Friends, yesterday I had made a comment about people writing abusive messages- that it is their upbringing that perhaps makes them do such things..they don't know any better way of behaving.
That general comment hurt our friend jennymanoj . She wrote me a mail and I realised that I shouldn't have mentioned upbringing or parents or anything else even in making general comments. So I am here to apologise- to jenny and if anybody else who was hurt by that comment. While writing that, I didnt realise what I was saying, but I take that back, I am sorry...
This is the whole mail convo bet. jenny and me today, that I am posting here as per her wish: If u r gonna read it, plz read it bottom upwards.
I also request my friends not to reply to this. Others can reply ofcourse. They are free to do so :)
yeah sure go ahead atlast afcourse uve cme on to ur aukaad'aakhir 3rd class log to 3rd class hi rahege na'-instead of quitely apologising u wanna copy paste the whole convo-u freely do so neha-im a very starightforward person n this pinch wudnt affect me😆let every1 noe vat r ur true intentions 2 -- Previous Private Message -- I was just wondering aloud abt that sort of behaviour..like- how can ppl say such things... I didn't realise it would hurt the same people who were so carelessly hurting others. But I dont want to hurt anybody :) And ofcourse, you can believe what you want to believe. -- Previous Private Message --
n i dnt noe why u ppl consider it as downmarket,coz when it cmes to english speaking i can speak way better english than any of u guyz do,but i dnt lyk to show off,i am cultural n i like to remain cultural though ur intentions werent to hurt others u did hurt me,now who noe's whether u did it intentionally or unintentionally?😕 Jenny, I had made a general comment, I didn't take ur or anybody else's name in my message. The kind of language some people use here, is considered very downmarket in the society I live in. That is why, I wondered why these people were never told by their parents not to use such language,etc. Still, i accept that I shouldn't have said what I said...even though it was a general comment. I understand that you assumed that the abusive message-poster I mentioned were you and you felt bad. and I am sorry for that. If you are going to post this thing in the forum, you can post this message from my side as well or I'll copy-paste it in the forum. I believe that my words, shouldn't hurt other people, even unintentionally or even when I am not taking anyone's name. So I am really, sincerely sorry for hurting you. I believe that my message or my presence on IF shouldn't hurt people. So sincere apologies.It was a bad day and I said it in the heat of the moment. Well I just lost control for that moment. Now I feel that I shouldn't have brought up the topic of parents here. Next time I'll think not once but 100 times before posting anything in the mains. So I sincerely hold my hand up and accept my fault. If there is anything I can do to make it up to you, please let me know. Regards and apologies, Neha | |||||
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