THE RONITIAN HUB - Page 6

"Life is as simple or as complicated as we want it to be" says Ronit Bose Roy aka "Mihir" of Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu thi has come a long way in his career and is loved by masses and classes. Here he shares his views and experiences in an exclusive conversation.

Ronit Roy as he speaks to Dr. Kaajal on spirituality, meditation and his mantra for living.

On Healing

I think essentially the first step is to want to heal; if you are depressed then you should first want to come out of the depression. The second step is you should know how to do it. Finally you should do it actually. People call this Creative visualization; I call it Wisdom, Skill and Divinity. You know what to do is Wisdom. You know how to do it is Skill. And if you are following the path set by you its divinity.

On Meditation

I don't sit consciously and meditate. Frankly I don't know how to meditate. From what I understand, meditation means focussing your complete energies on any particular thing at a time without getting distracted. In that case I practice meditation every day of my life. My focus is very strong. I have always lived in the moment.

On Destiny

Yes, I am a believer in Destiny. See, I know that I am not a lucky person, I have never won a lottery and I know I will never earn anything out of speculation. From what I have understood of my destiny, whatever I want I have to work for it, and then I definitely achieve it.

On Happiness

See I have always been a happy person. This is not to say that I am too cool. I have the whole gamut of emotions in me, yes I do feel angry and irritated at times but those are mainly physiological things. But at heart I am a happy person because till date, sooner or later I have always got what I wanted.

On Success

For me success is basically if my near and dear ones are happy and content. And if I can achieve my dreams then that is success. My dreams keep changing when I arrive at the destination of my earlier dreams. Then I have to go beyond my dreams. Reaching the heights of spirituality and wisdom would be the ultimate dream I guess.

On Intuition

Intuitions are definitely a part of the human thought process. Whether they are right or wrong is secondary. Every body has a sixth sense, some more active than the others. If a person is too busy with their lives, their intuitive power tends to get masked. At this point in time, I don't think I have a sharp intuition but definitely hope that I am able to work on this aspect in my life.

17th Jan 2005

There is a bomb blast in K channel office. (Nahi nahi, this time it is not done by Rishabh Bajaj). Komolika has done it by hiring a person. Anubaba and Vinit are out of the building when the blast happens. (Oh shit !!! just missed !!! why he came out of the building..Too bad....For Komolika, I mean) Anubaba and Vinit catch that guy and he says Komolika is behind all this. Indronil watches all this. Anubaba and Vineet reach her hotel with the cops but she escapes by pretending to be a waitress. Prerna hears the news about the blast on TV. She is shocked. Prerna and Tushar decide to visit the Basus. Just when they are about to leave, guess whattttttt – HE ARRIVES !!!! Yuppp In Ekta Kapoor's words, "Life of KZK" arrives. Ekta is so right, such mein Serial mein aur meri TV screen mein jaan aa gayi. He was looking as usual very very handsome and sexy. I can't tell u what he was wearing tonight as I was sooooo happy just to see him, I forgot to note the colour of his shirt etc. !!! But he was looking very attractive!!! (This was such a big surprise for me :) I got the info that Ronit came back only in jan 1st/2nd week so I was like- okay he starts shooting this week, so he goes on air next week..i didn't know he would be back in kzk so soon. I was just flipping thru' the channels while having my dinner and then I saw the blast thing and Anubaba with the brown makeup and SHOCKED expressions. Since Anubaba was looking quite hilarious ,I was just watching on and laughing -and then in the last segment, Bajaj arrived - I was like -WOW)

Bajaj is very confused as he sees Prerna and Tushar really worried about something. Prerna tells him about the blast. he also gets worried. The Bajaj's go to the blast venue. Prerna asks Anubaba if he is alright and touches him. Anubaba gets really excited. (now when it comes to disaster victims even strangers offer hugs, and assuring touches. Prerna was not touching him for romance but because he was a blast victim and because she did not know whether he was severely injured or not.) but Anubaba was all excited and gave a 'touch-me-not' type _expression .(kya kahe, I don't have words!!!) Prerna took her hands back immediately. Anubaba tells Mr & Mrs Bajaj-" Komolika is doing all this and she wants to kill me. " Mr & Mrs Bajaj show concern and sympathy to Anubaba. Sweetoo was all nice and caring and offered help and support to Anubaba and told him- "Don't feel shy to ask for help if u need anything" etc. Said all the right things that are to be said in such
circumstances. The typical helpful, politically correct Mr Bajaj. Then Anubaba was also mellowed down due to this sudden 'jhatka' and so
avoided flaring nostrils and stating claims about his dupatta etc. and was quite gracious. When Bajaj and Prerna turn to leave, Prerna's saari's pallu gets stuck in Anubaba's ring(or was it his cufflink- well whatever). Anubaba reacts as if some huge cosmic event has occurred. Prerna looks at him and gets confused seeing his expressions. Sad song "kya pyar karoge" plays. Bajaj keeps smiling. He tries hard to suppress his laughter. (Ohhh....now that's a big change- no anger or jealous looks- he just keeps smiling... Lagta hain meri tarah Bajaj too has started finding Anubaba very funny and hilarious) Finally the cuff link is adjusted and Mr and Mrs Bajaj are free to leave ! Hamare sweetoo ko ilovetv group aur unke saare fans ki taraf se a BIG WELCOME a WARM HUG AND A SINCERE THANK YOU-for ending our torture of watching lifeless kzk episodes.

