife's consent (because she cannot bear a child) or without (in a moment of weakness and sympathy). Its best to not feel too attached to these worthless characters as they may let us down any day.

@ Morningdew, I don't believe that Milsi went to Ayesha's place because of Prachi. Remember when Suki was trying to convince Prachi not to call Ayesha, he chipped in and said that Prachi was right. She is not only her sister but also his friend. So for both their sakes she needs to be there for the wedding.

By the way, morning dew, I used the 'imposter' in the figurative sense and more as a sarcastic comment on the creatives' successful ruining of a perfectly good character. There are no conspiratory theories behind it.

@Pippa I dont think I saw any MA chemistry yesterday. If anything Milsi was irritated with her ranting rather than feeling pain or love. Maybe that was more of Shabbo than Milsi because the guy does look bored these days. My fear of ONS is not from seeing anything in Milsi's eyes for Ayesha. It has to do with his inconsistent behaviour.