NON-PARENT #10………….

Good afternoon/morning girls !!!!

Non-parent !0 has the audacity to call the “real” parents for a meeting in the middle of a work day, and they all COME😡 Why didn’t nobody ask Parent #10, who are you a parent of and throw him out of the group?🤢 Instead they are all enamored with the guy who is spewing out rhetoric 😔Do the writers even understand that they may be rubbing off some real parents like Moi off so wrong😡 by having some random guy give free ka gyaan🤬They want private classes instead from a guy who is spewing rhetoric by “ reading books “ to people in the trenches😡

The first thing when parents meet is to find out who their kids are and our identities change to “ Aarav’s mom or Kiara’s dad “. That will be the identity from there on, from my experience. Not, Parent #10 or #2.🤔No two kids are alike, that the parenting strategy which works for one kid works for the other. Therefore, there is no right or wrong way of parenting, unless there is blatant abuse or purposefully enabling bad behaviors or illegal activities. Example, role modeling by parents might work for one child, who might wish to strive and follow the example. The same role modeling might make another child complacent, thinking that parents do everything for me, I don’t need to lift a finger. Toh, go figure😒Which parent ko hum blame kar saktein hain🤢Itna hi gyaan deni hain mujhe😲

Papa G and Mama G seem to be having a better love story of roothna-manaana, arguments and so on and so forth……..Looks like the baby, Keith and Amrita are also thrown out of the show👍🏼 How about Ehsan? Is he still part of the show?😲Vanya is trying to do a one-upmanship with her colleagues to get into the good books of the CEO. She told them she is not a team player upfront, ab bhugto😡 She is annoying as heck for her coworkers. But, she is going Scott-free as the CEO is busy with his WhatsApp group activities🤬

The show has truly gone down the drain and to a point of no return👎🏼 The writers are truly twisted if they think that the love story can be built based on the theories of parenting and Viaan being voted the best parent of the WhatsApp group😡 and therefore he is a suitable partner🤢 Ewwwww…………

Here are the tags……… Chandu, I am so sorry, I have missed tagging you in the recent past😒I feel like I may be forcefeeding some of you with my nonsense and hence feel delicate to tag. Please let me know if this is the case and I won’t take it personally😃

I truly feel like the writers got changed for this show. This can't be the same writers who wrote the ONS scene and the confrontation scene when Viaan found out the truth. It's truly sad that they've wasted so much potential that this show had.

Thanks for your banter, haven’t picked up courage to watch this week’s episodes after last weeks nanny lessons.

I will wait for the story to really show some progress

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon/morning girls !!!!

Non-parent !0 has the audacity to call the “real” parents for a meeting in the middle of a work day, and they all COME😡 Why didn’t nobody ask Parent #10, who are you a parent of and throw him out of the group?🤢

The first thing when parents meet is to find out who their kids are and our identities change to “ Aarav’s mom or Kiara’s dad “. That will be the identity from there on, from my experience. Not, Parent #10 or #2.

@bold, safe to say it’s universal. What is parent # 10? What does it mean? 10th person to join WhatsApp group? In which universe is this an identity? With such dumb and careless parents it is so easy for a paedophile to infiltrate groups… the horror 😡 what will such parents teach children about safety? 🤔 with social media such a big part of their lives, who will they connect with? And then what?
Parent # — who is the admin (wonder of wonders) and added Viaan needs lessons in forming WhatsApp groups. So no one asked each other their names even? Happy to be numbered….. poor Katha, she is number two. Should she not make an effort to get the names and intelligently tell them to let go of numbers?

Papa G and Mama G seem to be having a better love story of roothna-manaana, arguments and so on and so forth……..

Kavita had some good points to make. 😝 what was papaG thinking? Listen to bahu, throw weight (he has quite a bit) at wife and then because he needs a wife to attend a function, reach out with an attitude? He will forever be a student when it comes to behavior. But yes, the two get along and definitely have a better love story going. Better than their son and Reet. We hardly see the son and I have forgotten his name. Reet is so busy spying and listening in on other’s conversations and carrying tales back and forth and scheming, (although her logic and what exactly she is after boggles the mind), where is the time for romance? The son has gone in search of Meera. At least she was available.

Looks like the baby, Keith and Amrita are also thrown out of the show👍🏼 How about Ehsan? Is he still part of the show?😲

Well, Keith decided to finally play dad, so Viaan won’t get any more time with the baby. Besides he has this big book to refer to. You see it has everything in it. Every little detail. So no use of Keith or baby or Amrita anymore. Eshan? That guy needs a break from all the stupidity every once in a while….. like us. Poor fellow, he has been pleading with Katha to fall in love with Viaan and put an end to everyone’s misery.
But this changing nappies and parent #10 might have been too much to handle. So who knows, he might have quit.
Vanya is trying to do a one-upmanship with her colleagues to get into the good books of the CEO. She told them she is not a team player upfront, ab bhugto😡 She is annoying as heck for her coworkers. But, she is going Scott-free as the CEO is busy with his WhatsApp group activities🤬

I hope she ruins the project and then realizes the importance of teamwork. And learns to respect her coworkers.

