Love above class and status?

**It has been posted as a comment on a serial update as a reply to prerna4rishab's comment where she had mentioned people should have stayed away if they know their family wont approve a girl from lower class or something like that. I feel exactly the same way though in kzk if it had been done there wouldn’t be any kzk at all. I Have posted this comment as a new thread on request from a forum member considering she would like to share her views with us. The previous thread had been discontinued by the moderators. **

In short NO AP love story.. No kasautii.. If Anurag had kept himself away from Prerna considering their classes and statuses. :p

Idk, its serial. And we can give thousands of incidents where it can go otherwise but then who would watch the serial.

But coming to the reality, i would also like people to stay away from those love ones who they can never marry.. If you cant manage class, cast, state issues than why just getting into a relationship!!

Feelings are hard to control i know... But unspoken love will be easier to manage then a spoken one.

You feel attracted at first sight.. Later its your choice to turn it into love or not. Love has diff shades and diff stages.. Not all are hard to manage. Manage it when its manageable.

Dont know how they just fall in love like that.. Taking weed may be!! Huh.. Forbidden feelings are very addictive i guess.

umm this is a super toxic mindset lol people can love whoever they want. It’s Mohinis and Niveditas and Komolikas fault that they’re entitled assholes who hate people from lower class...

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

umm this is a super toxic mindset lol people can love whoever they want. It’s Mohinis and Niveditas and Komolikas fault that they’re entitled assholes who hate people from lower class...

You might have misjudged my post then. Yes, you can love whoever you want but you would have to stand for your ground to establish that love beyond class, cast or religion. Loving the person is the most easy thing in love.. Hardles comes after that. And if you cant face them you are better to keep your feelings to yourself. Its what i was trying to say.

I dont have toxic mindset btw. I am very much open to except my wrong thinking if its proved with proper logic. Try me.

Thank you for the post .

Well i believe if we look at the situation realistically , this is an issue..not just class or status there may be any kind of problem with the boy's family.. there are thousand of things which the new gen may not agree upon but unless the boy is strong enough to take a stand for his wife or the wife is capable of tackling it sensibly , the relationship is bound to be a lifelong torture. For the girl its double trouble just as it was in kuch rang ..

Mohini and nivi changed as per the story but in reality people don't. So its better that people like anurag must honour their family wishes before falling in love ..didnt he know what his mom felt about prerna ? Or did he turn blind or ignore her ? A mother and son didnt have any communication in this ? Mohini assumed that anurag will marry the girl of her choice and anurag assumed that mother loves her so much that she wont refuse for his choice of the girl . So much complication happened only due to this season.

Imo prerna and her family deserved respect ..and these taunts on her class and status, I dont know why they tolerate so much and prerna fell in love with anurag knowing well prerna and sharma family dont have 2 paise ki respect in basu family. She should have refused the alliance on th3 day veena was arrested for theft. Some people move on like magic like prerna and some just refuse to move an inch like anurag . No matter how much obsession he shows to prerna , the truth is that are better if they are not together.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Thank you for the post .

Well i believe if we look at the situation realistically , this is an issue..not just class or status there may be any kind of problem with the boy's family.. there are thousand of things which the new gen may not agree upon but unless the boy is strong enough to take a stand for his wife or the wife is capable of tackling it sensibly , the relationship is bound to be a lifelong torture. For the girl its double trouble just as it was in kuch rang ..

Mohini and nivi changed as per the story but in reality people don't. So its better that people like anurag must honour their family wishes before falling in love ..didnt he know what his mom felt about prerna ? Or did he turn blind or ignore her ? A mother and son didnt have any communication in this ? Mohini assumed that anurag will marry the girl of her choice and anurag assumed that mother loves her so much that she wont refuse for his choice of the girl . So much complication happened only due to this season.

Imo prerna and her family deserved respect ..and these taunts on her class and status, I dont know why they tolerate so much and prerna fell in love with anurag knowing well prerna and sharma family dont have 2 paise ki respect in basu family. She should have refused the alliance on th3 day veena was arrested for theft. Some people move on like magic like prerna and some just refuse to move an inch like anurag . No matter how much obsession he shows to prerna , the truth is that are better if they are not together.

You have got me.

