Prerna the selfish lover - Page 7

Originally posted by: _symphony

I agree he needs to ask questions. He is being too adjusting. Then being hurt is a by product if you do not speak up. He needs to talk to both Prerna and Anurag. Ask about her husband. If he is gone forever or might come back, unlike his case where how much he loves his wife , she wont come back. One Idk but I think cvs are trying to avoid Erica-Namik scenes totally. As in a proper scene. Development of even an iota of bond or warmth is totally avoided though we are already done with tilak. Why can't Viraj and Prerna warm up to each other even slightly. That's not what is expected.

I don't think they are avoiding any scenes between them but taking it painfully slow. From the BTS that was shared, we know Anurag and Viraj's conversation is coming up, Hopefully something between Prerna and Viraj as well considering she is going to be inviting him to the New Year's party.

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Originally posted by: _symphony

I agree he needs to ask questions. He is being too adjusting. Then being hurt is a by product if you do not speak up. He needs to talk to both Prerna and Anurag. Ask about her husband. If he is gone forever or might come back, unlike his case where how much he loves his wife , she wont come back. One Idk but I think cvs are trying to avoid Erica-Namik scenes totally. As in a proper scene. Development of even an iota of bond or warmth is totally avoided though we are already done with tilak. Why can't Viraj and Prerna warm up to each other even slightly. That's not what is expected.

I absolutely agree with this .....

Yes Pre is being selfish and she has a reason behind it ... her heart is making her do things and yes when one is in love they do things which are morally incorrect ..... but but here Viraj too is giving too much leeway ...

I do see him asking questions to Veena and she is just misleading him and he Too knows those explanations carry no weightage but on face he is taking all those .... this behaviour of Viraj is weird... it a pretty obvious what and Who matters to Pre no one is this blind ... so why is Viraj being this dumb .... ???

Pre anyways was never intestested in this marriage and she made her stance clear on day one and wanted to go ahead to put down the alliance but situations were never In favour (read creatives un-creativity ) ....: Pre has been coerced into this marriage so I don’t mind she caring least about Viraj’s feelings ...... It’s Veena who is responsible here .... and Viraj too because later on it’s his life which is gonna ruin if his wife continues to do nain mattakka with Anurag ....

I’ll repeat it again ...Yes Pre is being Selfish and she has her own valid reasons but what reason does Viraj has to be so adjusting .... is what I’m interested in .....

I won’t be surprised if he has his own agenda .... though yes creatives many times have taken easy routes and turned characters upside down based on trps... heck they have slaughtered Leads character too many times .... but here they have been dropping hints about Viraj as to why anyone would agree to marry a pregnant woman ..... I’m not buying his “Kid” reason....

It's not fair to Viraj. Last time, I still maintain it was a deal. She could've found other routes but she didn't. So she walked into a 'deal' with her eyes open. Yes, that was also her self absorbed nature.

What has this guy done to deserve all this ?? And if she's being loved because she is selfish, Viraj is a stranger to her. Why use him?? Of course, CVs may just turn him negative or a stalker. And redeem Prerna.

Ho how m, now I am also praying Anupre just get together. No more kasautis.

I agree prerna is not being fair to viraj at this point. She should tell him what she actually means when she says main apne Pati se abhi bhi pyaar karti hoon. He should know that her Pati is none other than anurag and she is still waiting for him to regain his memory and go back to him.

BUT, but, I find it really intriguing, as so many here have mentioned that we have in Prerna an FL who is by no means an Adarsh naari. Because, let's face it, Adarsh naaris simply don't exist. Selfishness is intrinsic ly human and I find it to be refreshing to see a more human FL and ML. This prerna is much more relatable than one who was sitting around like a robot without feelings, becoming an instant mother to a stranger child while being completely unaware of her own child growing in her womb.

Give me this prerna any day over a self sacrificing, mute lamb.

Also, I've found nothing resembling the progressive show that Ekta claimed of in the content of this show. But the only thing remotely progressive is prerna's attitude when it comes to what she wants and whom she loves. In not showing a perfect FL, we've taken a step forward. Otherwise in ITV, every character except the FL is allowed to make mistakes and is excused. Take this very show and the forum for example. Anurag makes mistakes like slapping prerna or planning his own accident and there's always people who justify his actions. Even an attempt to murder is forgiven for Bajaj because hey, he has a bad past, a broken childhood, another man looked at his wife, so of course he has the right to kill him. But the very same people have so many problems if prerna thinks of herself and her happiness first. Double standards much???!

Prerna maybe selfish here. Viraj maybe the wronged party here. But this woman has faced enough in life and has earned the right to be just that!

Originally posted by: hope4u

I agree prerna is not being fair to viraj at this point. She should tell him what she actually means when she says main apne Pati se abhi bhi pyaar karti hoon. He should know that her Pati is none other than anurag and she is still waiting for him to regain his memory and go back to him.

BUT, but, I find it really intriguing, as so many here have mentioned that we have in Prerna an FL who is by no means an Adarsh naari. Because, let's face it, Adarsh naaris simply don't exist. Selfishness is intrinsic ly human and I find it to be refreshing to see a more human FL and ML. This prerna is much more relatable than one who was sitting around like a robot without feelings, becoming an instant mother to a stranger child while being completely unaware of her own child growing in her womb.

