PreRish and the Other Kind of Love! - Page 3

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Originally posted by: sowmy20

I definitely believe he is the one who saved Prerna both from the water AND the heartbreak due to Anurag's betrayal.....

Actually I am glad he was there for Prerna when she realised that Sneha was gone forever ... I don't know what would have happened if he wasn't there....

But the problem I have is with giving credit to Bajaj for wrong reasons.... Which the TM stated in this post....

The reason behind her professional success is not Bajaj nor Anurag actually....

She took the decision herself to take revenge on Anurag and she HERSELF worked hard for it...

Here Bajaj is not responsible... It's all her need to take revenge on Anurag... Her choice..

I know most of the people here don't like Prerna but she deserves credit where it's due too right?

It's not like she is just some side character... She is the heroine of this show... It's her journey as Prerna Sharma... That's my point....😳

Also thank you for acknowledging that part about bajaj. He is not perfect but if he wasn't there for her she would have been dead. He was her support system and friend. Bajaj has always wanted best for prerna and he never stopped her. That will never change.

Originally posted by: durga33

yes I agree she had a motivation a reason to do it so she worked hard. It's like someone working hard to get the prize and her prize is to get revenge for her daughter death from anurag. So yes she worked for it.

Also thank you for acknowledging that part about bajaj. He is not perfect but if he wasn't there for her she would have been dead. He was her support system and friend. Bajaj has always wanted best for prerna and he never stopped her. That will never change.

No need to thank me... I am just stating the facts....😳

And as for Bajaj always wanting the best for her everyone know it's not true .. last track is example for this..... We all know how he blackmailed her into marrying him while the love of her life is about to be hanged .... And also tried to kill Anurag in the end even though he knew how much she loved him...

But yeah he redeemed himself and is sure a better person in the current track....

But still we don't know the whole story as the mystery is not solved yet.... So I am holding my judgement on Bajaj until then...😊

Originally posted by: sowmy20

No need to thank me... I am just stating the facts....😳

And as for Bajaj always wanting the best for her everyone know it's not true .. last track is example for this..... We all know how he blackmailed her into marrying him while the love of her life is about to be hanged .... And also tried to kill Anurag in the end even though he knew how much she loved him...

But yeah he redeemed himself and is sure a better person in the current track....

But still we don't know the whole story as the mystery is not solved yet.... So I am holding my judgement on Bajaj until then...😊

I believe he does want better for her. It shows in what he does. Some people tend to focus on his grey side or bad actions more but fail to see the reason behind them. In their previous marriage when basus insulted her; what did he say? Have self respect. He didn't even make his own family talk bad about her. He tried to teach her that if you don't respect yourself how will others do. In the end he left her behind to have the life she want. If he hadn't freed her prerna would have never left him. So if in his eyes deserving someone better who will treat her better is him I don't see why not. He has always been there for her since the day he met her. That will never change.

From a nobody to a STAR WiFE ...kisi ke sath overnight mba karke bhi pa thi aur kisi ke paise pe khel ke business woman ban gayi ....what being in the right company can do for one...kisi ke saath pairon ki dhool thi aur kisi aur ke saath aate hi sarr ka taaj ...waah re Mr Bajaj ...

Sorry for desi dehati reply to ur posh post 😆

Originally posted by: durga33

well I'm sure we can have a civilized conversation or debate about this. 😁 Your welcome to hold your judgment for bajaj. Bajaj is a grey character. He is not good nor bad. However that doesn't mean he is not deserving of her. I see a lot of tv shows where half of the time the grey character are always better than the hero for the heroine. Yes he emotionally manipulated her by using information he had for his own purpose but his reason behind it was noble. It was for his daughter. It was not like he was marrying her to spite anurag. At that point he didn't care about anything but his daughter. In the end he made amends and left a hero.

I believe he does want better for her. It shows in what he does. Some people tend to focus on his grey side or bad actions more but fail to see the reason behind them. In their previous marriage when basus insulted her; what did he say? Have self respect. He didn't even make his own family talk bad about her. He tried to teach her that if you don't respect yourself how will others do. In the end he left her behind to have the life she want. If he hadn't freed her prerna would have never left him. So if in his eyes deserving someone better who will treat her better is him I don't see why not. He has always been there for her since the day he met her. That will never change.

