Uncelebrated Selflessness: The Metamorphosis of Mr Bajaj!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Today’s scene was so endearing and showed how long this man has walked without harbouring expectations. Maybe there’s a flaming yearning of being loved back in the deepest corner of his heart. There’s also a bit of anxiety that springs out of losing someone you love more than yourself. But that’s something which humanises him in the existence of those God-like attributes.

For 8 years he lived with a damaged woman and went extra miles to heal her…expecting nothing in return.

In his own words voiced in the first phase, “A husband needs his wife.” That depicted his demanding side. Though even then he never forced her to pay heed to his needs and always kept her above it all.

Now, 8 years later, he seems content watching her from a distance. As I said earlier too, this is the highest form of love. It requires no loud chants or forced divine interventions to elevate itself because it’s already elevated.

Apne saare sawaalon ke jawab aapko apne hi dil se poochne honge. Wahin hain aapke saare jawab.

The monologue was significant and again stressed upon the fact that he never chooses what she should do. He lets her elect for herself and gracefully steps aside. How can one not love his gem of a man? And for how long can one not acknowledge the selflessness and the immense love he possesses? Hoping against hope that her heart leads her to the right direction…where he has been waiting for 8 years!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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The change rather metamorphosis is so massive. From I want my wife to kuch faisle unhe khud karne padenge.

loved loved loved the Convo he had with himself. today's Bajaj scenes are a proof he has gotten closer to her used to her, knows everything about her..

His words are such a proof that even if she doesn't choose him he will always choose her over and over again and again. He is happy with whatever little they shared knowing that her heart beats not for him but her someone else yet he is okay with it. Like I said previously, his love is enough for both of them 🧡

Oh how wonderful it will be when he is chosen by her... I can imagine, just like the wonderful FF writers we have, he will be confused and then this face will slowly light up, knowing he was chosen just like that little smile when she came to meet him in jail and then asked himself why am I laughing. 🧡

Give me that that already please 😢


Ps. How difficult and a tortuous it is for a man to know your wife whom you love more than your life actually has someone else in her heart worse part he is completely fine with the fact that she may not chose him but someone else, only because he knew she wasn't his at the first place while he was hers. ♥️ So poignant, so profound, so beautiful is love so selfless so unconditional so unrequited. ♥️

Edited by WaqtZaya - 5 years ago
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Eku aur

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Edited by WaqtZaya - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Drawer nahi hai ye Pre ka dil hai .....dekho choote na itne mein itna hi milta hai 🤣

Edited by -RD- - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Rishabh Bajaj - The name says it all..


The better husband, the better companion, the better father and the better man 😳😳


He loved her enough to let her go.. He supported her unconditionally for the past 8 years...


Prerna Rishabh Bajaj - Their relationship are above any kind of soul love... They share understanding, trust, faith in each other.. They respect each other.. They communicate with each other.. Ever since she became Mrs Bajaj, Mr Bajaj never imposed anything on her...


Married or not - She is Prerna Bajaj (that's her Identity), an identity that brought her courage, strength and hopefully stability in the future.


Rishabh Bajaj - The man my Prerna deserves!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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His unrequited love , with no expectations, though deep down he yearns to be loved back, bound by no conditions, shines through, she is everything for him, more of an epicenter , he seems very content with her around , watching her from a distance with no demands or commands .

From a "husband needs his wife" to this phase he has come a long way

There was a splash of insecurity , which was real and human but then he says

"zindagi mein kuch faisle , kuch raaste humein akele hi thai karne honge .. Prerna aapko bhi yeh sab akele hi face karna hoga , apne sawaalon ka jawab aapko apne hi dil se poochne honge, wahi hai sab jawaab"


it's not easy to leave a person, you love the most , he gave her everything she needed, the strength, the resolute firmness, the resilience , the confidence , determination , he walked her to that last lap from where she has to travel the extra mile on her own. This is the strength of his selfless love . He could have easily manipulated her decided for her, demanded her, commanded her , but NO, he let's her walk alone but is always there to hold her when she stumbles .

He lets her go, but he is concerned about her because he knows her more than she knows him, an emotional mess she is, she doesn't think from her brain and always falls weak before her "ex-lover" only to be hurt again

Even in love or hate she is consumed by the person who decides for her, who commands and demands off her , but the unwavering love of this one person who resurrected her life from a shattered HER to the BW of the year, lasts , till his last breath .

Apne saare sawaalon ke jawab aapko apne hi dil se poochne honge. Wahin hain aapke saare jawab.


I really hope one day her heart gives her the right answers and she treads on the right path towards the Man of her life Rishab Bajaj , not for him but for her own sake .

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Well for me, the metamorphosis started 8 years ago when Rishab bajaj decided to let Prerna go, overlooking the need of a mother for his little girl. That step itself was the starting point, considering the calculating sharp Business minded person he used to be.


But today's scene made it look more prominent. He is still the same man who can go to any extent to protect his love but at the same time very well knows he does not hold the same place or priority in her heart and it does not bother him anymore. Because he does not have any expectation. the troubled childhood, cunning business world anyway made him believe that there is no-one who would love him back. So just being her support system made him content and he is happy with that.


In all this, as a viewer it hurts to see the only person that Bajaj thought of completely his, his daughter Kookie does not share the same comfort anymore with her father. Kookie should have been the daughter who would love her father the most and should become the emotional support from him but CVs are hell bent make the Kookie character similar to Prerna!!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: WaqtZaya

The change rather metamorphosis is so massive. From I want my wife to kuch faisle unhe khud karne padenge.

loved loved loved the Convo he had with himself. today's Bajaj scenes are a proof he has gotten closer to her used to her, knows everything about her..

His words are such a proof that even if she doesn't choose him he will always choose her over and over again and again. He is happy with whatever little they shared knowing that her heart beats not for him but her someone else yet he is okay with it. Like I said previously, his love is enough for both of them 🧡

Oh how wonderful it will be when he is chosen by her... I can imagine, just like the wonderful FF writers we have, he will be confused and then this face will slowly light up, knowing he was chosen just like that little smile when she came to meet him in jail and then asked himself why am I laughing. 🧡

Give me that that already please 😢


Ps. How difficult and a tortuous it is for a man to know your wife whom you love more than your life actually has someone else in her heart worse part he is completely fine with the fact that she may not chose him but someone else, only because he knew she wasn't his at the first place while he was hers. ♥️ So poignant, so profound, so beautiful is love so selfless so unconditional so unrequited. ♥️

This is the crux of the PRB story. 💔❤️

He knows she loves someone else and harbours little hope of getting that love for himself. Yet it doesn't affect his love for her. ❤️

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: WaqtZaya

Eku aur

Why did I take it? Oh for the gif

From here

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To here

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^ One more


What a journey!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RD-

Drawer nahi hai ye Pre ka dil hai .....dekho choote na itne mein itna hi milta hai 🤣

Kya pata kisi drawer mein hi dil ho 🤣

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