The writers are truly twisted if they think that the love story can be built based on the theories of parenting and Viaan being voted the best parent of the WhatsApp group😡 and therefore he is a suitable partner🤢 Ewwwww…………

Well Katha was smiling and probably had a dreamy look while Viaan was giving his gyan. So yes, she will fall in love with a fake parent #10. She seems quite impressed that her son chose to confide with Robin and not her. This is all too weird for me.

Sorry, I didn’t get to write on the previous post, was quite fed up with messages going back and forth on the show for an entire episode. Why wouldn’t they turn off notifications? Why did they have to read every message right away. Why did they have to reply to every message right away? Both are nuts with neither focus nor a sense of direction. May be that’s why they will end up together. Like attracts like. Whoever said opposites attract hadn’t met these two.

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon/morning girls !!!!

Non-parent !0 has the audacity to call the “real” parents for a meeting in the middle of a work day, and they all COME😡 Why didn’t nobody ask Parent #10, who are you a parent of and throw him out of the group?🤢 Instead they are all enamored with the guy who is spewing out rhetoric 😔Do the writers even understand that they may be rubbing off some real parents like Moi off so wrong😡 by having some random guy give free ka gyaan🤬They want private classes instead from a guy who is spewing rhetoric by “ reading books “ to people in the trenches😡

The first thing when parents meet is to find out who their kids are and our identities change to “ Aarav’s mom or Kiara’s dad “. That will be the identity from there on, from my experience. Not, Parent #10 or #2.🤔No two kids are alike, that the parenting strategy which works for one kid works for the other. Therefore, there is no right or wrong way of parenting, unless there is blatant abuse or purposefully enabling bad behaviors or illegal activities. Example, role modeling by parents might work for one child, who might wish to strive and follow the example. The same role modeling might make another child complacent, thinking that parents do everything for me, I don’t need to lift a finger. Toh, go figure😒Which parent ko hum blame kar saktein hain🤢Itna hi gyaan deni hain mujhe😲

Papa G and Mama G seem to be having a better love story of roothna-manaana, arguments and so on and so forth……..Looks like the baby, Keith and Amrita are also thrown out of the show👍🏼 How about Ehsan? Is he still part of the show?😲Vanya is trying to do a one-upmanship with her colleagues to get into the good books of the CEO. She told them she is not a team player upfront, ab bhugto😡 She is annoying as heck for her coworkers. But, she is going Scott-free as the CEO is busy with his WhatsApp group activities🤬

The show has truly gone down the drain and to a point of no return👎🏼 The writers are truly twisted if they think that the love story can be built based on the theories of parenting and Viaan being voted the best parent of the WhatsApp group😡 and therefore he is a suitable partner🤢 Ewwwww…………

Here are the tags……… Chandu, I am so sorry, I have missed tagging you in the recent past😒I feel like I may be forcefeeding some of you with my nonsense and hence feel delicate to tag. Please let me know if this is the case and I won’t take it personally😃

Mili dear, my patience level is being tested to the maximum extent.😡

How can a non parent intruder call other parents, in the middle of a working day, and give free ka lecture and leave with a swag. Katha is smiling proudly. Sab ke sab pagal hai idhar

PTG means Parent-Teacher group. Teachers kidhar hai bhai

I would have whacked my son, if he says that he can share anything with his adult friend, but is scared to share something with me. Thats a huge red flag about my parenting skills.👎🏼👎🏼

I am more keen on G couple and once in a blue moon Adi (Precap says, he will be a regular visitor, unless he turns insane, I am ok with him). G couple chemistry is really good.

They have sidelined Viraj-Viaan equation, no one seemed to be bothered as of now. 😭😭That was such a potential track for traumatic Viaan. They have wasted it

OFC, Vanya is going to make some blunder and Katha will be ready with her two page lecture on team work and Viaan will be on side nodding his head. Its so predictable.

Give Ehsan a break yaar, from non parent V and his weird harkatein. otherwise he will go full cranky🤣🤣

I don't know if it is supposed to be a love story between two individuals Katha-Viaan or is it a story between Aarav's Mom and his potential dad.

Ultimately in second chances of love also, people look for a companion and partner for themselves, not a co-parenting partner, right?

