Domestic violence!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: kubare

So instead of Blaming just the guy for his violence .....the female is as much responsible ...in accpeting it...meekly...no matter what...

I don't think we should even bother bashing these fictional characters cos there is a larger issue at stake here and that is the irresponsibility of the writers. There are women in real life situations like Prachi's character who stay in their abusive relationships cos just like her they believe that abuse shows their partners love for them. And this completely disgusting storyline just re-affirms their dangerous belief.

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

I don't think we should even bother bashing these fictional characters cos there is a larger issue at stake here and that is the irresponsibility of the writers. There are women in real life situations like Prachi's character who stay in their abusive relationships cos just like her they believe that abuse shows their partners love for them. And this completely disgusting storyline just re-affirms their dangerous belief.

Agree.....the writers should be aware of what..impact their drama has on such minds....

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

I don't think we should even bother bashing these fictional characters cos there is a larger issue at stake here and that is the irresponsibility of the writers. There are women in real life situations like Prachi's character who stay in their abusive relationships cos just like her they believe that abuse shows their partners love for them. And this completely disgusting storyline just re-affirms their dangerous belief.

I fully agree with you, sometimes I really despise the way ekta portrays females on television. She has them accept abuse, polygamy, violence and all sorts of things from their husband or mate, and justify such behaviour as an expression of his love, or as an irrational act which was done bymistake (incase of polygamy). She has the female characters meekly accepting the man humiliating her, and abusing them. What message does it send out to the masses? That its OK to be abused if you are married? Thats its OK to be humiliated for sometime, cause eventually that would lead to love? Miland is still not tarnished as much as other BT characters are, like for example Shiv from KAA, or Jai from KS, or Mihir from Kyunki. At the moment the only female character I like is Parvati from Kahaani, she is meek but does not accept violence.

Milind does get violent and crosses his limits by torturing his wife as there r many ways to show anger but why chose violence as its of no use coz our prachi dearest will not open her mouth until some1 else comes 2 knw abt the truth and reveals it.. Neev is also going thru a torture which is by ayesha as she really makes him mad but he never got violent with her he only taunts her which itself makes ayesha get irritate.. Milind shuld learn frm Neev how to deal with a woman 😳

Originally posted by: junooni09

Neev is also going thru a torture which is by ayesha as she really makes him mad but he never got violent with her he only taunts her which itself makes ayesha get irritate..

Slapped her 3 times .... counts as violence.

I don't think we should be learning anything from any of these characters unless we want to end up as seriously dysfunctional human beings. 😡

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

Slapped her 3 times .... counts as violence.

I don't think we should be learning anything from any of these characters unless we want to end up as seriously dysfunctional human beings. 😡

She really needed those slaps coz she crossed her limits by saying tht ritwik is NP's son.. But still yess we shuld count tht as violence but tht slap didnt hurt ayesha but yes it made her go crazy coz she started laughing after she got those zabardast slaps...

i totally agree that violence is wrong!

however, i have to say, milind has never slapped or hit prachi...he has never gone that far and i dont think he ever will

even when she said that rithwik was her baby, he did not raise his hand...unlike what he did to ayesha

i dont think he means to hurt her to the extent which it causes her pain....when he touches her like that, i think he is just getting his upset emotions out

i think if he realized that he made prachi bleed, he would not be too happy

remember when he found out last time how he made her bleed....he was pretty upset

violence is not exceptable at any circumstances, it's sign of weekness .

Originally posted by: flowertot

violence is not exceptable at any circumstances, it's sign of weekness .

i totally agree

violence is a sign of weakness

i think its obvious that milind is weak

that is why when someone hurts him it makes him feel a lot of pain

he does not know how to properly show his emotions

that is why it took him so long to tell prachi he loved her and that is what made him seek revenge on ayesha

Originally posted by: meteora_smt

I fully agree with you, sometimes I really despise the way ekta portrays females on television. She has them accept abuse, polygamy, violence and all sorts of things from their husband or mate, and justify such behaviour as an expression of his love, or as an irrational act which was done bymistake (incase of polygamy). She has the female characters meekly accepting the man humiliating her, and abusing them. What message does it send out to the masses? That its OK to be abused if you are married? Thats its OK to be humiliated for sometime, cause eventually that would lead to love? Miland is still not tarnished as much as other BT characters are, like for example Shiv from KAA, or Jai from KS, or Mihir from Kyunki. At the moment the only female character I like is Parvati from Kahaani, she is meek but does not accept violence.

Aww..Love Pravati too...shes the only BT heroine...that has gumption and is strong in every sense.....👏

Why can't they protray more heroines like her....

Hum.....coming back to violence...yes Milli is nothing as bad as comparted to some....

JW though never raised his hands against his wife...was verbally abusive....by calling her all sorts of bad name...

So does it make him great because he never used his hands against his wife but called her anything he felt like???? Though he did use his hands against his sister, SIL...etc...

Here Milland....is violent...but not to the extent that he has ever used his hands to beat a female....an with Prachi...hes harsh...as he cant get his feelings into words...and is conveying it through...hurting her....(not beating her up, or verbally abusing her)

Though violence....is never right...