Michi's stand on ONS - Page 3

Originally posted by: optimist

Magno, I think you have not understood the typical Indian male, especially one as possessive as Milsi. No Indian husband will tolerate an affair of the flesh irrespective of the state of his marriage. If at all he really thought that Neev and Prachi were having such an affair he would have divorced her then and there (out of anger and not to set her free).

Hehe I do have very limited knowledge of Indian culture. Oh btw do note that none of my opinions really speak for Indonesians in general. Anyway I think what you said about typical Indian male is very similar to typical Indonesian male! So I'm just seeing this show by what's presented by it (or at least my perception of it). At the beginning of the whole mess where Neev declared his love at the cliff, big chance Milind didn't think about flesh part indeed. But then soon after that the situation got worse along with his taunting, maybe also because he began to think (or see) about the flesh part. We never know, maybe his sleeping with Ayesha was the event that actually made him realised that there's a chance NP would have been sleeping together!

And by that time where his taunting and anger got worse and worse as well as his suspicion, they were already in the process of divorce. And they were only together for Baba's sake so he couldn't 'divorce her then and there'.

Example of dialogue that made me think he thought of the flesh part:

Part of Oct 15th dialogue (courtesy of Ryka, I hope she doesn't mind):

"My family think you are so cultured and loving… but they don't know that you were in the arms of your lover and don't miss a chance to romance him."

I just think also in Indonesian dubbing in some occasions he hinted such thing. But I also think that he didn't completely believe it himself, he was a confused soul. Again I think the creative was vague about it.

Prachi reminds me of my sis. When there is a misunderstanding between us, she does not immediately react if there is something that she feels is more important. So at the surface everything may seem fine. She may then start her cold war after a couple of days and finally will reveal that the reason was something that happened much before the cold war actually started! I always used to get surprised because I would have by then forgotten that incident. This happens with people who keep their emotions (atleast the negative ones) suppressed.

My closest people are these types, actually. And in their case, after seeing me being happy go lucky for days for not understanding that they are mad, they would finally talk to me about it. And they would tell me that they are not mad anymore, if they are still mad they wouldn't talk about it. So I would be ask to do some retrospections, and more importantly never to repeat my mistake that hurt them again. I would feel really bad. They would say it's all okay. We would make up then. So if Prachi is in anyway like them, when she talks to Milind I think it would be something like that, the point is she would forgive him. But I do understand what you're saying, that she should confront Milind about ONS. That she should give him her piece of mind and maybe a slap or two which he deserved. That she shouldn't be like a doormat for her husband. I totally agree. I'm just afraid for her. Such conversation could be soooo teary and unpleasant (using the weakest adjectives here).

Anyway I could be totally wrong. After all all the writers are men and what better than to have an ever forgiving wife and an ever suspecting husband. We'll have to wait and watch. A fake preg raaz will throw all my predictions aside. Prachi will forget about ONS fake or otherwise and spring into a SQ mode to give the 'baby' a father.

Aih I wish not🤢