Facets of Parenthood - Analysis March 22

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Hey Sweeties,

Few more turning points added to the show! So let's get started…

As the ceremonies are about to begin…we see the latest hurdle added by none other than Neev's mom…Mrs. Niharika! More insight into her character… both as an individual and as a mother… is lingering in realms of selfishness🤢. She refused to accept the 'shagun' just because she her daughter was rejected by the son of Shah Family… so she believes in give-and-take relationship! If her daughter doesn't gain happiness, then she doesn't believe in giving happiness to another's daughter either😡. She taunts Pranay for not using his brain when dealing business partnership with Inder for only 20% control… this shows her greedy side and influence of money in her mind!

Fame… name… game… shame…blame (what a co-incidence they all especially rhyme for her😆)… all can be used to manipulate her individuality. She believes in acquiring fame not for humankind, rather for public recognition to gain upper hand in societal roles. Relationships, emotions, feelings, attachment, warmth… all seem like a mere game in her court – which she plays with for keeping control over the house😡. Pranay mentions she visits 15 days in year but doesn't even spends 15 mins with her son… what a mother! A mother who doesn't understand what motherhood is about… a mother who can't see the love her son seeks… a mother who can easily give the world's joy to her son but chooses not to coz of personal satisfaction to hurt another… a mother who got the most valuable relation a woman desires yet she turned the most to least expected doing – ruining her son😭!

She couldn't even handle being a wife… a lady who taunts her husband when he is correct in the road of life! A wife who left her husband's hand when companionship was supposed to be maintained in mutuality… a wife who cannot see the pain her husband suffers as she declares her domination… a wife who supports the idea of getting power rather than sustaining lifelong friendship of her husband … a wife whose path did not combine with her loving husband coz of her choices – what a shame🤢!

Daughter seems to be following mother's footsteps… no wonder she also believes in getting not giving! Purvi – the first impression of her being a spoilt child was true… but her brattish side is not mere childishness rather has tints of acquiring unreasonable and highly irrational demands😡. How sad she calls it to be love… even she doesn't even know its meaning!

Inder – once again did great acting both as his character and as a wonderful actor👏. His dialogues were very heart-wrenching, nevertheless it contained emotions of pain and understanding. Who says fathers aren't as emotional as mothers… if the world believes that then Inder just proved them wrong😉!

Deeply hurt and insulted … he still doesn't hold any complaints against Niharika for he comprehends that a mother's acceptance in marriage has cultural values embedded. He does not wish that Prachi be seen as a burden👍🏼… he would forever cherish her presence if the society hadn't placed rules… and he cannot let Prachi feel unaccepted by her mother-in-law. A father who reflects more depths than ocean… a father who can highlights more magnificence than stars… a father who has higher emotions than sky can go… such a father who lives for his daughter👏!

Pranay also is a father like Inder, who caresses his son with warmth and affection both as a father and a mother. Pranay's influence is dominant in Neev since he nurtured him with family's love😊.

Alaap is working with reverse psychology… hook up with Sukriti's friend to impress her! And it seems that the effects have already started to show in Sukriti… for today she was somewhat bothered. Alaap the reversal implementation would have severe affects for you in future… Sukriti might get entrapped in you trickery, but you will fall for sincere love… we leave it upto you to decide which is harder to get over😉!

Neev…omg this guy always has something to joke about even in the most serious moments… that's the coolest part about his character coz it flows very well with strong emotions of love and gentle blends of humor😛… some wit this dude possesses! Indeed, today his intensity once again increased as signs of departing swept in…both Neev and Prachi could feel the ache of separation!

Advice Column of the Day:

Dadi: you were standing and listening to Niharika talk… march forward and take charge!

Inder: Your words were truly touching, but this time please do listen to Pranay and don't walk away coz of Niharika… her plans stem not from the perspective of a mother rather a woman who wants domination in any relationship.

Premlata: you are fully certified to be an instructor and teach family values to Niharika… start lessons soon😆!

Pranay: We are glad your thinking is very different from your wife's… please bestow some influence of yours on your wife and daughter😉… both need to install values of togetherness!

Niharika: advice list is very long for you… so for more info please visit:
www.how-to-get-my-senses-back-before-my-husband-decides-to-t hrow-me-out.com

Purvi: love is not forced… you might want to grasp meaning of love first… refer to a dictionary for starters😆.

Alaap: ever heard the effects of reverse psychology…you might want to look into it before applying coz you will become the victim of it soon😉.

Neev: You asking Prachi, "dobara shaadi, kab? Kaha? Kisse?"… Neev vaise mandap pe akele baithne ka irada hai kya😆" And did you just tell Prachi "let's be serious?" Look who talks…! It's like Shahrukh Khan telling Mr. Yash chopra stop making romantic movies 😆(especially in a gorgeous location).

Prachi: No functions during World Cup according to your future husband…no 'shagun' according to your future mother-in-law… no wedding according to your father until he sees acceptance for you… honey pack your bags and run away😆 - then everyone will follow you instead of you following their orders😉!

Sukriti: what's wrong with you sweetie… don't even think about giving your friend info regarding Alaap… atleast have consideration for your friend😉.

Waiting to see what happens next to Neev-Prachi's wedding. Will the 'shagun' ceremony continue or not… till then you all enjoy and have a beautiful weekend ahead. Please do contribute your feelings😊!

-Love4ever!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Sweeties,

A question raised in my mind relating to topic of 'facets of parenthood'...hence posting it here. I was wondering after the last episode.. whose parenthood is most effective... just out of curiosity! I mean all have different sides to their characters and show love to their children in various ways - yet have difference in raising them. Which parent would you compliment the most from this list below? When you choose one... ask yourself...why?

-Dadi
-Inder
-Pranay
-Mishraji
-Mamaji (Premlata's Brother)
-Premlata
-Niharika

Would love to hear all your opinions 😊! Please do share your views with us...

-Love4ever!

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