Smiles,
Arti

18th Jan 2005

Today half episode was good and half was utter crap.First the good part.

At night, Bajaj comes in Prerna's room and takes her hand in his hand and apologises to her for not being with her during Sneha – Prem's
operation. Prerna tells him not to apologise and says that she got good support from Anuraag as usual. Bajaj smiles, lets go of her hand
and is about to leave. Achanak Prerna ko pata nahi kya ho gaya- she starts saying a lot of good and romantic stuff about RB- like how
much he means to her, how much she misses him.....blah blah blah (it was a long dialogue and I couldn't listen much as I was on phone at the same time). RB also says a long dialogue about their relationship. Suddenly the atmosphere becomes moderately romantic with winds
flowing, curtains shaking etc. Prerna and Bajaj have such gr8 chemistry, together they set the screen on fire..... but they are interrupted by a knock on the door. RB opens the door. Sneha comes in and says she is not feeling sleepy. RB picks her up and signals Prerna with his eyes that he'll take care of Sneha. (wow – such good acting by Ronit and Shweta- they were just speaking thru' their eyes). Prerna watches RB putting Sneha to sleep and smiles to herself. The next morning, RB, Prerna and Sneha are at the breakfast table. Sneha says "I don't want to go to school as Papa has come home after so many days." Prerna says strictly "Papa kahin nahi ja rahe-woh yehi rehnewale hain - tum school jao, aur jab tum school se wapas aaogi, apne papa ke saath jahan jaana hain chali jaana. " RB interrupts and says "Prerna ,aaj Sneha ko ghar pe hi rehne do." Prerna is like- kyun?? RB says "Kyunki main aaj dopahar ki flight se phir se bahar ja raha hoon." ( what nonsense is this- he is going away AGAIN???? That means again I stop watching kzk ) Prerna is very upset upon hearing RB's plans. Anubaba comes there . He says he wants to drop Sneha to school as he is going in the same area. (Doesn't Sneha have a school bus? or a driver? cant Prerna or anybody else drop her???) RB welcomes him. He joins them at the dining table. Prerna is still angry about RB's tour plan. But sweetoo bhi na...instead of pacifying her, he instigates her further by saying- "Prerna, Plz pack my suitcase" . Now Prerna gets really mad at RB. She pretends to ignore RB and asks Anubaba "will u have breakfast?" Anubaba says 'no'. Prerna gets up angrily and goes inside. RB realises he needs to do some 'damage control' so he excuses himself and goes inside. Prerna is packing RB's suitcase. She is looking disturbed and upset. RB asks her "what happened" She says "kuch nahi.. soch rahi thi kaun se suits pack karun?" RB says "All these suits that u have selected- all of them are fine actually..." Prerna gets angrier and sweetoo is enjoying teasing her (chooo chweeet). Prerna says "Aap aisa kyun karte hain?" RB says innocently "kaisa?" (wow he looked so handsome and sexy in this scene....just amazing) Prerna says "Abhi abhi to aap aaye hain aur phir se ja rahe hain" RB teases her again "matlab suits ka to bahana tha...mera jaana tumhe accha nahi lag raha.." Prerna says sarcastically "mujhe achha kyun nahi lagega...aap ka kaam hain, aap jayiye " (hehehe they have such good chemistry! this scene was really funny, romantic and cute) Finally RB says "Haan lekin is baar main akela nahi ja raha hoon, tum bhi mere saath ja rahi ho.." (WOW- isn't he the sweetest husband !) Prerna is surprised !!! she says "lekin.." RB says "Main ne kaha na- hum dono ja rahe hain. now u pack your stuff also !" and he walks out of the room. Prerna is very happy and she smiles to herself. RB comes in the hall where Anubaba is sitting. RB tells him- " Mr. Basu, I want a favour from u. We are going for holiday but Prerna is worried about Sneha – Prem. " Anubaba says "You guys should go, since u haven't gone anywhere after the wedding...don't worry about the kids, I'll look after them." (WHATTT? what's wrong with Bajaj? Doesn't he know that Anubaba and Prerna are so irresponsible with kids.....Shravan is staying with Anubaba for like 2 months and he is already kidnapped twice. not to mention Diya's numerous kidnappings. cant Bajaj leave the kids with Vishakha and Tushar. and Prerna's mom. woh kab kaam ayegi. Can't she look after the kids. or Prerna's bro. see there are so many people but Bajaj chooses Anubaba) Sneha tells Bajaj "Papa papa, I also want to come with u" Anubaba says " you are coming with me to school!!!" he tells her they would go out in the evening, eat icecream, have fun etc. so she is convinced and goes to school with him. Then the boring part. Komolika has hired another person to kill Anubaba. (why are anubaba's wives so desparate to kill him...any guesses !!! ) But Anubaba bends down when the shooter fires, so moloy, who was standing behind Anubaba gets hit. Anubaba and his brothers run after the killer but he escapes. ambulance arrives for moloy. Poor moloy- he is the only tolerable basu- now let's see what happens to him. (I don't know why Ekta is showing all this Komolika crap, cant Bajaj – Prerna enjoy at least one holiday peacefully... and was that promo a deceiving one or what..coz no such scene happened when RB was wearing that purple shirt and grey suit- as shown in promo)

