Kayamath Episode Discussion Part 4 - Page 151

It doesn't matter who other than Michi raise him...either he'll be called illegitimate or will have poor upbringing. Because other than his biological parents and Michi who have legally adopted him no one else can remove the label or illegitimate from his identity. If Michi raise him it'll be as an adopted son and its better to tell him that he is orphan rather then raising him with the knowledge that he was someone's galti that came out of immaturity. If his biological parents raise him...he won't be getting the best deal. I prefer him to be raised by Michi or PL after it is revealed that he is the grandson of the Shahs. I am leaning more towards Michi raising him so that he'll have the love of parents that a grandmother (no matter how lovely) just can't give.

JC's mom has something to say about the question raised on Prachi's integrity and her ability to be a good mother:
My mom after watching yesterday's epi made a comment that if she was in Prachi's place she would have come into her bedroom aur uss Ayesha ke kaan ke neeche 10 laga ke deti for standing next to her husband. Now you know what kind of a mentality my mom holds.

Coming from her: A girl who doesn't react like that is not because she doesn't love her husband...it because that is the extent to which this woman has patience. It is proof of her faith that someday the truth will come out to be in her favor. There is no woman on earth who will keep her husband away from self for the sake of a sister-in-law. That is Prachi, not because she is stupid..but because that is her goodness. She loves Sukriti to the extent that Milind does and if Milind can forgo his ego and request that Nihaarika for SS marriage, Prachi can go to this extent to protect that marriage (which i doubt even Milind may not do for his sister). Fo r this quality of Prachi she will not suffer for too long. Only good will happen to those who think and do good for others.

On the whole she will prove to be the best mother to any child. Because what a child needs is love, protection and as he/she grows older what she needs is someone who can guide them in the righteous path. Prachi has the ability to do this for her children better than anyone else save PL. Other than that what goes for Prachi proving that she'll be the best mother is the fact that she is capable of sacrificing herself for those she loves. That is the quintessential quality of any mother...cause any mother will cross all limits before letting harm come to her children.

JC & her mom.😃 [wow me and mom agree again]

muneeza Iam all for PL to raise ritwick she will do a much better job then the socalled parents...

Originally posted by: optimist

Muneeza, Diwali is still not over. Never mind that the first anniversary came before the Diwali. Cant be bothered with time lines when there are such big holes in the plot itself. So the breaking of the raaz will be the Diwali dhamaka.

I really didn't have any anticipation for any Diwali festival but then as you say the raaz outcoming may be a dhamaka though not a big one.

She may Shali but then Ritwik really will be deprived of the love of a mother and father that cannot be fulfilled by grandmother. PL can be an awesome mother to Prachi and her other children but when it comes to Ritwik she won't be able to help herself but be a grandmother. Grandmothers have a very different equation with their grandchildren than the one between parent and child.

JC hunny....
yaar please tell your mom that good will only happen when ekta wants it... and in a k serial the woman is made to suffer....

yes prachi has a lot off love withing her but that only isn't enough ... a child needs more and this is what lacks in prachi...

but mills make it up ... so michi together is the best choices to raise the kids....
about labeling the kid as illegitimate.. In today's world most children are that so one more or less doesn't matter.... ritvick getting the name off mills and his upbringing will be enough....

Originally posted by: shali

muneeza Iam all for PL to raise ritwick she will do a much better job then the socalled parents...

Thanks hun, yes I do believe she'll do a good job. Rather than Prachi, yeah she may be a goddess and become a sacrificing queen in the process. Keeping everyone's happiness and all logical thought above herself or her marraige I still don't consider her fit enough to raise children single handedly.Neither could Alaap be trusted with Rhitvick alone he too needs guidance which only Pl can provide. What is saddening is the fact that Prachi's self imposed torture has brought every relation to a point of suffocation. If a woman can't trust her husband I doubt she'd be able to give a 100% to any other relation. A marraige is hardly a bargain rather a very sensitive relation she failed in her husband's eye according to him and her silence only added to the mess what is she going to teach the child keep quiet even if you'r right if the bully at the other end happens to be a relative.Never fight for your right because who knows who you may end up offending and whose life might be in sheer complex because of you.Anyways everyone's entitled to their opinion here as I am to mine.

Well guys its pretty late here. got to go for work tomorrow. So chao and hope tomorrow is a better day than today was. By the way Ayesha's voice was dubbed in some scenes. Sanju must be busy with her dance rehearsals. Sounded funny not hearing Ayesha's irritating bak,bak. Hope she loses her voice in the shock when she comes to know that all her plans have gone kaput. Will atleast save my nerves.

^Well, the same applies to Milind too then. Why can't he trust his wife? Forget the whole baby fiasco, he used to never trust her from the very beginning - all it took was NP together in the same room for him to spin wild scenarios......why can't this super smart businessman even think that one needs to be pregnant to give birth to a baby. 😆

He is well-aware of Prachi's attitude to remain silent most of the time - she barely takes credit for herself, if ever; she barely clears up issues, and would rather assume blame for something she never did - again, flashback to the S-S marriage....although she was instrumental in stopping the marriage, she shut up, never once clarifying her stand. IF he truly understands Prachi, like most give him credit for, then he must also be quite perceptive about what and who makes her happy.

BTW, I firmly believe that blind faith in anyone, including your spouse, is not the smart thing to do....look at PL. ALthough she implicitly trusted her husband, he never loved her and instead had an affair with someone else......sometimes, it's better to be a tad suspicious in a relationship than be ignorant of or turn a blind eye to your partner's illicit relations

Anyway, I don't blame Mi or Prachi individually - they are BOTH responsible for this mess.

*sigh* 😆

Oh, and btw, PL only raised Prachi too. Hence, if you cannot trust Prachi to raise a smart kid, and if you consider Prachi stupid, how on earth can you trust PL to single-handedly raise one! 😆 😆 PL was also a mute lamb during her marriage - although her hubby cheated her, she thought the world of him, and turned her back to all his follies - is she then a good role model? Nopeeee

Originally posted by: optimist

Yes, Ryka, the chawl house will have a big role to play in reuniting Michi. No, I do not mean that the house itself will reunite them but their reunion will be in that house. Afterall they showed that house when Mili heard the 'truth' from Prachi. In fact since it is the place he went to when he came to know the 'truth', it will be the place he will go to when he come to know the real truth. And this time intead of Prachi seeking him out there, he will be the one seeking her out. And I want Milsi to recollect every word he uttered in that house and apologise of each of them even as a wee[ing Prachi stops him from blaming himself and willingly accepts responsiblity. Moreover, their reunion there will ensure they will not have Ayesha spying on them.

Lets see how the story unfolds... I have been warning Milind against apologising without demanding an explanation... if that duffer doesnt put his foot down and end Prachi's sacrificing spree forever...next time such a situation comes... I will leave him on his own to suffer😡
I have been dying to see both of them in the chawl from the time Prachi came to the chawl to Ayesha's house and Milind stared at her like there was no t'row😛 Lets see when that will come true.