Yeah I completely understand where you are coming from...

See but the thing is Prerna is an Adult and she has a choice... If she is choosing Anurag even with all the difficulties... That show the unconditional love she has for him....

But ultimately it SHOULD be upto her and it should be her decision... Her freedom of choice.....

In that What Bajaj did was utterly wrong....

And as for who is better person for Prerna...Bajaj has no RIGHT to decide nor WE... Again it's completely her choice.... He may feel he is the better person for her but that doesn't mean she also should feel the same...

And personally I believe loving someone is not something that you can help or control...

One cannot decide whom we have feelings for... It just happens.... I believe when a person falls on love he/she doesn't consider whether he is good for them or not... It's not a practical decision.... It's always and should be an emotional decision taken by one's heart.... Otherwise there's no meaning to love...

What Prerna has for Anurag is love filled with so much gratitude and admiration since the beginning of the show... Since Naveen Babu track..... Where he trusted her and supported her while her own family didn't.....

And after that whatever he did whether people consider it right or wrong he did it for her and she herself accepted that completely and her love for him only increased..... And she chose to forgive him....Again her choice....

So if and until Prerna feels those kind of feelings for Bajaj eventhough he considers himself a better choice for her he has no right to do anything against her wishes....

Hence Bajaj did take another person's choice in his own hands and tried to use it for his own benefit... That's definitely wrong.....

And as for him forcing a pregnant woman completely in love with another person to marry him even though it's for his daughter it can NEVER be a noble cause.....

It's not like he is the only one with a daughter and a family right? Everyone including Anurag whom he trapped very cunningly with the help of Ronit.... Has a family and also a child that he isn't aware of.... He should have considered it if he was atleast GREY..

No... That decision was completely wrong and Black...

So... I am still doubtful about his intentions even now also..... Even though he appears to be a good person this time....

And also we can discuss our opinions on Bajaj to our hearts content but ultimately it's Eks choice wheter she gives Bajaj a chance this time or not... All our discussions don't change that.... We just have a choice to see or not to see...

I can fight with all my might that AnuPre are goal and you as Prerish but we as viewers don't have a choice in that matter do we?😆 it's all upto EK.... And trps....

Sorry for the long post... But I hope I was able to convey my point across clearly.....😳

Originally posted by: sowmy20

Yeah I completely understand where you are coming from...

See but the thing is Prerna is an Adult and she has a choice... If she is choosing Anurag even with all the difficulties... That show the unconditional love she has for him....

But ultimately it SHOULD be upto her and it should be her decision... Her freedom of choice.....

In that What Bajaj did was utterly wrong....

And as for who is better person for Prerna...Bajaj has no RIGHT to decide nor WE... Again it's completely her choice.... He may feel he is the better person for her but that doesn't mean she also should feel the same...

And personally I believe loving someone is not something that you can help or control...

One cannot decide whom we have feelings for... It just happens.... I believe when a person falls on love he/she doesn't consider whether he is good for them or not... It's not a practical decision.... It's always and should be an emotional decision taken by one's heart.... Otherwise there's no meaning to love...

What Prerna has for Anurag is love filled with so much gratitude and admiration since the beginning of the show... Since Naveen Babu track..... Where he trusted her and supported her while her own family didn't.....

And after that whatever he did whether people consider it right or wrong he did it for her and she herself accepted that completely and her love for him only increased..... And she chose to forgive him....Again her choice....

So if and until Prerna feels those kind of feelings for Bajaj eventhough he considers himself a better choice for her he has no right to do anything against her wishes....

Hence Bajaj did take another person's choice in his own hands and tried to use it for his own benefit... That's definitely wrong.....

And as for him forcing a pregnant woman completely in love with another person to marry him even though it's for his daughter it can NEVER be a noble cause.....

