Originally posted by: candyfloss
i dont know any age difference in india to get married.is it so the guy has to be 5-6 yrs old???do they get married based on age???But as far as i know in nach baliye3 all gilrs were 4-5 yrs elder than men.vikas sethi is married for 8 yrs and his wife is 4 yrs older than him.both r so much in love.i'm lebanese-indian so not aware of marriage requirement in india.i guess thats why shabz was so much bashed n insulted.
now i'm getting clear picture.shabz is older than panchs so ppl think r not accepting them as a couple???I'm sorry but i kinda find this weird.
Love happens automatically.you just cant comtrol ur feelings.you develop very special bond with the person.
if love means to get married or love who r same age n same background than obviouslt its not love.u just love that person cs she/he is same age.
theres a difference btwn loving someone and to fall in love with someone.
as far as i understand ekta doesnt follow this age pattern.
i think michi is the perfect.shabz is 28 yrs.i think he's very young n energetic. I dont get it why ppl r so harsh on him.Theres a difference btwn senior n old.shabz is not old but senior in terms of his experience,quality of work and being established.Some actors came b4 shabz but not senior cz they didnt establish them in the competition.
shachi pair is the perfect no doubt.
Hey Candy..
well you are right in saying that love happens automatically.. and you can't help the person you fall in love with.. but the arranged marriage system is still pretty prevalent in India.. and in that the parents almost always make sure the girl is younger than the boy.. its not a law or anything.. but people find that girls mature mentally faster than boys.. or something like that.. and it has worked so far.. lol..
But in this case michi were married out of blackmail and necessity rather than true love.. Love did blossom between them eventually but it was rough in the initial days as im sure you will agree..
Adn the pattern Ekta follows.. Apparently in a shows called Kasauti and Kasam Se.. they have very young women married to much older men.. and most other shows.. they start with the one pair.. only to break them up and make a whole ne couple.. sometimes it was the plan right from the start.. its just the viewers are kept in the dark.. and some fans may feel cheated..
Chinee fans i'm sorry if some of you think this discussion is off topic..!😳
Edited by critically-sane - 17 years ago