Regards,
Arti

18th Jan 2005 - by rfan

Hello ppl!

Well……I just couldn't help writing this update------(coz today I have a holiday!) Don't worry…..it's just today…..and it's only the Bajaj – Prerna scene which took place yesterday…….here it is in DETAIL----(hope u won't mind, Aarti!)

Prerna is looking out of the window…..strong winds are blowing….Prerna is pondering over something when the wind blows harder and she closes the window. As soon as she completes this action Bajaj enters the room and calls out for her. She turns…..their eyes meet….and they both approach each other . Prerna stops near a chair and keeps her hand on it. Bajaj closes in and gently moves his fingers within the gaps of hers. He holds her hand ever so gently and takes it in his (good chemistry!)…. Bajaj- (looking at her hand) Prerna maine har mod par, har kadam par tumhara saath diya hain…..mujhe afsoos hain ki itni nazuk aur itni badi ladayee tumhe akele mere saath ke bina ladni padi…..I'm really very sorry…..mujhe maaf kar dena….. Prerna- aapko maafi mangne ki zaroorat nahi hain mr.bajaj…..America jana aapki majboori thi….aur phir main akeli kaha thi…..? Anuraag tha na mere saath…. Bajaj loosens his grip over her hand and pats it as if wanting to say-"here we go again!"(hehe!).he leaves her hand and looks elsewhere. Prerna continues – Prerna – jab bhi zindagi se mere haat choot-te Anuraag mujhe tham leta…..jo dard main mehsoos karti….who bhi wahi mehsoos karta….(Bajaj is majorly pissed off and looks on un-interestedly) par sach kahoo mr.bajaj? jab bhi kisi dard ya takleef se mera saamna hota, mujhe aapki yaad aati…..kyunki ab mujhe aapki aadat se ho gayi hain….koi pareshani aaye…koi baat nahi….mr.bajaj hain na! (she says it so cutely that a sweet smile returns to Bajaj's face) par jab aap nahi the…..tab maine jana ki meri zindagi mein aapki kya ahemiyat hain! Aap jab paas hota hain to aisa lagta hain mano zindagi mukaam pe pahuch gayi ho, par jab aap nahi hote…….to sab kuch ruk jata hain……. They stare into one another's eyes when the wind blows so hard that the windows open…..Bajaj goes to the window to close it….Prerna looks on. Bajaj reaches the window but never closes it….he looks on into the darkness….. ( the hard winds……curtains flying here and there…..Bajaj's eyes…..and Prerna's emotions……a perfectly romantic atmosphere! Oooh-la-la!) Prerna comes near Bajaj. Bajaj – Prerna, maine itne barso tak tumhara itnezaar kiya par mujhe uska koi gila nahi, koi shikwa, koi shikayat nahi! Kitne jaldi guzar gaye ye saal…..par yeh jo kuch din maine tumse door hokar guzare….woh ek – ek din ek saal ki tarah lag rahe the….( he again takes her hand in his but this time very firmly and romantically---OOH!) ……Prerna hamne bahut toofan dekhe hain, bahut majdhar dekhe hain, bahut bhawar dekhe hain…..bas dekha nahi to who kinara jaha aakar duniya ruk jati hain…..(now begins an intense staring session by Bajaj……he simply speaks through them….amazing!….Prerna almost melted…there re-appeared a slight smile on her face.)…..……Prerna, hume ek dusre ki zaroorat hain….hum dono ko ek dusre ke sahare ki zaroorat hain…..who sahara jo na sirf aaso-on ko kandha de balki jo muskurahat ko muskaan de….(he closes in on Prerna………he was looking so hot and sexy….gosh! they were so close!!) they are about to kiss when there's a knock on the door by lil Sneha.