It's not like he is the only one with a daughter and a family right? Everyone including Anurag whom he trapped very cunningly with the help of Ronit.... Has a family and also a child that he isn't aware of.... He should have considered it if he was atleast GREY..

No... That decision was completely wrong and Black...

So... I am still doubtful about his intentions even now also..... Even though he appears to be a good person this time....

And also we can discuss our opinions on Bajaj to our hearts content but ultimately it's Eks choice wheter she gives Bajaj a chance this time or not... All our discussions don't change that.... We just have a choice to see or not to see...

I can fight with all my might that AnuPre are goal and you as Prerish but we as viewers don't have a choice in that matter do we?😆 it's all upto EK.... And trps....

Sorry for the long post... But I hope I was able to convey my point across clearly.....😳

Thank you Shruti, Ankie, Durga and everyone who is trying to make sense of Prerish in the new scenario.

RB and Prerna always had a 'dard ka rishta'.

There was always an angst between them..he knew he could not replace her first love and he got extremely vulnerable towards her because of that. At some point, she understands that vulnerability.

At this point, it's quite obvious they share a friendly relationship but platonic. And we should give him due credit that he never demands anything back from her.

How it plays out is anybody's guess. About trps, in the past months, there's been no great dizzying heights reached for it to make a difference. Let's be clear. TRPs will rise only if their story moves and their narrative handling somewhere touches a chord.

Love makes you stronger and helps you grow. Be with someone who can encourage you, support you and guide you when you need it..

P would have never been able to do this if she hadn’t been pushed by RB and he knows it too well that if he would have suggested her to do something in life she wouldn’t understand it or do it so easily. 😆

That’s why he threw her a challenge or made a deal, usse pata that she’d prove herself and win it. He’s so smart see😎

But that’s how their relationship has always been.. he always took stand for her against others, even when she didn’t

‘Jab tak aap apni respect nahi karengi koi aur bhi nahi karega...’

RB was, is and will always be the one to make her push her boundaries for the better!!

Originally posted by: sowmy20

I definitely believe he is the one who saved Prerna both from the water AND the heartbreak due to Anurag's betrayal.....

Actually I am glad he was there for Prerna when she realised that Sneha was gone forever ... I don't know what would have happened if he wasn't there....

But the problem I have is with giving credit to Bajaj for wrong reasons.... Which the TM stated in this post....

The reason behind her professional success is not Bajaj nor Anurag actually....

She took the decision herself to take revenge on Anurag and she HERSELF worked hard for it...

Here Bajaj is not responsible... It's all her need to take revenge on Anurag... Her choice..

I know most of the people here don't like Prerna but she deserves credit where it's due too right?

It's not like she is just some side character... She is the heroine of this show... It's her journey as Prerna Sharma... That's my point....😳

nope. Prerna's credit is due in only berating herself and allowing the people she loves to walk all over her. Cannot give credit to her for anything else, and especially not in this case for sure.


It's a matter of 8 long years we are talking about, not a week, a month or a year. She has no one in this world than RB and his family. She is not shown as having many support systems, neither is her family around. She has moved to London. Even if we, for the sake of argument, take it as Prerna's credit that she did all the job by herself, there is no hell way possibility that she could keep herself motivated for this long. People who dont have many friends, still have at least 1 or 2 who keep them going over years. And that is how these 1-2 friends get the credit of sticking to that friendship and not leaving them alone to rot in this lonely world. We all know how the path to success is achieved. People are left high and dry in their solidarity. Even if there were 1 or 2 single moments of her ever feeling weak and giving it all up, it is Bajaj who pushed her through, kept her going. And if not anything else, for those 1-2 moments alone, this friendship shines beyond any other relationship alive. And this is why people are giving credit to Bajaj.


And no, given how sad and weak Prerna's character had been portrayed, I don't believe she kept herself strong and together all alone. It's definitely Bajaj. In S1, although remarkable, grand and huge, but I'd say Bajaj's contribution to Prerna's upliftment was not as much as it is in this season, all thanks to how meek and pushover this Prerna is compared to the prev one. So the credit to Bajaj is even more.