Random Rubbish...hehe - Page 12

Originally posted by: krangara

^ My sis lives in Augusta, GA! Where in GA are you?

Originally posted by: krangara

Guys, I am extremely stressed out

I am relocating to Chicago next week because my husband wants to join his uncle's business. It's quite an unconventional decision because he refused couple of big-buck offers to opt for this one.

I trust my hubby completely, admire his guts, and believe he will succeed in all his endeavors, but my mother is extremely troubled, which concerns me😭

Point is, he can be quite mule-headed and opinionated, which drives me crazy too *lucky for him, I am a pushover😆*. Similarly, my mother too has set opinions about how things should be! Their similar personalities don't always gel along, and she often cries and wonders if I will have a good life. I have tried reassuring her a million times about his love for me - although he is temperamental, he never holds grudges, and genuinely cares about me (lots of parallels between him and Milind actually....hehe), but she remains unconvinced

Just today, I called her to have a friendly conversation, and she burst into tears again, often accusing me of never listening to her. I don't know what to DOOOOO!!!!!! I love my hubby, I love my mom, I want everyone to be happy, but that's not happening. 😭

To make matters worse, acc to her i.e., all his closest relatives (2 uncles and an aunty) live in Chicago; one is actually in the same apt that we have chosen, and my mom is sure that their presence is going to be stifling, and that we will never have any time for each other. She is worried that I will be forcefully cut off from MY relatives, and will ultimately lead a lonely, sad life

Urrgggh....they are lovely people who would never interfere (plus, my hubby is forthright and will take no BS!), and I am not too bothered about their continuous presence. At the same time, my mom's worries are valid too. My closest cousin is in Madison, which is 3 hours away, and I am darn sure I will miss my parents/relatives.

I am smashed in between my two favorite people in the whole wide world - both are loving, caring, but stubborn, and, thanks to this drama, I suffer from constant headaches

I cannot explain my mom's POV to my hubby, lest he gets offended, and I cannot defend my hubby's decision either, for mom gets hurt! Actually, I have tried talking to both, but they just walk away in a huff, unable to comprehend the problem

WHAT DO I DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..........I seek refuge in work, books, workouts and KYM these days

Originally posted by: indiangirl23

chicken biryani😭 my mouth is watering😔 i ammmm jealoussssss😊

Originally posted by: krangara

Panache - we need to have our lunch date next week, for I am relocating to Chicago on Friday!

How does Tuesday sound? 🤗