Remember that fish scenerio!! I mean, no matter how much i had loved Anu if i were on PrPre's place i would have walked away from the marriage right then.

That was what I saying, falling in love with lower class is not forbidden but you have to know if it gonna work out or no. Why putting the girl in trouble or disrespecting your family either! And yet if you have ended up in love with her/him... Establish it.

But i wont go marry with a man who would put me above his own mother!! I would always wanted to be second on his list. And also I wont like a man to marry a girl who's family is being disrespected in front of him n he's numb. I will put my family above always.

Isse acha hain apne payar apne sine mei liye mar jau.. :p :p

On second note.. I wont go marry a blackmailer either :p :p

I always say this to my friends that be it an arranged marriage or love marriage, it's gonna be very difficult if the husband doesn't support. He is the one for whom I'm bounded with all these relations.

It's not just in marriage, in any relation, if money/class/status is above the relation, it's bound to break. Me and my cousin were very close since childhood and we never knew the difference in our family's status. By the time we were in UG, the difference was visible and she kind of ignored me. I tried to mend the relation in all ways possible and when it's time for my self respect, I stopped it. Now we just meet in family functions and don't even talk much. Had she not chosen status above our bond, we would have been very close even now. I don't blame her though. It's her choice. But of course, emotionally, it took me a lot of time to understand this coz I thought things like these would never change our relation.

In marriage, if husband supports, we get all the strength we need. Again, I don't want my husband to blindly trust me nor his mom if we have any problem.

I've seen my friend where her husband supported her whenever required and the family also treats her well, as the guy made a strong point on what's her place in his life.

I have never seen Anu speak/share anything to his mom about his expectations or his love. In the naveen's fiasco, instead of taking her side, had he discussed it with her, things would have been different. Of course, we can't expect logic in shows like these.. All I can say is, we are the only ones who can understand what our parents think and not our partner. Instead of just going with the flow, we should explain them that the person is very important in our life.

I believe, in such cases, one should not just jump to marriage. And I don't think in real life, any parent would backstab the child.. Like agreeing upfront and then trying to break the relationship. It looks so childish. At leastI've never seen such parents.

Originally posted by: pranu_d

I always say this to my friends that be it an arranged marriage or love marriage, it's gonna be very difficult if the husband doesn't support. He is the one for whom I'm bounded with all these relations.

It's not just in marriage, in any relation, if money/class/status is above the relation, it's bound to break. Me and my cousin were very close since childhood and we never knew the difference in our family's status. By the time we were in UG, the difference was visible and she kind of ignored me. I tried to mend the relation in all ways possible and when it's time for my self respect, I stopped it. Now we just meet in family functions and don't even talk much. Had she not chosen status above our bond, we would have been very close even now. I don't blame her though. It's her choice. But of course, emotionally, it took me a lot of time to understand this coz I thought things like these would never change our relation.

In marriage, if husband supports, we get all the strength we need. Again, I don't want my husband to blindly trust me nor his mom if we have any problem.

I've seen my friend where her husband supported her whenever required and the family also treats her well, as the guy made a strong point on what's her place in his life.

I have never seen Anu speak/share anything to his mom about his expectations or his love. In the naveen's fiasco, instead of taking her side, had he discussed it with her, things would have been different. Of course, we can't expect logic in shows like these.. All I can say is, we are the only ones who can understand what our parents think and not our partner. Instead of just going with the flow, we should explain them that the person is very important in our life.

I believe, in such cases, one should not just jump to marriage. And I don't think in real life, any parent would backstab the child.. Like agreeing upfront and then trying to break the relationship. It looks so childish. At leastI've never seen such parents.

Yes. Its husband who supports you at your extreme. I know a line from somewhere where it said.. You can live in a family full of awful peoples if you have a supporting husband but you cant live with an awful husvand with family full of supporting peoples. Its deep. At the end its tge husband who should have a strong background. The prob betwenn laws n wife is an inevitable thing and in betwenn them knly stands a strong husband with his syring moralities. He should have the strength to correct his mother and wife and of course with due respects. Its not the wofe who decides if the family will break or not.. Its the husband.

Things related to kzk or any other serials are all drama and we expect them to act like reality then its very foolish of us but as the dramas ingluence our society they should show more positive things.

P s- Anu n Mohini has no chemistry at all in this season. They always look very distant.