Give me this prerna any day over a self sacrificing, mute lamb.

Also, I've found nothing resembling the progressive show that Ekta claimed of in the content of this show. But the only thing remotely progressive is prerna's attitude when it comes to what she wants and whom she loves. In not showing a perfect FL, we've taken a step forward. Otherwise in ITV, every character except the FL is allowed to make mistakes and is excused. Take this very show and the forum for example. Anurag makes mistakes like slapping prerna or planning his own accident and there's always people who justify his actions. Even an attempt to murder is forgiven for Bajaj because hey, he has a bad past, a broken childhood, another man looked at his wife, so of course he has the right to kill him. But the very same people have so many problems if prerna thinks of herself and her happiness first. Double standards much???!

Prerna maybe selfish here. Viraj maybe the wronged party here. But this is woman has faced enough in life and has earned the right to be just that!

@Italic This Prerna over that robotic Prerna who was insensitive towards her own kid let alone Anurag.

@Bold You are kidding right??? I mean who even in sane minds can defend a attempt to murder or a potential murder? So other man looks at your wife , whom your wife too loves and was vocal about it even before marriage and you go and kill him and it's justice and justified. OMG that's insane God bless people who have such mentality to defend this.

Ekta is introducing numerous gif actors against Prerna and trying to make each track character appear diff

Naveen was kidnapped shaadi

Bajju was blackmailed shaadi

Viraj is memory triggering shaadi

Next will be shaadi for sake of some one's life

Fifth will be unconscious Pre ke saath shaadi

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Originally posted by: hope4u

I agree prerna is not being fair to viraj at this point. She should tell him what she actually means when she says main apne Pati se abhi bhi pyaar karti hoon. He should know that her Pati is none other than anurag and she is still waiting for him to regain his memory and go back to him.

BUT, but, I find it really intriguing, as so many here have mentioned that we have in Prerna an FL who is by no means an Adarsh naari. Because, let's face it, Adarsh naaris simply don't exist. Selfishness is intrinsic ly human and I find it to be refreshing to see a more human FL and ML. This prerna is much more relatable than one who was sitting around like a robot without feelings, becoming an instant mother to a stranger child while being completely unaware of her own child growing in her womb.

Give me this prerna any day over a self sacrificing, mute lamb.

Also, I've found nothing resembling the progressive show that Ekta claimed of in the content of this show. But the only thing remotely progressive is prerna's attitude when it comes to what she wants and whom she loves. In not showing a perfect FL, we've taken a step forward. Otherwise in ITV, every character except the FL is allowed to make mistakes and is excused. Take this very show and the forum for example. Anurag makes mistakes like slapping prerna or planning his own accident and there's always people who justify his actions. Even an attempt to murder is forgiven for Bajaj because hey, he has a bad past, a broken childhood, another man looked at his wife, so of course he has the right to kill him. But the very same people have so many problems if prerna thinks of herself and her happiness first. Double standards much???!

Prerna maybe selfish here. Viraj maybe the wronged party here. But this woman has faced enough in life and has earned the right to be just that!

being selfish u dont have to insesntive

being scraficial u dont have to dumb

sorry to say prerna qualifies both

its nothing to do with progressive or regressive

just now pre judgment is clouded by her happiness she us so happy that she is not seeing anything & thinking anything

but i m sure when reality hit her& her heart start saying she will talk to viraj😳

ps. still belueving that pre told everything to viraj she cant be this insesntive

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

hope

being selfish u dont have to insesntive

being scraficial u dont have to dumb

sorry to say prerna qualifies both

its nothing to do with progressive or regressive

just now pre judgment is clouded by her happiness she us so happy that she is not seeing anything & thinking anything

but i m sure when reality hit her& her heart start saying she will talk to viraj😳

ps. still belueving that pre told everything to viraj she cant be this insesntive

Moni there's no argument from my side right now that pre is doing a massive error in judgment by not bringing viraj upto speed.

But the bolded lines are exactly my point. Anupre fans did not call pre insensitive when she took a pro Anu decision. Similarly Prerish fans didnt call pre dumb when she took a pro Bajaj decision. And this is all I meant by progressive. We always look at the FL of a show through the lens of the male characters. That in itself is the main problem. The FL is always expected to be good and perfect. And the fact rhat here's an FL who is by no means perfect is very refreshing.

Originally posted by: hope4u

Moni there's no argument from my side right now that pre is doing a massive error in judgment by not bringing viraj upto speed.

But the bolded lines are exactly my point. Anupre fans did not call pre insensitive when she took a pro Anu decision. Similarly Prerish fans didnt call pre dumb when she took a pro Bajaj decision. And this is all I meant by progressive. We always look at the FL of a show through the lens of the male characters. That in itself is the main problem. The FL is always expected to be good and perfect. And the fact rhat here's an FL who is by no means perfect is very refreshing.

in last teack & now in this track i m just talking about pres character she was shown a insesntive girl which is not good fir me not refreshing at all. sesnstive is a very positive trate which any FL has to be we fall for that trait of leads .writters have to think of this & (i must say writters of kzk r big time failure when they write pres character either they dont think or over think )

agar pre ko jogan type lover dikhana its ok usko selfish dikhana dikhyo but at which cost by shiwing her dumb & insenstive .thats not good