The following scenes have been described aptly by Aarti and I couldn't do that better…..
I thought that this scene HAD to be described in detail…….so just
thought of doing that for you! Ronit was amazing!!!!!!! I was left breathless…..the eye-contact he maintains with Prerna throughout and the way he holds her hand……he sure does know how to treat a lady! What a gentleman! Hope u liked it….

Do send your feedback…….don't mind Aarti…..-
ronitfan

20th Jan 2005

AS I HAD GUESSED YESTERDAY.BAJAJ HAD GIVEN A SURPRISE TO PRERNA AND
THATS WHY SENT HER ALONE TO VILLA...

STARTING MEIN THEY SHOW ANU RECOGNISING THE KILLER OUT OF ALL THE PHOTOGRAPHS SHOWN TO HIM AND THEN HE SAYS THAT I AM GOING TO MALAYSIA AND ALL HIS COUSIN GANG TO LOOK AFTER THE BABA.THEN SUBROTO LOOKS AT THE PHOTOS AND THINKS SOMETHING. (RECOGNISING HIS WIFE'S AIDS.) NEXT PRERNA ENTERS THE VILLA BY OPENING IT WITH THE KEY AND WOW..........WHAT A FLOWERS AND ALL COLOURS OF BOUQUETS FILLED IN THE ROOM AND ALL THOSE CANDLES AND ALL LIGHTING HERE AND THERE WITH A RED CARPET SORT OF THING MADE OF RED PETALS TO WALK ON...SHE KEEPS ON SMILING AND GET HAPPY TO SEE ALL THIS WELCOME TO HER WITH LOTS OF FLOWERS AND WHEN SHE MOVES TO OTHER ROOM THERE ALSO SAME WITH A BED WITH 2 PILLOWS IN STYLE AND COVERED WITH ROSE PETALS AN ALL.... SHE SMILES TO LOOK AT ALL THIS THEN SUDDENLY ASKS HERSELF WHO DID ALL THIS WHEN BAJAJ ENETRS FROM BHIND AND GIVES VERY ROMANTIC LOOK AT HER AND SAYS MAINEN KARWAYA HAI YEH SAB TAKI TUM KABHI AKELI NA RAHO.YEH PHOOL TUMHE MERI KAMI KABHI MAHSOOS NAHIN HONE DENGE.INKI KHUSHBOO.......HAMESHA TUMHARE SAATH RAHEGI SOMETHING(I DONT REMEMBER THE EXACT THING BUT VERY SWEET LOVING THING HE SAID WITH SWEETEST OF HIS SMILE MIXED WITH PASSION.............
THEN HE COMES NEAR TO HER AND EXTENDS HIS HANDS TOWARDS HER AND SHE ALSO PUTS HER HANDS ON HIS AND COME CLOSER TO HIM THEN .............VERY NICE HUG OF THEM WITH EYES CLOSED AND ENJOYING THE MOMENT AND SONG PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND AND WITHOUT ANY DIALOGUE HE TAKES OUT A GIFT FROM HIS POCKET ITWAS A LOVELY MAANGTIKA WHICH HE TRIES TO PUT ON HER FOREHEAD AND SHE IS SMILING WITH SHYING TOUCH............ALL THE ATMOSPHERE FULLY CHARGED....WHEN THE DOOR BELL RINGS AND DISTRUTPS THEM SHE SAYS THAT I WILL OPEN THE DOOR.HE STANDS THEREA ND KEEPS ON LOOKING THE MAANGTIKA BUT FOREHEAD HAD GONE TO OPEN THE DOOR............AND WHAT A SHOCK SHE SEES ANU'S FACE THERE WITH CRYING LOOKS AND TEARY EYES..........SHE SAYS ARRE TUM YAHAN ACHANAK...........HE TRIES TO SPEAK BUT COULDN'T...THEN BAJAJ ALSO COMES FROM INSIDE.........ANURAG LOOKS ALL THE FOLWER ARRANGEMENT ALL AROUND AND FEELS A BIT AWKWARD WITH EMBARRASING LOOKS ON FACE ASKS FOR BAJAJ'S APOLOGY FOR DISTURBING BOTH OF THEM THERE LIKE THIS AND THEN BAJAJ ALSO ASKS WITH A CONCERN...THEN HE TELL THEM THE WHOLE THING WHICH IS SHOWN ONLY THRU FLASHBACK AND BOTH BAJAJ
COUPLE GETS SHOCKED.........NEXT THEY SHOW ALL OF THEM IN HOSPITAL WITH MOLOY ON BED............. ..
THEN ALLTHAT MOLOY KA DIALOGUES WITH PRERNA HOW HE WANTED TO SEE HER B4 DEATH,PRERNA KA RONA DHONA.......EVEN BAJAJ KA RONA TO SEE SENTIMENTALLY CHARGED ATMOSPHERE..........MOLOY ASKES HIM TO LOOK
AFTER HIS DAUGHTER WHOLE LIFE AS PER HIS PROMISE TO HER FATHER AND SOME SENTIMENTAL DIALOGUES.........ANU COMES OUT OF ROOM PRERNA ALSO COMES OUT TO CONSOLE HIM.......THEN A SHOUT OF MOHINI "MOLOY MOLOY" AND MOLOY WENT FOREVER ALL ARE CRYING AND CONSOLING EACH OTHER.ONE MORE SCENE OF ANU SITTING ON HOSPITAL VISITOR'S SEAT WHEN MOLOY AS AATMA COMES AND TEACHES HIM THE LESSON OF LIFE AND HOW DEATH SHOULD BE TAKEN AS A NATURAL TJNG AND ASKS HIM TO BE BRAVE AND LOOK AFTER THE WHOLE FAMILY............THEN ALL IN WHITE CLOTHES SITTING NEAR MOLOY'S BODY..........ALL ARE CRYING IN THIER OWN WAY.WHEN PANDIT ASKS TO TAKE THE BODY BAJAJ GOES
TO SEE ANURAG WHO IS CRYING IN HIS ROOM WITH HIS BABA'S PHOTO.BAJAJ ASKS HIM TO CONTROL HIMSELF AND COME DOWN FOR RITUALS AND ASKS HIM TO BEHAVE LIKE AN ELDER TO GIVE SUPPORT TO OTHERS.BOTH COME DOWN AND AT
THE TIME OF LEAVING AGAIN BIG CRYING BY ALL...............