Why do Indian society believe that when it comes to re marriage of a single mother, it has to be focussed about her child than focussing on the relationship between man-woman as life partners?

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Mili dear, my patience level is being tested to the maximum extent.😡

How can a non parent intruder call other parents, in the middle of a working day, and give free ka lecture and leave with a swag. Katha is smiling proudly. Sab ke sab pagal hai idhar

PTG means Parent-Teacher group. Teachers kidhar hai bhai

I would have whacked my son, if he says that he can share anything with his adult friend, but is scared to share something with me. Thats a huge red flag about my parenting skills.👎🏼👎🏼

I am more keen on G couple and once in a blue moon Adi (Precap says, he will be a regular visitor, unless he turns insane, I am ok with him). G couple chemistry is really good.

They have sidelined Viraj-Viaan equation, no one seemed to be bothered as of now. 😭😭That was such a potential track for traumatic Viaan. They have wasted it

OFC, Vanya is going to make some blunder and Katha will be ready with her two page lecture on team work and Viaan will be on side nodding his head. Its so predictable.

Give Ehsan a break yaar, from non parent V and his weird harkatein. otherwise he will go full cranky🤣🤣

I don't know if it is supposed to be a love story between two individuals Katha-Viaan or is it a story between Aarav's Mom and his potential dad.

Ultimately in second chances of love also, people look for a companion and partner for themselves, not a co-parenting partner, right?

Why do Indian society believe that when it comes to re marriage of a single mother, it has to be focussed about her child than focussing on the relationship between man-woman as life partners?

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Ultimately in second chances of love also, people look for a companion and partner for themselves, not a co-parenting partner, right?

Why do Indian society believe that when it comes to re marriage of a single mother, it has to be focussed about her child than focussing on the relationship between man-woman as life partners?

There you have it! That explains this baby sitting parenting track. To establish beyond doubt that Katha falls in love with Viaan only because he appealed to the mother in her. Getting attracted, seeking companionship - or worse - sex, wanting to be loved as a woman - chee chee chee these things are ghor paap for a widow, that too a mother. Once a mother, we stop being women, we become devis. Our FL already has a career - how much more un-sanskari u want to make her?

Originally posted by: Bana

There you have it! That explains this baby sitting parenting track. To establish beyond doubt that Katha falls in love with Viaan only because he appealed to the mother in her. Getting attracted, seeking companionship - or worse - sex, wanting to be loved as a woman - chee chee chee these things are ghor paap for a widow, that too a mother. Once a mother, we stop being women, we become devis. Our FL already has a career - how much more un-sanskari u want to make her?

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

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I don't know if it is supposed to be a love story between two individuals Katha-Viaan or is it a story between Aarav's Mom and his potential dad.

Ultimately in second chances of love also, people look for a companion and partner for themselves, not a co-parenting partner, right?

Why do Indian society believe that when it comes to re marriage of a single mother, it has to be focussed about her child than focussing on the relationship between man-woman as life partners?

am going to disagree with you on this as I have divorced relatives who have re-married. from observartion, when it comes to second marriage, people are even more worried about the two people getting along well in order to ensure the marriage is a success. parents, relatives don't want a second failure to add.

so the child isn't the only issue but there are a whole range of angles that parents and relatives as well as the couple themselves consider -- are they sufficiently over the past? will the same mistakes occur again? what have they learned? can they accept a new person as both have pasts? after that, then it comes to accepting the child and whether the child will accept them and how will parenting happen and what are the expectations.

when the focus is solely on the child, the talks itself fizzled out in the rishta talk process. now, am sharing observations from couples where both were divorced and one had children from a prior marriage. they built a connection as man-woman and life partners and with one couple, they have successfully completed over a decade.

when the start and purpose of the second marrige is solely focused on child rearing, unfortunately, thats where you hear of bad treatment from stepparent because they are so frustrated at the state of marriage and lack of connection -- so the relationships for everyone become complicated.

because of how it played out in prior generations, parents and relatives these days are far more aware these days that if a second marriage has to succeed, then the relationship should be focused on man-woman as life partners as its core. then, comes parenting and other responsibiities such as taking care of elderly parents etc.

Originally posted by: Twinklestar139

I truly feel like the writers got changed for this show. This can't be the same writers who wrote the ONS scene and the confrontation scene when Viaan found out the truth. It's truly sad that they've wasted so much potential that this show had.

that is my theory as well. the original set of writers wrote such deep insightful stuff that made us feel for a grey ML who was doing very dicey actions. but we kept watching instead of a backlash. now, they had to turn him into a weird sap because they don't know how to write what it is like to recover from trauma and childhood issues. that is certainly not the writing we got from the beginning of the show and the promos promised us a love hate story. so where is the push pull? definitely C team writing.