I AM VERY TIRED AND CANT WRITE MORE OR BETTER SO PLEASE IF SOMETHING
LEFT SORRY.............I KNOW NOW HOW MUCH AARTI AND OTHERS PUT THIER
EFFORTS TO DO THIS DAILY........BYE

Smita Mathur

9th Dec 2004...1st romantic scene between Rishu n Prerna (by rfan of course)

It was a fabulous episode.... finally Bajaj Prerna patched
up...Here's what happened. The update of their first ever romantic scene (when
both are in with each other-and this wasn't a dream, but REAL)

At night, they are standing near a glass window of a room...both are standing keeping a long distance bet. them-at two ends of the window. There is a chilly wind...and the night is quiet. It's snowing in panchmeshwar...both have content, peaceful expression on their faces..
Both r looking out of the window-not at each other.He says "I always loved u...wanted u to love me...but I kept giving u pain. I don't know why.." She says "Happiness can be given by a stranger, but pain can be given only by someone close to u...dard koi apna hi de sakta hain and the pain I gave u unknowingly was much more than the pain u gave me." (Bass! That's all! The topic is closed...as both have said their apologies. Now it's time for some romance!) He extends his hand towards her, she puts her hand in his…she moves closer to him, and they hug. Their eyes are closed, and they are hugging each other. They have such happy, content _expression on their faces..
The night, the chilly winds, the snow, the beautiful glass window.and the two lovers lost in a world of their - it was amazing..and they are near the glass window- everybody can see them, and Anuraag sees them, but they are not even aware that they can be seen- totally lost in each other's arms…after some time, Prem wakes up and cries a bit.. Prerna goes to an adjacent room where Prem is sleeping. She picks him up and he stops crying. Bajaj has typical 'papa' _expression on his face- a mixture of love, care and pride.
Prerna comes back near the window holding Prem in her arms. Bajaj again takes her in his arms. Taking Prem in his arms too. They play with Prem together...both are smiling and really happy.

Wow, it was a great scene. very romantic. Ronit looked TOO HANDSOME FOR WORDS, and Prerna also was nice. Their chemistry was amazing.